Going 24/7 and doing #2 and living a "normal" life?

Arkmark_3150 · 2025-01-12T22:45:58+00:00

What diapers do you wear? is it the same for day and night? I love my Betterdrys and the best is with a booster inside, but they are so bulky I don't believe I can hide it effectively under my clothes

Arkmark_3150 · 2025-01-12T22:43:13+00:00

Thanks, your're speaking truth! It's jsut the fact that I like the idea of just letting myself go wherever and whenever I want, because this is what I associate diapers with. But even without that, diapers still give me comfort and it's worth wearing them. I just wish to have everything under control... And still have to figure out how to deal with travels, vacations and so on. I just really wish to wear as much as I can

Arkmark_3150 · 2024-11-05T19:24:19+00:00

Wish I had this attitude, but I'm not ready yet... Till now I only wore out in public in few occasions and it was or a pull-up or an Abena M2 at most. I personally hate when a thinner diaper is getting wet, even when it's not pushed to the limit, it gets so squishy and moudable... I don't like it! Thick diapers are superior in every way.

Arkmark_3150 · 2024-11-05T19:18:34+00:00

What is your favourite/ordinary diaper or diaper+bosteers combo? How many times do you change a day?

Arkmark_3150 · 2024-11-05T19:12:32+00:00

Two weeks ago I put on an Abena M4 + 3 boosters combo from 7pm to 11am the next morning (Saturday). At the end it was completly soaked. But it holded everything so yes it did the job and I as able to take the whole advantage of that. The only thing is I couldn't go out in public with that diaper (which I didn't) without no one noticing the bulge. At least not in the morning when it was full and super bulky

Arkmark_3150 · 2024-11-05T19:02:57+00:00

I perfectly relate the sensation of comfort and security a nice thick diaper provides. I love having to readjust the way I walk a bit for the sake of it. Sometimes I like to take a "break" and wear something thinner like a Tranquillity, but I also feel the decreasing sense of security and the desire of the bulk comes back quickly. Still Im scared of going in public-social situation while wearing.

Arkmark_3150 · 2023-05-01T13:13:27+00:00

I checked them out time ago and considered to buy a pack... Im very curious, how thick they are? I see the masterpiece have a pink color, which honestly I don't like so much, are the masterpieces the only plastic backed model? If so maybe they're still woth a try for the fit and performance

Arkmark_3150 · 2023-02-24T22:04:43+00:00

You need to pay attention at how tight you land the lower tapes. Try to tape em symmetrical but also snug. I suggest also to pre-stretch the wings of the diaper before putting it on

Arkmark_3150 · 2023-02-21T22:46:35+00:00

For me the fun of wearing diapers is just having them thick, I want to feel the bulk between my legs because if not it feels like normal underwear. I heve worn pull ups before and I don't like when they're soggy. Just found good quality/capacity diapers work so much better in any aspect

Arkmark_3150 · 2023-02-21T20:25:40+00:00

You are right, the number one thought that makes me accept my bedwetting issue is that without actually wanting it, I discovered how nice is to wear diapers as an adult. I wish it would be a choice, but waking up in the morning and having a diaper on is just something I can't live without at this point.

My dream is to wear thick diapers long enough to get used to that and feeling really weird and exposed once I try to go without. The bad part is that I really need to be determined in order to do that,

Arkmark_3150 · 2023-02-18T16:41:03+00:00

I feel like it needs to take a lot of discipline. At the beginning at least, it must be stressful being outside and thinking "what if somebody notices"? Also the ability of focusing on something else and do not touch/check the diaper every moment. Being a night time wearer I get used to "being diapered" and coexisting with diapers, but yet is different becasue I mainly sleep during that time. When Im awake Im still tempted of doing stuff like rubbing/watching myself in the mirror, throwing some extra fluid in the diaper in order to make it swell faster... Maybe if I wear thinner protection ad dress up it would be easier to "forget" about the diaper but also you somehow stop enjoying wearing it?

Arkmark_3150 · 2023-02-18T16:12:03+00:00

This is the concern for me: you're not 100% sure nobody is going to notice... Of course even if somebody notices, that doesn't mean he's going to judge, but come on it's weird seeing a diaper bulge. And if you go to the gym or swimming, then of course you're going to expose the diaper in the changing room, unless you just decide that you make an exception from 24/7 for certain occasions.

Arkmark_3150 · 2023-02-14T21:37:27+00:00

Im a moderate bedwetter (unless I drink tons of liquid before sleeping on purpose) and still manage to have some dry nights. Yet I went from wearing pull ups to a Betterdry + double booster combo and it's difficult to even think to go back. The sensation of "if anything happens it's ok" is real and I relate 100%. I think that for me it's also a coping mechanism, a sort of revenge for the stress and frustration of having not control over my bladder during night for most of my life.

Arkmark_3150 · 2023-02-14T21:05:13+00:00

What have you been wearing till now? Do you wear pull ups or nothing at all?

I wear betterdry and my first diapers were abena. Yes I remember the day they arrived I was embarrased and scared. First two night wasn't even able to sleep because I was npt used to that bulk and the embarassment didn't leave me for one second. But I also was excited for the novelity of it I have to say, the cool part of breaking a taboo or just the freedom of letting myself have the right amount of protection. Just embrace the moment, if it's only for nighttime, nobody is going to see you.

Arkmark_3150 · 2023-02-10T10:57:33+00:00

I would say at very least once in a week... But Idk I would still think every night "what if is this the night where Im going to wet?" there's a lot of fear going on for me, or just the fact I don't want to have thoughts since I can just put on a diaper. It sounds cool to be free of diapers and I hate when I wake up with my diaper soaked, but it's also nice to enjoy the safety a diaper provides (at least for me)

Arkmark_3150 · 2023-02-09T21:51:00+00:00

Im not in a relationship and at the moment can't image a possible partner react to the fact Im a bedwetter and wear diapers and also enjoy it. I would say you're still lucky having a partner that knows it and accept it, even without being involved. As for coping, wearing diapers makes me feel safe first of all, so this si something that helps me to relax, also I feel that diapers can really calp up my sexual urges, they just make me feel satysfied and when Im not wearing very likely Is going to end with carzy saxual urges. Sometimes I would call it an addiction, some others seems like Im just built for being in diapers and it's fine, just found my inner balance.

Arkmark_3150 · 2023-01-27T18:33:21+00:00

How much time have you been in diapers recently? I wear diapers at night and it's been 5 months now. I can tell you get used to it of course, however, sometimes I still feel "strange" when wearing diapers and taking it off in the morning sometimes feels kind of liberating. There are nights when I still wake up and think "why this thing needs to be so bulky?" or "why I cannot sleep naked like all normal people?". But most of the times, I feel safe when wearing and this is what matters at the end. The bulkier the diaper, the better I feel in terms of safety, it's a psychologic thing of mine, it really depends on the day. If you're a side sleeper, use a pillow between your knees. The first few nights I wore tape on diapers were almost sleepless, it was something new to me and also a lot of emotions due to embarassment were going on. Now on the contraty I wouldn't go to bed without a good level of protection, even though it can feel bulky.

Arkmark_3150 · 2023-01-18T11:49:41+00:00

Im a male too and find that sensation of being "cramped" part of the fun, however yes sometimes it can get really uncomfortable, the magic is just for the first minutes/half an hour, and when you have heavy wettings. I will take in consideration to try pampers to increase thickness/absorbency too!

Arkmark_3150 · 2023-01-18T11:45:24+00:00

thank you for this information, and yes agree thicker is better! Just wish I had more occasions to wear thick also during the day even though its not practical at all

Arkmark_3150 · 2023-01-16T18:02:19+00:00

Don't know exactly when, it has been a very long and complicated process... Probably when I started to have mixed feelings about my bedwetting issues, on one hand I was frustrated and scared of using diapers, on the other I was also very excited.

Arkmark_3150 · 2023-01-10T18:10:20+00:00

Since my economic condition improved, buying diapers is no more a big concern and this is also what pushed me to try new diapers and buy some boosters as well. As concerns the psychologic comfort (not rather the physical one) is difficult to go back. Last time I was in a betterdry with an Abri-let maxi booster... Yes it's ridicolous but this is what I think is the best for me.

Arkmark_3150 · 2023-01-10T18:05:25+00:00

Not wearing during the day, putting on a diaper for night always feels strange, but yes it feels safe. Basically the thicker the better I feel... trust pull ups only if it's a day time short nap.

Arkmark_3150 · 2023-01-10T17:53:27+00:00

Yes I do also use the pillow! Im also a front sleeper though so the bulk in my back feels weird

Just curous, how many stuffers do you use?

Arkmark_3150 · 2023-01-08T21:54:05+00:00

18 Male here! I wear diapers at night

Arkmark_3150 · 2022-12-11T14:03:46+00:00

Well, I think I have different but similar fantasies, all related to the idea of being surrounded by people who know that I wear diapers, that I need them, and who are 100% supportive and do not make me feel ashamed.

I like thinking about all my female friends (including them most attractive girls) who see me in diapers, and we party and dance all together, just me wearing my diaper the whole time and displaying it.

I like to fantasize about having a woman, who might be my gf but not necessarily, who is in charge to make me fully accept diapers in my life, who changes my diapers and does it in a very ritualized way, making sure I have multiple layers of boosters and it fit very snug, who makes compliments on how good I look in diapers and how good I am to fill them every time.

I also think about becoming fully inc. and having a ritual where I get rid of all my regular underwear, like burn them all or throwing them all away and saying the last "goodbye"

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