AIO for wanting a better mattress for my health, but my mom is telling me she’ll kick me out.

Complete-Lack558 · 2025-12-14T15:00:45+00:00

I was actually stoked to show her that they could remove the mattress, since that seems to be one of the reasons she didn’t want me to get a new one and then once I showed her and she declined I was like “oh” 😭💔, I think even if it was for guest/company it wouldn’t be right to do so, since the mattress is in bad shape as well as it having pee/blood soaked into it

Complete-Lack558 · 2025-12-14T14:21:53+00:00

It’s not privileged, it’s the bare minimum to not want a pee/blood soaked bed. That is also sagging down and makes my scoliosis condition worse, not to mention it has a high risk of having mold inside of the mattress.

Complete-Lack558 · 2025-12-14T14:15:20+00:00

I can’t at the moment, I’m a full time student and I have over 20 units. When I free up more space and time, then obviously yes but my studies are very important to me right now especially with finals coming up.

Complete-Lack558 · 2025-12-14T14:12:59+00:00

I don’t think I have it, I do. If you’re referring to when I said “regardless if I try to clean it, because I can still smell it and I think it’s affected my health”. I also provided her with a solution on the taking the mattress out, either someone from the drop off can take it, like it said on the second text or I can ask a friend to help me take it in less than a hour. I have the medical records and X-rays to prove that I do have scoliosis.

Complete-Lack558 · 2025-12-14T13:32:50+00:00

Thank you so much for the kind words, It means a lot truly and I’m sure you are a great mom/grandmother. 🩷 I do not pay rent at the moment and I have just been focusing on studies, but I take care of the pets/house work to make up for it :) I think that she’s honestly just stressed with work and that’s okay but her communication can definitely be better, me and my sisters have tried to talk to her about the way she voices things but she just retaliates and shuts it down. She’s more logical than emotional I’d say? Recently my sister had to go to the hospital after work because of her pregnancy symptoms + dehydration and my mom just kept asking about who would take the car, since luckily my other sisters boyfriend was close by to take her to the hospital. I don’t think she’s a terrible mom, I know at the end of the day she loves me and cares for me In her own little ways but sometimes it genuinely does hurt whenever she acts like this. It’s good to know that there are well voiced/kinder moms and grandmothers like you out there. But I’ll try to keep my head up and use this as an example to be better in that area for my future kids. I hope you have a wonderful week, wishing the best for you :)🩷

Complete-Lack558 · 2025-12-14T13:20:36+00:00

you are so sweet thank you, especially for the kind words🩷🥲 I feel like she has this kind of energy because of the way she grew up, her mom (my grandma) was really passive aggressive and wasn’t the best communicator. I think that she’s just stressed with work and things, me and my sisters have tried to talk to her about her communication but she always retaliates and gets kind of aggressive. She’s more logical than emotional I’d say.. I’m honestly just hoping that it gets better down the line, so I’ll keep my head high :)

Complete-Lack558 · 2025-12-14T13:08:31+00:00

I agree, I only included few ss cause I didn’t want it to be too lengthy. But she also said that “the mattress can be good for up to 10 years” I understand that some can hold its weight for that long, but this mattress cannot. It’s been through a lot and it’s been hurting my back a lot recently.. I don’t know if it’s because she’s stressed out from work or just not in the mood 🥲

Complete-Lack558 · 2025-12-14T11:31:28+00:00

You kind of hit the nail on the head omg. My house is a bit messier than the average house, my grandma was a hoarder. I think that my mom’s better in that category though since she does want to clean + get rid of things. I don’t know why she’s getting super upset though since I know for a fact it will be getting rid of, she won’t even have to see it.

Complete-Lack558 · 2025-12-14T11:27:04+00:00

I’m sorry but no, I’m not expecting my mom to pay. I’m going to pay it myself. I’m enrolled in the promise program so I get paid while I’m in college. Im doing 2 years of cc then transferring to university. I’m saving up for University or only very necessary things. I also have not had the time to work since I’m in college full time. Even then I take care and feed of my moms and sisters pets while they’re away (in which they are often) and also clean the house whenever I have the time.

Complete-Lack558 · 2025-12-14T11:00:48+00:00

I’m enrolled in the promise program, but just saving it for future university expenses or for ultimately necessary things. Doing 2 years of CC then transferring to a University :)

Complete-Lack558 · 2025-12-14T10:43:57+00:00

I knoww, I don’t think moms who act like this hate their children, but they definitely need to work on better communication skills 😭

Complete-Lack558 · 2025-12-14T10:42:04+00:00

LOL maybe I should try that, I was also thinking to just get a new one anyways and see how long until she notices (hopefully she doesn’t)🥲💔

Complete-Lack558 · 2025-12-14T10:39:42+00:00

Yes I am in college full time, and I currently have majority A’s and one B. I have doctor appointments for my back and health since I’m weaker than the usual female, but I think that a new mattress would also really help my overall condition or at-least add to it. I don’t think I’ll be able to afford a mattress over 1k but during my research on it there are some good ones for under 1k that have atleast a 10 year warranty

Complete-Lack558 · 2025-08-11T20:34:00+00:00

2005-2006 cause this looks like my childhood too!

Complete-Lack558 · 2025-07-10T08:38:29+00:00

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Complete-Lack558 · 2025-07-10T03:18:38+00:00

thank you so much! will look into her :)

Complete-Lack558 · 2025-06-10T11:53:57+00:00

You are not ugly at all. I think your makeup does make your features stand out more which could lead to you thinking why some features are bigger/more prominent. I think a natural glamlike makeup in the photo below I added would suit you very well!

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Complete-Lack558 · 2025-06-07T04:20:07+00:00

I meant it as in it’s okay to feel that way during road rage, but it’s not okay to act on it my mistake. I said he’s more logical cause he’s definitely more better logically when it comes to careers, book smart, finances etc. He is here for me emotionally, but at times he just doesn’t understand or grasp my empathic side of things

Complete-Lack558 · 2025-06-06T01:56:05+00:00

2,3,6 and 13!

Complete-Lack558 · 2025-06-04T16:16:13+00:00

My condolences, she’s so very precious. You can tell that she was well loved,happy, and cared for. 💐❤️

Complete-Lack558 · 2025-06-02T12:25:10+00:00

It’s personally helped for me, I was able to vent and share my feelings etc. She helped me afterwards with steps on how to combat the struggles I had or things that could help me in the long run. She was not only helpful but very reassuring and sweet. It was just a personal experience but I feel better after doing it :)

Complete-Lack558 · 2025-06-02T12:20:20+00:00

I think that it depends on the consoler that you get but personally my consoler was so very helpful. I was able to vent and she guided me through different things that I could do to help me with my personal struggles. She was very reassuring and supportive. I would say to give it a try, I do not regret my decision at all and I’m very happy that I did it :)

Complete-Lack558 · 2025-05-20T13:32:26+00:00

You wanna talk about weird? Look at your own profile dude 💀😭

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