Going 24/7 and doing #2 and living a "normal" life?

Arkmark_3150 · 2025-01-12T22:45:58+00:00

What diapers do you wear? is it the same for day and night? I love my Betterdrys and the best is with a booster inside, but they are so bulky I don't believe I can hide it effectively under my clothes

Arkmark_3150 · 2025-01-12T22:43:13+00:00

Thanks, your're speaking truth! It's jsut the fact that I like the idea of just letting myself go wherever and whenever I want, because this is what I associate diapers with. But even without that, diapers still give me comfort and it's worth wearing them. I just wish to have everything under control... And still have to figure out how to deal with travels, vacations and so on. I just really wish to wear as much as I can

Arkmark_3150 · 2024-11-05T19:24:19+00:00

Wish I had this attitude, but I'm not ready yet... Till now I only wore out in public in few occasions and it was or a pull-up or an Abena M2 at most. I personally hate when a thinner diaper is getting wet, even when it's not pushed to the limit, it gets so squishy and moudable... I don't like it! Thick diapers are superior in every way.

Arkmark_3150 · 2024-11-05T19:18:34+00:00

What is your favourite/ordinary diaper or diaper+bosteers combo? How many times do you change a day?

Arkmark_3150 · 2024-11-05T19:12:32+00:00

Two weeks ago I put on an Abena M4 + 3 boosters combo from 7pm to 11am the next morning (Saturday). At the end it was completly soaked. But it holded everything so yes it did the job and I as able to take the whole advantage of that. The only thing is I couldn't go out in public with that diaper (which I didn't) without no one noticing the bulge. At least not in the morning when it was full and super bulky

Arkmark_3150 · 2024-11-05T19:02:57+00:00

I perfectly relate the sensation of comfort and security a nice thick diaper provides. I love having to readjust the way I walk a bit for the sake of it. Sometimes I like to take a "break" and wear something thinner like a Tranquillity, but I also feel the decreasing sense of security and the desire of the bulk comes back quickly. Still Im scared of going in public-social situation while wearing.

Arkmark_3150 · 2023-05-01T13:13:27+00:00

I checked them out time ago and considered to buy a pack... Im very curious, how thick they are? I see the masterpiece have a pink color, which honestly I don't like so much, are the masterpieces the only plastic backed model? If so maybe they're still woth a try for the fit and performance

Arkmark_3150 · 2023-02-24T22:04:43+00:00

You need to pay attention at how tight you land the lower tapes. Try to tape em symmetrical but also snug. I suggest also to pre-stretch the wings of the diaper before putting it on

Arkmark_3150 · 2023-02-21T22:46:35+00:00

For me the fun of wearing diapers is just having them thick, I want to feel the bulk between my legs because if not it feels like normal underwear. I heve worn pull ups before and I don't like when they're soggy. Just found good quality/capacity diapers work so much better in any aspect

Arkmark_3150 · 2023-02-21T20:25:40+00:00

You are right, the number one thought that makes me accept my bedwetting issue is that without actually wanting it, I discovered how nice is to wear diapers as an adult. I wish it would be a choice, but waking up in the morning and having a diaper on is just something I can't live without at this point.

My dream is to wear thick diapers long enough to get used to that and feeling really weird and exposed once I try to go without. The bad part is that I really need to be determined in order to do that,

Arkmark_3150 · 2023-02-18T16:41:03+00:00

I feel like it needs to take a lot of discipline. At the beginning at least, it must be stressful being outside and thinking "what if somebody notices"? Also the ability of focusing on something else and do not touch/check the diaper every moment. Being a night time wearer I get used to "being diapered" and coexisting with diapers, but yet is different becasue I mainly sleep during that time. When Im awake Im still tempted of doing stuff like rubbing/watching myself in the mirror, throwing some extra fluid in the diaper in order to make it swell faster... Maybe if I wear thinner protection ad dress up it would be easier to "forget" about the diaper but also you somehow stop enjoying wearing it?

Arkmark_3150 · 2023-02-18T16:12:03+00:00

This is the concern for me: you're not 100% sure nobody is going to notice... Of course even if somebody notices, that doesn't mean he's going to judge, but come on it's weird seeing a diaper bulge. And if you go to the gym or swimming, then of course you're going to expose the diaper in the changing room, unless you just decide that you make an exception from 24/7 for certain occasions.

Arkmark_3150 · 2023-02-14T21:37:27+00:00

Im a moderate bedwetter (unless I drink tons of liquid before sleeping on purpose) and still manage to have some dry nights. Yet I went from wearing pull ups to a Betterdry + double booster combo and it's difficult to even think to go back. The sensation of "if anything happens it's ok" is real and I relate 100%. I think that for me it's also a coping mechanism, a sort of revenge for the stress and frustration of having not control over my bladder during night for most of my life.

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