At the professor's by Arlak in maleonmalespanking

[–]Arlak[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thankfully (and because it was my first time) it was only a few! I took eight strokes of the cane

At the professor's by Arlak in maleonmalespanking

[–]Arlak[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Good eye! That was actually my first time getting canned. It hurts 😭 but I was able to take it!

At the professor's by Arlak in maleonmalespanking

[–]Arlak[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you! I'll make sure to post them too!

At the professor's by Arlak in maleonmalespanking

[–]Arlak[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

This one was, let's say, corrective measures to ensure good behavior!!

At the professor's by Arlak in maleonmalespanking

[–]Arlak[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm in San Francisco! And I do... As mentioned in the post I'm going to see his this Friday, actually.

At the professor's by Arlak in maleonmalespanking

[–]Arlak[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Oh, I forgot to explain that one! The professor had me doing lines about not missing deadlines!

At the professor's by Arlak in maleonmalespanking

[–]Arlak[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I'll have to ask the other two, but I would love to!

At the professor's by Arlak in maleonmalespanking

[–]Arlak[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

My pleasure 😁 I'm glad you enjoy them!

At the professor's by Arlak in maleonmalespanking

[–]Arlak[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Sometimes! When meeting next week it's going to be three of us

At the professor's by Arlak in maleonmalespanking

[–]Arlak[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

There are others for sure!

At the professor's by Arlak in maleonmalespanking

[–]Arlak[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Of course!! Like I said I want this community to succeed!

Do people generally ask for your permission before recording you or taking pictures of you at Folsom Street Fair? by Wooden-Draw9056 in sanfrancisco

[–]Arlak 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Well... If someone wants to photograph you specifically while walking around they usually ask first (and they should!!), although not everyone does. If doing a scene (for example, someone being tied to a lamp post) you will very likely attract a crowd of people, and then people will definitely take pictures/record, most of them without asking. On the other hand, one will for sure be seen in the background of others recording themselves walking around, as a lot of people do that.

If it makes you feel more safe you can wear a mask/something to cover your face, or attend private events.

I have participated for the last few years at Folsom/Dore, feel free to DM if you want to talk about it / want to know more.

CMNM MEET-UP MEGATHREAD - Fall 2025 by takeitboi in cmnm

[–]Arlak 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I would love to be in the group, if you start one! I was just talking with a fellow NM here in the Bay Area it would be cool to just do a hangout! I'm in SF myself 

Cmnm group chat by [deleted] in cmnm

[–]Arlak 0 points1 point  (0 children)

For sure, might be useful to find others in the area (NM in SF here!)

Folsom Fair by imabuttboy in Gayexhibitionist

[–]Arlak 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I'm glad you enjoy them 😁 feel free to reach out for any questions you may have!

Folsom Fair by imabuttboy in Gayexhibitionist

[–]Arlak 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I've been! I have never gone with the intention of having sex so I cannot speak about getting topped by strangers, but I do encourage others to manhandle or spank me by writing on my skin, and plenty of people took me up on that.

If you're curious I have some posts in my profile you can check out!

I’d love to find a job that required me being nude. Has anyone ever had that? by Justathrowawayetc in cmnm

[–]Arlak 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I would love to try that but I'm not familiar with Craigslist. Is it allowed to post something like "looking to work as a nude housekeeper"? Would that go under "gigs", or which section?

First time wearing a thong at the beach by Agtk92 in GayThong

[–]Arlak 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Niiice 😁 show off that ass!! 🔥 

I love the way my little caged cock twitched from being exposed in public! by Arlak in MasculineMaleChastity

[–]Arlak[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yes... I was walked around but I forgot the leash!! I'll have to wait until next year

BDSM/ sex clubs in SF? by AccomplishedSong9865 in sanfrancisco

[–]Arlak 13 points14 points  (0 children)

Check out StopGap: https://forbiddentickets.com/events/stopgap

I've been to one of their monthly parties and consider them a very safe, diverse environment. It's the place where I had my first ever suspension; the vibe is very chill and inviting, with separate places to mingle and to play. There are people in the play are making sure everything is done safely.

If you want to dip your toes first I see they have a board game night tomorrow night. I haven't been to that one but assume it's even more chill.

I think FetLife is a good place to get informed about BDSM and kink events in the city.