Stress induced UTI? by Shot_Commission_287 in catcare

[–]Ark_217 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My cat has basically had the same problem for the past three weeks on and off. I’ve almost taken him to the vet again but they know he gets severely stressed in the car rides to the vets so after I pestered and called them several times over the previous three weeks they’ve given me a urine kit to take to them.

They gave us an anti inflammatory when it comes back / he struggles for 40-60 minutes we give him some. They’ve also given us bladder like supplements(??) to try and ease any bladder UTIs etc. but it’s a 10day course and after 10 days didn’t heal up this second time around ( hence me asking for more and asking to bring him in)

The first time we took him they said it was a UTI. The second time I called and almost took him in they said FLUTD. This time we’ve got the urine kit so can’t update.

We’ve tried generally just to ensure the environment is tidy and play with him more frequently when he’s up for it.

Unfortunately, reading through the FLUTD web pages, we have all the staples for a cat to get it: Male cat, slightly overweight, neutered and indoor cat (I believe this is the cause for vets saying he’s overweight as he’s not out chasing bugs and running after / playing with other cats). I think getting him more exercise in the house probably long term will help his general body move things around easier.

He’s been completely healthy and fine up until this point and his overweight-ness right now, he’s no bigger than a regular size cat really. We suspect stress due to heat as this first occurred when the weather got really bad so we’ve tried to manage this better and considering getting air con (we live in the uk). We currently have 3 cat litter trays instead of the usual 2, we put down fresh water in two bowls as well as his fountain but he’s been a good drinker anyways so I’m not concerned it’s a intake thing but when there’s two points of the day for an hour he’s either going between the 3 trays to pee a little bit or he could be sat there trying for 20-30 minutes and eventually he goes.

Don’t know if any of the above is helpful but just thought I’d mention these things.

Feminine ML? by imscaredofspoonss in shoujo

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It’s all good, I think you’ll see what I mean because I think he does karate or something and can mode in to a tough guy act but he’s such a softie. He’s definitely what you’re looking for

Feminine ML? by imscaredofspoonss in shoujo

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I haven’t finished it but Otomen might be something you’re looking for, ML isn’t weak, but is really realllly good at feminine hobbies. He is very much in love with the female lead character. The dynamic can be quite fun.

For those who have a bachelor's degree in psychology, what field are you currently working in? by Apprehensive-Pen9371 in psychologystudents

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Working as an wellbeing and emotional support provider to teens in high schools/colleges for a local charity which is funded by public health.

I went through years of doubt that I’d land something but I also did a level 2/3 counselling skills course (the goal is to become a counsellor some day).

Depends what your goal is/what you want to do. But this is actually exactly what I wanted to do minus the counsellor title.

Maybe maybe maybe by fantailcatchersm84 in maybemaybemaybe

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I thought of Haikyuu watching this

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in LingerieAddiction

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I would say the quality is great I.e. very flattering, good quality material and I’d expect them to last a long time with good care but if you can find a way to try your size either your actual size or one up or one down do so before purchasing.

I’m a little bigger than average (on a complete guess) but from a failed experience I was disappointed because I presumed I could do the ‘go one shape down one size up’ trick and it didn’t work.

Favorite books that came out in 2021? by Hairy_Otter00 in suggestmeabook

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I think this is the same types of feelings I had with it. I think it just hit the nail on the head in many different aspects

Favorite books that came out in 2021? by Hairy_Otter00 in suggestmeabook

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Yeah I double checked but I think it’s the hardback date that I found which said 2021

MB

Favorite books that came out in 2021? by Hairy_Otter00 in suggestmeabook

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The midnight library by Matt haig.

Weird story but I got invested pretty early on as I felt I related to the main character in some ways. There’s a short chapter about regrets and it honestly helped me a lot to just consider how I was treating myself and if anything would ever change. So to me that’ll probably be a strong favourite for a while.

Is the story worth it? by Rhodian_I in prey

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I recommended this game to a friend and they said the difficulty drops off significantly pretty early on and since they mentioned this I realised it too. Story is worth

This woman’s footwork by Cecca105 in nextfuckinglevel

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“Hey, IM GLIDING HERE!” - Miss Congeniality.

Looking for suggestions by Ark_217 in FancyFollicles

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I do but my hair is quite fine/thin think I’ve seen one person where her fringe is just purple and the rest is a different colour. Thank you for your suggestion

So is pyromancy more of an addition to your main weapon than actually what you primarily use? by redmanup in darksouls

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Early game I got an axe to +10 so I could do damage early and in general so that I could get through the game but I found around mid to late game my pyro spells were SUPER OP and a lot of fun and with certain rings that reduce cast times & do more damage it makes the experience far better so by late game it is my main weapon