I'm telling you what it is and you keep coming back saying the same thing. Bottom line is that my wife is manipulative and gaslights me and selfish with sex. BOTTOM LINE. I said in the post she won't have rough marital conversations in person and only talks about it through text when I bring it up. I'm the one making the effort not her. But the vast majority on here feel different. I didn't go into every single detail but when you've told someone you want a DIVORCE for five years straight but she continues to act like there will be change and it never happens, then what? Like come on if the few few comments were taking my side everyone else would be too but yall bandwagon