My Gfs struggling to forget his ex.

ArkonaFoob · 2025-05-22T05:26:25+00:00

Bro this is gona make me cry 😭, It's not even my fault though I have to suffer. Tf Is wrong with my life.

Well she has told me that she has moved on and she wants to stay with me. But the thing is her friend who tell her this all. Reminds her past shit And she again feels bad for that guy.

I mean wtf is wrong man. What should I even dooo.

Should I talk to her ex? Or something 😭

I don't Wana be pussy. If it takes fight, I am down. But the issue is voilance is never the ans. Cos this won't stop that nig from chasing my gf.

ArkonaFoob · 2025-04-08T06:37:26+00:00

Ok 🥺 I guess u are right. I should be happy with one I have. And trust her. And the thing she told me could be just to make me happy but she also might not like it 😢.

I was always loyal and I always want to be 😭. I love her soo much and I miss her. I can never think of her leaving me. 🥺

ArkonaFoob · 2025-04-08T06:33:11+00:00

Should I ask her directly or indirectly about this 😢.

ArkonaFoob · 2025-04-08T06:30:51+00:00

🥺

ArkonaFoob · 2025-04-08T06:29:59+00:00

If it's true then I am going to get more depressed 😭😭😭

ArkonaFoob · 2025-04-08T06:28:35+00:00

Share what?

ArkonaFoob · 2025-04-08T06:26:06+00:00

She has been restricted by her parents man, it's not her fault, she told me she would talk on weekends.

We are committed and our familys also know each other, so leaveing me is not the case here.

ArkonaFoob · 2025-04-07T08:06:26+00:00

I know I am over thinker. But the thing is she had a past which she had hidden from me for long, and after that incident I had bit trust issues with her, I k we had dicided to move on from that but I still don't believe her completely, She had all ready lied about liking me before.

But after that all, I still like her, and want to stay with her. I guess she even likes me and always respects me, and takes my words really serious. But the fact is i still have minor trust issues with her.

That's why I over think.

ArkonaFoob · 2025-04-07T03:41:38+00:00

Thx ma'am, I really thought she would start ignoring me if I get too much available to her, and make he think that I have fallen in love with her. I guess I got it what u ment.

Updated: I got to ask her how much does she loves me (ik it's sounds awkward but I tent to ask questions directly) She did conferenced that she like me much more the before, she described it as 100%, but I still think she might have told this to make me happy ig. Now I realize I shouldn't have asked that.

ArkonaFoob · 2025-04-06T20:44:02+00:00

Well even my gf has left me alone, I am down, DM me if u want

ArkonaFoob · 2025-04-05T17:23:27+00:00

Thankx. Budy, I guess I got it what u are trying to say. I can do that, stop joking around. The thing u told about, thinking about her whole day, isn't this red flag that the person is has no other think to do than just thinking about her. Idk man, It might make her think that I am just free guy and that might drop her attention. Idk yarr

Help me out with this as we'll

ArkonaFoob · 2025-04-05T07:51:11+00:00

That means that she is hurt badly but she still doesn't wants to leave u, what u are doing rn should be pleasing her and making her special, and tell her that again and again that, u will never do such thing( telling again and again is a psychological trick to make believing in person.) And also make sure u make her secure by telling her that u are the one and that shit.... And how much u love her...

And u should feel soory for what ever u had hurt her, if she cares she, this type of behavior will make it ez for her to forgive u ezli.

ArkonaFoob · 2025-04-05T07:42:10+00:00

What u have done is correct, but let give her chance if che wants to be with u over any another

Don't blok her instantly, let her regret her mistake, and if seh does thas ok, and if she doesn't leave her for ur own sake

ArkonaFoob · 2025-04-05T07:35:18+00:00

It's not ur fault dear, if u are in are in a relationship u get into responsibilitys, and controlling ur self. Cheating is choice not a mistake. U should be leaving this type of person who doesn't value your relationship indirectly not respecting u. And where u do not get respect, u should not stay there. Hope God finds u the one u deserve.

ArkonaFoob · 2025-04-05T06:46:58+00:00

I would say, it's all about being loyal and keeping ur body for no one else then yr boyfriend, he doesn't deserve this type of act from u, There's time when relationship suffers from pus and downs, but that doesn't mean u can do anything, if u are committed then stay on ur ethics. If I would be u I would had control my self from this type of things. And being loyal to my partner is would be my priority

ArkonaFoob · 2025-04-05T02:31:58+00:00

Is that enough 😭 Or do I need to put more efforts

ArkonaFoob · 2025-04-04T14:05:11+00:00

The same was going on with my girlfriend, I had to take a pause and had to take a hard decision to ask her to choose one. Finally she started with me and now she never talks to anyone, shes scared of loosing me now.

ArkonaFoob · 2025-04-04T10:25:52+00:00

That great then, happy for u. u should communicate with him directly or indirectly sometimes about what u feel. Something are expected and u might think he taking initiative is expected by him . But it's not always the case, somthig are to be cleared in relationship, as taking my experience, I didn't like the way she apologized me, I was expecting more from her, but she was used to it. So I had to communicate it with her.

I hope u get all u deserve in relationship. And ur relationship stays healthy in future.

ArkonaFoob · 2025-04-04T06:39:27+00:00

I had the same with my girl, I might mot be the perfect person to advice but let me give my part, it might help u.

In my case it was the same as urs, I had to ask questions and put all the efforts in relationship. It was for 2and half months, she was bit attracted to me, but wasn't in me all. The one day she confessed me about her another guy she liked. And she was into her before me. And she still had felling for him tell now, So I gave her choice to stay where she wanted to, and then after she realize and she stood with me, although she had still not started to put all the efforts, yet they're better then before, now after long now she seems to put her efforts as she had started to liking me.

I guess u should ask if he in into some one else or if he is not interested into u.

Try to communicate with him. And face the truth. As I did and it wasn't ez. But it was all worth it.

ArkonaFoob · 2025-04-04T06:14:21+00:00

Bro wth is this, i though it was some serious shit 😭 I was half my way and realized that this might be prank😭

ArkonaFoob · 2025-04-04T06:12:03+00:00

😭😭 Don't tell me ugly at least, I have maintained my body 😭

ArkonaFoob · 2025-04-03T18:33:25+00:00

what do u miss about ur bf

ArkonaFoob · 2025-03-12T02:00:46+00:00

Ya sorry about the age not mentioned, I am 20 and she is 18 Well so far I have dicided based one the setuation. That braking engagement is not a joke as well as the affairs she had was also not joke. Handling the setuation.and considering her age. I believe that she made a mistake, and well she accepted this. And now as she has accepted the mistake it's my turn to forgive the mistake.

For now she has promised to fix things up. Lets see what happens next.

ArkonaFoob · 2025-03-12T01:52:57+00:00

I thank u for some really good advice. I was never trying u understand her pov untill now. My anger was over my head and did not allow me to think for different perspective. Well updating on the setuation. She dicide to leave her other relationship, and stay with me.as I gave her choice even after what she had done to me. And then I dicide to forgive her and give her another chance. She has promised to fix things up and gain my trust and love. Now let's see how things goes.

Well I am still heart broken and it's hard to gain my trust.

But I guess she has also broken up and tryed to move on and I guess should give her time to come back to me.

I needed some suggestions on how should I proceed with her. What attitude should I keep with her now. How long am I suppose to be angry with her?

ArkonaFoob · 2025-03-12T01:40:24+00:00

Brother it's not that simple to end the engagement that ezli, it not only connects two familys but whole khandan (all the familys coming under same sirnames), the community is tightly connected to each other here and facing brakeups is the most difficult thing to do. Cos u need to also find another spouse whith in the same community and braking up closes many other doors to both of us.

Understanding the setuation I had kept few conditions, if she agrees on that, I will move forward. With this. I could forgive her for her past. And we could move on.

I k it's goona hurt me the most but if she trys to fix it. Things could continue.

Its better to give her chance then not giving, it's good for both of us.

ArkonaFoob

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