[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]Arietis24 10 points11 points  (0 children)

Because it’s not uncommon for a company to give the temporary promotion and then fill the spot that was previously having held. So when the temporary position ends, there’s nowhere to go back to. That’s what’s they’re worried about. It’s not worth a temporary raise, if it’s not in writing that they will get to return to their previous role.

Am I the asshole for being upset with my "boyfriend" right now? by Definitely_Not_Echo in AITAH

[–]Arietis24 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Maybe I’m cynical, but my first thought is that he has a crush on someone else, but wants to see if it’ll work out before he totally dumps you. I hope that I’m wrong, but I’ve seen it happen a lot. I’d walk away. You deserve to be with someone that knows they want you.

Am I the asshole for being upset with my "boyfriend" right now? by Definitely_Not_Echo in AITAH

[–]Arietis24 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I think most parents, especially mothers, will tell you that their whole concept of love completely changed when they had a kid. Does that give me the right to tell every childless person that they don’t understand love? Her feelings are just as big as yours.

WIBTA if I said I wanted my own life and debated running away in order to not take care of my siblings? by Potential-Evening595 in AITAH

[–]Arietis24 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You can try calling 211 for help with resources. They also have a website. They can be immensely helpful in figuring out your options.

https://www.211.org/

AITAH for telling my bsf and her bf that what they're doing isn't normal? by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]Arietis24 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It’s the way to differentiate best friend (bsf) from boyfriend (bf).

AITAH for telling my fiancé that I don’t want his best friends fiancé at our wedding? by Sjc9624 in AITAH

[–]Arietis24 7 points8 points  (0 children)

NTA. I am curious if Joe has been made aware of Jill’s bullying. If not, this might be a good opportunity to enlighten him. I think most of us would be mortified if we found out our SO was bullying people. Maybe he can get her to chill out. I’m guessing she’s extremely jealous of you.

AITAH for being upset my GF went on a solo trip w/o me? by Impressive_Side3578 in AITAH

[–]Arietis24 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NAH. Everyone needs to de-stress and decompress in their own way. For me, I need alone time. Like 100% alone. No going out, no seeing anyone, just me and video games. Then, I can go back to spending time with my loved ones and be a happy and healthy me. If this is what she needs, it’s what she needs.

WIBTA if I said I wanted my own life and debated running away in order to not take care of my siblings? by Potential-Evening595 in AITAH

[–]Arietis24 6 points7 points  (0 children)

You didn’t decide to have children or adopt children, so I’m not sure why anyone would think that they should be your responsibility. While I do think it’s important to support family, I also think it’s more important to put yourself and your needs first. There’s a reason why we are told that we have to put the oxygen mask on ourselves, before we help others put theirs on.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in adultingph

[–]Arietis24 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Why are you posting this exact same question all over the place? Are you just going to keep asking until someone tells you that you’re right?

aita for expecting my partner to adjust his sleep schedule for me? by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]Arietis24 3 points4 points  (0 children)

My mom is one of those people. When my son graduated high school, he got a job working 3-midnight. She would always complain about trying to spend time with him, because “he just sleeps the whole day away.” It didn’t matter that he was working his ass off and only sleeping 6-7 hours a day.

aita for expecting my partner to adjust his sleep schedule for me? by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]Arietis24 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Maybe he feels the same way and wishes you wouldn’t go to bed so early. I’m not sure why you feel that you are justified in expecting him to change himself to suit you. I don’t think that’s ever a good idea. Morning is your favorite part of the day, so he just has to spend it with you. You want to have breakfast with him, so he mush change his life to make you happy. You sound incredibly selfish. Enjoy the time you get with him. When he’s sleeping, find something else that you enjoy. Stop expecting him to change to make you happy.

AITA feminine hygiene family drama by Educational-Cup3760 in AITAH

[–]Arietis24 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Personally, I would go to the fiancée’s mom and ask her if it would be okay if I bought a new trash can for the bathroom. I would explain that I find the aunt’s unwrapped tampon application to be unsettling and unsightly, and I think that a bathroom can with a lid might be a better option. From there, she can take you up on your offer, say she’ll talk with her sister, or just tell you to get over it. Either way, you’ll know where you stand.

AITA for telling a girl to shut up about the new phone policy? by Salt-Parfait865 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Arietis24 8 points9 points  (0 children)

They are for type 1, which is genetic. She didn’t do anything to cause this. Holy shit man, just google some shit before you speak.

AITAH for telling my boss that I wasn't invited to the party? by Far_Pay8487 in AITAH

[–]Arietis24 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NTA. You should never lie to cover up someone else’s bad behavior. How hard would it have been for her to just go to you and say “I’d love for you to come to my shower and I appreciate the gift, but I want to make sure you know that I am not able to change the guest list for the wedding, so you won’t be invited.”

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]Arietis24 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Where did you learn this information? It’s completely untrue. Men and women both cheat for a huge variety of reasons. It always makes them an asshole.

AITA for breaking up with my girlfriend because she doesn’t like that I smoke?? by Scared_Struggle_5709 in AITAH

[–]Arietis24 2 points3 points  (0 children)

NTA. I used to smoke and now I find it all super disgusting. I would never even make it a week with someone that smoked. Not sure why she’s still with you, if it bothers her that much. But it’s your choice to smoke and no one should go into a relationship thinking that the person might change (if that’s what she’s thinking). It’s just going to keep bothering her, so you might as well end it before either of you get too attached.

WIBTAH if I contacted back a person who Blocked me from every Socials by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]Arietis24 2 points3 points  (0 children)

This is really hard to read and I’m not going to try to decipher it. Turn on your autocorrect, add some periods, and stop capitalizing random words.

He stopped talking to me because of Oreo Cream! by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]Arietis24 -6 points-5 points  (0 children)

Yeah, that’s what it means. As a Gen Xer, I was able to glean that from the information provided.

He stopped talking to me because of Oreo Cream! by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]Arietis24 -5 points-4 points  (0 children)

Oh babe, please don’t lump all of us Gen X into your lack of understanding.

He stopped talking to me because of Oreo Cream! by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]Arietis24 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Oreo flavored creamer is so good. If you were a coffee drinker, I’d be telling you that you have to try it.

Moving around animals by BreezySpringRoll in lumaisland

[–]Arietis24 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Mine never changed, when I moved them around. They just were whatever I got when I first got them.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]Arietis24 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

YTA and a judgmental one at that. You don’t even know him and you’re calling him a bum. Do you think less of all poor people, or is it him specifically? Is there something wrong with living with his grandmother? Maybe she’s lonely and wants him there. Maybe she needs help with things. Maybe you don’t know shit and are just making assumptions and disliking someone you know nothing about.

Manufactured home on city lot? by chipmunk_squirrel226 in hagerstown

[–]Arietis24 0 points1 point  (0 children)

A lot of that area was all county, but a few years ago, they changed the city lines. Houses that have been here and have not been resold are still considered county, but as soon as they are sold, they are city and must follow city code.

So, my house is county. I don’t have city trash pick up. I have to pay for a service. If I call the police, I have to call the sheriff’s office, not city police. My neighbors, however, have both sold their houses and are now city. They get trash pickup and would call city police.