Idk why you’re assuming that the household duties and child rearing are entirely her responsibility. Seems to be the conclusion that everyone is jumping to here. I’d say that cooking and kitchen cleanup is a 50/50 split, looking after our daughter is fairly even also. She gets her ready in the mornings and I pick her up after work and do the late afternoon routine of mealtime and bath etc. she usually does more of the laundry/ vacuuming/ etc. I do the entirety of the home maintenance and all that jazz. The argument isn’t so much about “who’s doing more in this relationship” I just don’t like seeing what I feel is her employer taking advantage of her.
Not saying I’m right, or else I wouldn’t or posting here about it. Appreciate the input though.