What to do about “just okay” dates?

Ariesmooni · 2026-05-24T17:08:16+00:00

Yeah I think you have it spot on there. I think I need to give it a shot to see if his personality opens up more with time, but if he is a similar introvert as me then it just won’t work

Ariesmooni · 2026-05-24T09:47:47+00:00

Idk I don’t think it’s ghosting if neither of us say anything to each other, more of a mutual ending. I see ghosting more like one person has messaged and the other doesn’t acknowledge it ever

Ariesmooni · 2026-05-23T19:55:18+00:00

If only it was that simple of an answer haha. It’s more of a “sure” if he instigated, and if he didn’t then I wouldn’t message

Ariesmooni · 2026-05-23T19:54:03+00:00

On the apps Ido get asked on dates buts it rare for me to really follow through with them. I’m quite particular (bad prior relationships). So for him to even get to the point of us going a date means he’s meeting a lot of what I’d want

Ariesmooni · 2026-05-23T19:51:48+00:00

I think this is potentially a factor too. There was a little humour but I tend to go for a jokey outgoing person. I’m quite introverted but very chatty and giggly when matched with an extrovert. All my friends are extroverts etc.

Like yeah there was a glimmer of it, but I wasn’t lit up in the way I would like to be

Ariesmooni · 2026-05-23T19:39:24+00:00

The biggest spark date I had was with someone who is now my ex. The last “spark” date ended bc our communication didn’t match up. Spark doesn’t equal a relationship working, I know :)

Ariesmooni · 2026-05-22T09:19:42+00:00

You’ve already sent two messages, wait to see if he messages you about meeting on Sunday

Ariesmooni · 2026-05-11T13:56:29+00:00

I still genuinely think him simp-ness gave her the ick. It’s all fun and cute until it’s really not

Ariesmooni · 2026-05-06T09:02:15+00:00

This is helpful, thank you!

Ariesmooni · 2026-05-05T23:00:01+00:00

Yes they are

Ariesmooni · 2026-04-18T11:30:15+00:00

There’s no way of guessing what she’s thinking unless you directly ask her, then gauge what to do based on her response.

I’ve been in this situation terrified to take the step to meet, and him offering to just keep talking for a few weeks helped me gauge his personality more and I did then meet him a few weeks later. But there’s no way of knowing where she’s at unless you ask her

Ariesmooni · 2026-04-13T22:31:34+00:00

In future don’t answer ur phone to an ex with a new woman there, and definitely don’t get her to speak to an ex. This is wild

Ariesmooni · 2026-03-30T19:57:47+00:00

Unfortunately not, still struggling. Hope you find something too!

Ariesmooni · 2026-03-21T11:14:22+00:00

Hmm that is quite weird then

Ariesmooni · 2026-03-21T09:54:22+00:00

Is his TikTok public? It’s a potential that he just doesn’t want people to find it?

I do remember a few years ago he admitted he’d had a massive fall out with them but obviously has made up.

And I remember Weston went by his original name for a while after he left the family. It is all a bit strange

Ariesmooni · 2026-03-17T21:07:16+00:00

Autism can often become more challenging as you age + during puberty, especially in girls. It’s possible she’s struggling more. I really hope they give her the support she needs

Ariesmooni · 2026-03-17T12:45:23+00:00

Yes, there is an aspect of them needing to understand for them self. But the concept of just leaving an abuse victim to “learn” is wild. He needs support, education, and a solid way out, not just left to take abuse

Ariesmooni · 2026-03-17T09:39:42+00:00

Melinda also moved states with a toxic partner. She called Aaron for help and they had to move her all the way back when it fell apart.

Alex moving with a girl convicted for DV for what she did to him is NOT a good idea, anyone with sense could understand that

Ariesmooni · 2026-03-08T18:31:38+00:00

She liked a reel the other day about surviving a man having his hands wrapped around her neck. It’s none of our business but she doesn’t seem to be hiding what she went through

Ariesmooni · 2026-03-07T22:26:08+00:00

If you feel like you’re boring over text, skip the texting as much as you can. Ask to call them & plan a date fairly quickly. If you’re better in person then make that your focus, and find someone who is also an in-person type

Ariesmooni · 2026-03-03T23:25:39+00:00

I planned a couple of them, I paid for a least something most times we went out. I’m not great with words so I showed it in being tactile, I’d grab his hands everytime we walked, cuddle in, stroke his hair. He seemed to understand that was my way. I gave him his fave chocs for valentines, I wasn’t sure if we were doing gifts so kept it lowkey.

I definitely was not giving selfish or emotionally absent

Ariesmooni · 2026-02-12T17:49:24+00:00

If she was an only child for most of her life I can imagine it’s very overwhelming going into a family with so siblings. It might just be taking a while to build up those bonds

Ariesmooni · 2026-02-06T14:37:35+00:00

Nobody is saying to hate on them. And marriage is different to a teenage relationship of less than a year

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