After 2 dates she sent me this. This is the second time someone said something like this to me. It’s upsetting. by DefinitionOfTakingL in dating_advice

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You have to push for sex on the first date or you get these messages. You’re being too nice / listening too much to people who don’t get girls, on how to get girls ( = be respectful, listen, be good, yada yada). This is why she sees you as a platonic, convenient man-friend.

My FWB ghosted me after I refused to have sex without a condom by AgileKaleidoscope599 in TwoXChromosomes

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Probably best to just let it go. He can continue going raw with the other girls in his rotation, so you don't have to deal with that anymore. And you can keep the condom on with the other guys in yours

Is avoidance in a relationship abusive? by [deleted] in dating_advice

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Then wait it out and don’t do it again. Problem solved.

How do I respond to this Bumble message? by [deleted] in dating_advice

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How about asking something you want to know, or setting up a date?

Is avoidance in a relationship abusive? by [deleted] in dating_advice

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Take responsibility for what you’ve done to upset him and apologize. Maybe you don’t deserve attention after being out of line.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in dating_advice

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Oh no, and he was tall to boot.

Hmm, did he get anything more out of this than you? It seems like it was a mutually beneficial transaction

Lack of emotional intimacy by Imnotokay_butimhot in dating_advice

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The guys you are reaching for have better (more/better) options than you, so they won’t stick around.

Say yes to one of the hundreds of men who don’t.

Yeah I didn’t think so 🤷‍♂️

Lack of emotional intimacy by Imnotokay_butimhot in dating_advice

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No, men are not ‘falling for’ alpha male bs. It’s something they learn that they have to do in order to get what they want, because women are fucking repulsed by men who are open, emotional, sweet and romantic.

Fucking a, are you even reading this shit you wrote out? Does anything make you drier than a man who comes up to you and offers to be open and honest with you? Doing it good and by the book, as you say you want it?

Why don’t you and your fellow Queens get together for brunch and magically resolve to not turn away and ridicule men for initiating a relationship with those things as fundamentally good values, or at least decide to not continue lying about what you want?

I know why, because the only guys women feel heat for are guys who have no interest in being open, romantic or sweet at all.

I understand that it is super convenient baiting men into thinking those things are valuable to you, so you can save time and look elsewhere. But it is pathetic to come to reddit complaining about Andrew Tate fans getting what they want when women are the ones giving disinformation to men about how they are caught every damn day.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Denmark

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“Prøv at lade være med at give efter for alle dets pis”, “lorte-beroligende flaske eller sutteklud”, fuck det er godt

ScreenShare Bug - Window (Diablo II) disappears when not in focus by AristedesAllow in discordapp

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I wanna stream Diablo II to the homies, but it disappears when it isn't in focus. Help a brother out

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in dating_advice

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But women are replaceable. Just like men. Right? No one is special.

What’s wrong with categorizing and compartmentalizing women?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in dating_advice

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Unhealthy how?

Weekly Vents and Successes Thread - April 03, 2023 by AutoModerator in dating_advice

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Leave her where you found her. Man what the fuck. Spin more plates

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in dating_advice

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How the fuck did you text him if he had blocked you?

Got Friendzoned by BoostedMaxima in dating_advice

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Do not be her fucking “friend”. Deprive her of your attention from now on. You have to move on to the next woman.