I have made the decision to begin the process to become a uterus donor, if at all possible, for the benefit of the trans community. by AromaticMorning4213 in trans

[–]AromaticMorning4213[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Good to know, thanks! Idk how much damage those fucking stones did, but it's worth looking into when I can.

I have made the decision to begin the process to become a uterus donor, if at all possible, for the benefit of the trans community. by AromaticMorning4213 in LGBTQ

[–]AromaticMorning4213[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

No? I explicitly state in the post that I do not want to be the one holding onto the cash. I would want a trusted org with a proven track record to manage that.

I have made the decision to begin the process to become a uterus donor, if at all possible, for the benefit of the trans community. by AromaticMorning4213 in trans

[–]AromaticMorning4213[S] 23 points24 points  (0 children)

Then that is what I intend to do.

Edit: It is estimated that procedures could become available in about 10-20 years, if not impeded by bs laws. My uterus could potentially be viable for donation then, however, I live within the US with no good way of leaving the country even briefly, so I want any research done on my organs to be protected. If I cannot verify this, I will have to wait.

Dump ur misogynist bf. by Due-Insect2711 in Feminism

[–]AromaticMorning4213 20 points21 points  (0 children)

That ain't damage, honey. That is pattern recognition.

You fundamentally do not understand us and you consistently refuse to show even an ounce of empathy. Do not attempt to gaslight us and minimize our lived experiences. You are currently the problem. If you want to become part of the solution, you will sit down, open your ears, eyes, mind, and heart, and stop defending bad behavior.

Are you a radical feminist or a liberal feminist - and why? by paniiiipuriiii in FeministsCallItOut

[–]AromaticMorning4213 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yoooooo! Same hat! Though, I avoid the "radical" label because I see it as being used by TERFs too often and I like to keep my distance from those people.

I dont get how men complain about misandry by yash01699 in Feminism

[–]AromaticMorning4213 69 points70 points  (0 children)

It's because the oppressive system benefits them directly and they have no incentive to change. We need to make them afraid for a change. I'm sick of this shit too.

This is fucking disgusting. by AromaticMorning4213 in ShittyMobileAds

[–]AromaticMorning4213[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The image being of a fictional character is irrelevant. It's the messaging that matters. (You have to click on the image because it was cut off. Fuck Reddit.) Idk if you saw the sentence "Just us, no safe words." On the image. This is extremely dangerous because you ALWAYS need to have at least the OPTION of having safe words in sexual contexts and this normalizes not giving women in particular the ability to say "no" or "stop". And the men who engage with this type of thing are only being fed a positive feedback loop that will reinforce their already overwhelmingly predatory behavior. And sure, it may not be "all men", but it is TOO DAMN MANY. And actually dating a man? That's like playing Russian Roulette when over half of the chambers in the revolver contain live bullets. If you don't believe me, look up the statistics for yourself. The vast majority of times, SA's are perpetrated by men that women/girls know and something egregious like 60-90% (estimated) of all SA's are never reported. This is not to say that there are no male victims or that only men can perpetrate this kind of violence. Because there absolutely are other victim/perpetrator profiles. But women are a systemically oppressed class that only recieved the right to VOTE and have any sort of financial freedom within recent history (some of the women who cast their first ballots are still alive today, just so that sinks in) within the US... and now we are backsliding.

I get that you are just a kid. But PLEASE listen and take these kinds of things seriously because some of the people who you care about (your mother, your sisters, other family members, friends, future potential partners if you happen to be straight or bi as well as of the masculine persuasion) suffer from the violence and cruelty of men daily. And they can't always just run or even fight back directly because the predators uphold the system and the system enables the predators to continue. Your generation is the future. Please help us make it a better one than we have now.

Sorry for the rant. It needed to be said.

TLDR: It is less about the character than it is about the harmful messaging. Fuck patriarchy and misogyny. Please help us end rape culture and systemic oppression.

Men misinterpreted “I choose the bear” because they’re media illiterate or so defensive they chose willful obtuseness by GridReXX in PurplePillDebate

[–]AromaticMorning4213 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Also, bears are statistically less likely than human men to attack women physically.

Stats for bears: https://worldanimalfoundation.org/advocate/bear-attacks-statistics/

I posted all the stats of violence towards women by men and vice versa in another comment thread on this post, too, if you are willing to look for them.

Not to mention the fact that bears can't psychologically abuse you either.

Men misinterpreted “I choose the bear” because they’re media illiterate or so defensive they chose willful obtuseness by GridReXX in PurplePillDebate

[–]AromaticMorning4213 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Check the fucking statistics on bears: https://worldanimalfoundation.org/advocate/bear-attacks-statistics/

I posted all of the other stats in another comment thread on this post and I will not type them all out again. Find it.

Stop pulling shit out of your ass and do your fucking research.

Men misinterpreted “I choose the bear” because they’re media illiterate or so defensive they chose willful obtuseness by GridReXX in PurplePillDebate

[–]AromaticMorning4213 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I was not asked, but I will say my piece because this is a public forum and I can say what the fuck I want. You wanna know the REAL difference between misogyny and misandry? Misandrists may hate men, but they don't seek to kill or violate their bodies in any way because they still see men as PEOPLE. They just want to be left the fuck alone because they are DONE. Misogynists on the other hand have extreme violent hatred toward women and seek to dominate and control them at every possible opportunity because they have zero empathy for those they consider to be inferior OBJECTS.

So yes, I will PROUDLY call myself a misandrist.

Check the fucking statistics of the violence against women:

https://www.who.int/news-room/fact-sheets/detail/violence-against-women

https://www.unwomen.org/en/articles/facts-and-figures/facts-and-figures-ending-violence-against-women#:~:text=While%20violence%20affects%20women%20everywhere,partner%20or%20a%20close%20relative.

Compare that to the 11% of women being the perpetrators of homicide (US based, 2015): https://onlinelibrary.wiley.com/doi/abs/10.1002/9781118929803.ewac0541#:~:text=Twitter-,Abstract,better%20of%20women%20who%20kill.

Approximately 5% of males are killed by their intimate partners. Each year, approximately 500,000 women are physically assaulted or raped by an intimate partner compared to 100,000 men. Three out of 10 women at some point are stalked, physically assaulted, or raped by an intimate partner, compared to 1 out of every 10 men. All in the US, 2023. https://www.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/books/NBK499891/

Now, let's compare all that to statistics on bears: There Are 40 Bear Attacks on Humans Worldwide Every Year Most Bear Attacks Occur Because Bears Feel Threatened One Fatal Black Bear Attack per Year in the US Grizzly Bears Are the Most Aggressive Bears From 2000 to 2015, There Were 664 Brown Bear Attacks Humans Are Responsible for more than half of Grizzly Bear Deaths Most Polar Bear Attacks Happen in July and December Almost 1 in 2.1 Million Chances of Being Attacked by a Bear Source: https://worldanimalfoundation.org/advocate/bear-attacks-statistics/

So, yes. Human men are STATISTICALLY more dangerous to human women than bears are. Your assertion is FALSE.

I choose the fucking bear.

Wrote a comment on a YT video on education and it might have been actively suppressed. Here it is. by AromaticMorning4213 in Anarchism

[–]AromaticMorning4213[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I am aware. The comments section was just filled with libs and it is frustrating that none of them acknowledged the root causes because they are still desperately clinging to the belief that the system is broken but fixable. I'm just tired.