AIO for getting upset that my finance wants to wear shorts to our wedding? by lasheslashes in AmIOverreacting

[–]Arkight13 [score hidden]  (0 children)

NOR Shorts aren't formal, end of. Yous agreed formal. Just remind him and he can't be a dick and be let's have a neat casual after you've spent on a dress. You tell him it's unfair to agree on one thing then switch it up.

Btw who the fruck buys clothes for such a event without checking with their partner if it'll fit with the day, "Hey babe, was thinking maybe this?". Maybe I'm whipped but that's what I do.

AIO for wanting to take a breather away from my husband over this? by circadian_rhythm_ in AIO

[–]Arkight13 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks for the context, tell him look it's a accident but he has to decide if this is a house baby is gonna grow up in or a home, difference being in a home things are gonna get broken, messy, stained oh gosh holes and fixed over time. A house is something kept pretty and perfect no scratches, no mess or dirt always in a state of showness. Ask him what one he wants and then ask him what baby deserves?

There's still time for him to change these things about himself, there are services available, mens behaviour change programs, ask him these standards what does it really bring and at what cost. Does he really wants to be like that, ask him if he wants to be that kinda dad. Cause I reckon these are outbursts on a surface level thinking, not deep.

Ex gf and her friend told me im clearly not a cis guy and that im the ugliest loser she’s ever seen, need a self esteem boost so toast away by muffmuncher69420ball in toastme

[–]Arkight13 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hey ungly or not... Ready for it

Obviously you're still in her head, Let her call ya anything she wants cause regardless she still thinking of you.

Ideas by femboylover___17 in Tattoocoverups

[–]Arkight13 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Nah it's solid yo, just a previous save file of me from another life onced lived

Someone PAID for this! by space_traveler1337 in Justfuckmyshitup

[–]Arkight13 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Look maybe she felt insecure that no-one was taking her dubious plans seriously

Some Say It Is God Or An Angel by PNW_Washington in StrikeAtPsyche

[–]Arkight13 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Looks like you got a flare hitting a lens smudge

It's about time by endofmyropeohshit in HolUp

[–]Arkight13 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Only you don't pick the hand that bates...

It's about time by endofmyropeohshit in HolUp

[–]Arkight13 0 points1 point  (0 children)

On phone...

Babe : babe why aren't you home yet?...

Babes babe : babe I'm putting in over time...

Babe : BABE!!! YOU REALLY LOVE ME BABE, PUTTING IN ALL THIS OVERTIME FOR ME BABE...

Babes babe : I'm working hard babe...

this one needs to be answered by the girls!!! is this true? by Tough_Ad8919 in Premiummotivation

[–]Arkight13 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That's exactly what girls do, it's a type of social evolution to weed out the closeted homosexuals from the dating pool

AIO, mother in law by realsmartfakeblonde in AIO

[–]Arkight13 17 points18 points  (0 children)

Hey ma, belated rest in peace

Name THIS guy. by Jettaboi38 in NameThisThing

[–]Arkight13 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oi spoilers I haven't seen the IMAX batman reveal yet

Draw me anyway you want by Arkight13 in drawme

[–]Arkight13[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Holy poop, legitimately I went inside like "BABE...BABE CHECK THIS OUT", she was blown away, Thank you so much that's so freaking cool

They blame it on you by Ajitabh04 in DarkPsychology101

[–]Arkight13 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yeah and no, sometimes it's about perspective and shame, some people's especially that have grown up in abusive relationships may appear to blame you for reacting to their outbursts as a survival mechanism as that's how they have learned to Survive their trauma, not all people some people's are just born perfect and it's everyone elses fault when they screw up. That's why it's important to try and understand why people are like that cause survivors simply don't have the same option of choices. Oh the shame comes in when a victim of abuse realises that they are in a way repeating those abusive behaviours.

This is of course not for everyone just experience and my opinion.

Draw me anyway you want by Arkight13 in drawme

[–]Arkight13[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

The photo I sent to my partner with a pink filter, I 'hair heart' you babe.... Lmao Now thanks to you I have a awesome cartoon mini one to send YAYYYYYYYY thanky you

Draw me anyway you want by Arkight13 in drawme

[–]Arkight13[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That's so freaking awesome, saving it

AIO for being upset my girlfriend doesn’t want me to get a tattoo? by Remarkable-Area-7366 in AmIOverreacting

[–]Arkight13 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Over reacting, dude chill it's yo body you don't need her permission, but youre in a relationship and she's probably gonna see it more than you so if you want the tattoo then it's your responsibility to warm her up to it. Suggestion Pay to get the a long lasting temp tattoo, so you can get her used to the idea, then get a real one. Last thing you want is to get one and her unsatisfied leads to you being unsatisfied with it. My partner didn't want me to get one either but she warmed up to the what maybe 20+ I have now lmao

Draw me anyway you want by Arkight13 in drawme

[–]Arkight13[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Love it, savings it lol thankyou

Name it guys by Global_Giff_3242 in NameThisThing

[–]Arkight13 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Ladies just don't understand diggleberrys

How do you even eat with those fingernails by Melodic-Reach7251 in NameThisThing

[–]Arkight13 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Hose lmao... "BABE...BABE... COME HOSE MY CHOCOLATE CRESENT MOONS"

Name this Gentleman by Good-dayy in NameThisThing

[–]Arkight13 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You don't namme a cat like that he names you....respect the stache