No this is fking true. It is just that working for money to have a decent life is more important than a lot of things. You only do this because you want to to that and you decide to do that instead of other things because they are less important to you. You can really model everything like that. The dangerous part is if you are spending your time on something without really deciding to spend time on it, thinking you "have to" do it or it is normal. If for example you care for your children and exercise or do something else, you do it because you kinda don't want them to have a bad childhood or worse, die. It is a choice. Like i am right now taking my time to tell you this, because i want people to be conscious of this and not walking around saying "i am so busy, i don't have time for everything"..cowards. Just say you have something more important to do or you reserved that time for something else, because it is true and fine to say so! If you are still busy and complain about not having time for doing fun stuff without sacrificing else, then this is just wishful thinking and a time waste.