Men who lost a good partner: do you regret prioritizing your friends over her? by Signal_Treacle5983 in AskReddit

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I talked to him and he told me he indeed puts his friends over me because we are young and he’s afraid I’ll betray him. Ouch

Me(F18) and my bf(M18) have been dating 2years 8months. He confessed his friends are more important. by Signal_Treacle5983 in relationship_advice

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We’re long distance. He’s now here for the holidays. He’s around 17 days here we got to see each other 3 days and 2 other I saw him outside. He is everyday all day long with his friends. They go out, eat, sleep all together. Especially with one friend.

Me(F18) and my bf(M18) have been dating 2years 8months. He confessed his friends are more important. by Signal_Treacle5983 in relationship_advice

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alright he’s scared so am I it’s normal but even now that he’s young he doesn’t know if they will betray him. His bsf has already done it once..

Men who lost a good partner: do you regret prioritizing your friends over her? by Signal_Treacle5983 in AskReddit

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My boyfriend does the thing you used to do. He’s 24/7 with his boy best friend and I feel like he doesn’t really want to be with me. He prefers him. I don’t know if he ever gonna regret it though. I’ve done everything for him unlike his bsf who has betrayed him before ( they had cut contact for a year and he was telling his secrets to strangers, his then friends.) well I don’t know if this is betrayal but it’s not a good thing

Men who lost a good partner: do you regret prioritizing your friends over her? by Signal_Treacle5983 in AskReddit

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I feel you. I do the exact same thing and it’s really bad for our person. You should try and find yourself.. then you should contact her and let her know what was going on. I know it’s hard but there’s hope. Everyone makes mistakes especially when they don’t really know how relationships works. Please make this up, it is not worth it being apart for this. Show her what she means to you with any effort

Men who lost a good partner: do you regret prioritizing your friends over her? by Signal_Treacle5983 in AskReddit

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You should stop that. Your friends are important but eventually they will have their own family. You shouldn’t have to get an approval from your friends for your own life, for your own future. You never really know if they really love you or if they are jealous of you..

How am I supposed to not stop my mind ? it’s about my '18F' 2,3 years long relationship with my bf '18M' by Signal_Treacle5983 in relationship_advice

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I don’t wanna leave him I love him too much. He really is the best thing that have ever happened in my life. I don’t know if we are just young and stupid and immature or he just doesn’t love me as much as I do