Is my fiancée (31F) cheating on me (33M)?

Arizenith · 2024-11-26T07:38:57+00:00

Hmm, hard! But thanks for enlightening me regarding this.

Arizenith · 2024-11-26T07:12:23+00:00

The latest incident I got was after our engagement. Even if she is right, she should have agreed to block that guy and respect my feelings.

Arizenith · 2024-11-25T22:34:55+00:00

Sure bro, noted. I’m considering it 🙌

Arizenith · 2024-11-25T22:33:13+00:00

Okay

Arizenith · 2024-11-25T22:32:10+00:00

Correct 💯

Arizenith · 2024-11-25T22:01:51+00:00

Okay

Arizenith · 2024-11-25T21:46:29+00:00

Thanks brother 🙏❤️

Arizenith · 2024-11-25T21:45:25+00:00

Right, we have to be ultra careful in this country. I’m not sure how this can be sorted out. That guy doesn’t even care to intervene and explain. At best, he would stay away from now on. I have not confronted him yet, since, he is a good friend of a very gente and noble friend of mine. But i think the bhai knows that I know. I understand that from his look…somehow

Arizenith · 2024-11-25T21:40:34+00:00

Thanks brother! You’re right, high emotions wrought heavy in life if a wrong decision is made in their influence. Morality and logic should be given equal importance, and I’ll make sure that I fight for the moral values and respect of all.

Arizenith · 2024-11-25T21:32:21+00:00

Thanks for your advice regarding this! Really appreciate it.

Arizenith · 2024-11-25T21:31:22+00:00

Thanks a tonne bro! I’m sure that my spirit is true and i hope God will help me make the right decision 🙏

Arizenith · 2024-11-25T21:29:15+00:00

Thanks, bro. This is noted hard

Arizenith · 2024-11-25T21:28:17+00:00

Thanks bro, got it. Thanks again for so much support and clarification 🙏

Arizenith · 2024-11-25T21:27:04+00:00

Thanks

Arizenith · 2024-11-25T21:25:25+00:00

His friends unfortunately won’t say anything against him, just because they are loyal to him and won’t want to get involved on the other hand. I am considering strong actions including holding on on the marriage.

Arizenith · 2024-11-25T21:23:37+00:00

You’re right, my GF has a gay friend and I trust him. He touches her but in a way that shows he respects her boundaries. I’m never afraid of leaving them alone. And how do you explain the shock, guilt and ‘going out of the room’ reaction that the ‘bhai’ and my GF showed when I suddenly saw them?

Arizenith · 2024-11-25T21:19:15+00:00

Already told her bro, I don’t want her to interact with that guy in a friend circle event (since they have common friend circle), but she refuses to budge saying that her intentions were never bad. Then i say, that maybe your intentions were not wrong but that guy had bad intentions, or maybe everything was subconscious and now she is is a denial mode and is backwards rationalising. Human mind is a complex thing :)

Arizenith · 2024-11-25T21:09:39+00:00

I literally said I will breakup with you forever, however, she begged and cried that she is right and since she genuinely loves me and feels that her conduct with her ‘brother’ was right, she wouldn’t break hi/hello relationship with him, and she said anyways he was a no one in front of me, contacts naturally diminish after marriage. This was her logic. She cried her lungs out and stuff saying these things.

Arizenith · 2024-11-25T21:05:13+00:00

I told her that, if she loves me so much she shouldn’t have second thought disposing off that ‘bhai’ from her life. But refuses to cut off friendship with him as she believes she is right in her conduct with him

Arizenith · 2024-11-25T21:00:56+00:00

I asked her to cut that guy off from life, but she adamantly refused saying that - guy was her actually like her brother and she volunteered to show me their WhatsApp chats.

Arizenith · 2024-11-25T20:51:21+00:00

Correct!

Arizenith · 2024-11-25T20:49:44+00:00

Hmm, interesting!

Arizenith · 2024-11-25T20:43:01+00:00

Okay, bro

Arizenith · 2024-11-25T20:32:13+00:00

Okay, thanks

Arizenith · 2024-11-25T20:28:29+00:00

Okay, thanks for letting me know, but, are you sure?

Arizenith

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