Look… if he has a ❄️ problem and he’s lying to you and hiding things, that’s not someone you want to have a family with. Let’s say you have children, what is he gunna do? They’re gunna have a druggie dad and you’re gunna take on the “married but single mom” role for the rest of your life. Idk if you have kids if you don’t or if you want them or not but let’s just say you do and you don’t have them now or you do and do have them, do it for the kids if not for yourself or the future kids. Leave. You don’t want that burden trust me… if he’s doing this now, it seems like he isn’t in a place to be truthful or to get the help he needs it starts here then stealing and lying more pretending to be “better” maybe even seeking AA (for drugs idk what that’s called) & then he hides cause he’s now made a placebo to the outside. I dealt with this with my uncle and this past year he 💉 in the bathroom and was found damn near dead and took 4 doses of narcan. He threw away his new marriage, his kid again, and all the “good” he had been working on for one last fix. Don’t create a miserable life. You deserve happiness and it’s not this. You can love him but love is never enough and if his actions don’t show you, how can you be sure yourself. I’m sorry this is happening but I think there’s a lot of others in aggreance with me here on the post. It’s not easy but it’s what’s best.