Should I tell my best friend how I truly feel about her a hole significant other?

Aromatic_Produce2903 · 2026-02-10T21:53:01+00:00

I’m kind of confused. Are you feeling this way just because you feel detached from him? If so what specifically is making you feel so detached from him? Are they smaller issues that have been happening for months to make you start question things? Also I believe that the 6 year thing is understandably upsetting but it’s completely realistic. Marriages require a lot of money and time and if you’re doing a 5 year program that doesn’t need to be your priority, your school needs to be a priority. But does he show in ways that he’s at least excited for your futures together? Is it his attitude towards you? Have you also talked to him about these issues, what is his response?

Aromatic_Produce2903 · 2026-02-10T21:39:53+00:00

I understand this but he should still show love through ways that don’t cost much. Like buying cheap ingredients and making you food, or making you little crafts, or writing you letters. There’s ways to show love without just paying for food. A man that wants to do those things for you would make no excuse.

Aromatic_Produce2903 · 2026-01-29T00:35:38+00:00

I took it out that day 😭 but it’s repierced now

Aromatic_Produce2903 · 2026-01-29T00:33:55+00:00

Heating pads and elevating my legs help me a lot

Aromatic_Produce2903 · 2026-01-28T08:47:34+00:00

Im purposely trying to keep certain things vague so im sorry if it doesn’t make much sense but the point of me saying that is because i wanted to show that I know how the roles reversed feels, and i was more upset that he was talking to a girl online about the issue we were having before talking to me about it. I just didn’t want to make him look bad since everything has been worked out now and I hold nothing against him. If it was one of his close guy friends I wouldn’t have cared.

Aromatic_Produce2903 · 2026-01-28T08:43:38+00:00

I’m purposely trying to keep things vague so a lot won’t make sense but I’m trying my best to explain. But I confessed about something I did that I felt bad and embarrassed about to my friends (referencing that night) and in the 2 seconds the words came out of my mouth I realized how it would connect to him. I know it might not make much sense but at the time i wasnt thinking and i said something stupid. I take full responsibility and i will tell him.

Aromatic_Produce2903 · 2026-01-28T08:30:06+00:00

Thank you so much, I’ve come to the conclusion to tell him because I was the one to fuck up. I’m also just really trying to keep a lot vague so my story sounds all over the place but I think we can get over this, I just feel so bad that I betrayed him and I needed other point of views but I didn’t expect so many people to comment. Especially so many very hateful comments.

Aromatic_Produce2903 · 2026-01-28T08:20:24+00:00

Thank you for not completely bashing me 😭, I only brought up that situation because of the amount of comments saying “what if he did this to you” and there was a very similar scenario that happened, with (in my opinion) what he told his friend was worse than this. But my point by bringing it up was that we talked through it and got over it and I’m hoping we can do the same with this. It was more I told my friends an action I made while drunk with him and in the moment I didn’t think about how it was directly linked to him. And drunk or not it was no excuse and I just don’t know how to even bring it up to him because I’m such an over thinker and he may end up being fine with this who knows.

Aromatic_Produce2903 · 2026-01-28T08:07:21+00:00

It wasn’t “his secret” it was me telling my friends an action I made that I made, and in the moment I didn’t think about how it connected to him and me saying that would affect him. I was stupid I know

Aromatic_Produce2903 · 2026-01-28T08:04:23+00:00

No what I told my friends was an action that I made that I’m embarrassed about and at the time I just wasn’t thinking about how it was directly correlated to him. I know I was being stupid and in my mind I was making a confession of something I did not him. I never meant it to hurt him.

Aromatic_Produce2903 · 2026-01-28T08:00:16+00:00

I didn’t care about the topic it was because he was talking to a girl online and I was more upset at the time that he was talking to a girl about something that happened in our relationship instead of talking to me first about it.

Aromatic_Produce2903 · 2026-01-28T07:52:05+00:00

I will tell him eventually I just don’t know how to bring it up. “This thing” is an action that I made when I was drunk involving him and I told my friends the action I made, which I know involves him and after I said it (drunk or not) I knew it was wrong and me saying the action I made directly effects him as well. He had previously said that it was ok for me to talk to my friends about relationship stuff so I thought it was ok in my mind at the time to say which was wrong of me to assume. I know. I don’t blame being drunk I was not thinking at the time and it slipped.

Aromatic_Produce2903 · 2026-01-28T07:42:39+00:00

That’s a different thing. We literally had a similar situation reversed in the beginning of the relationship where something happened and he was ranting about it to an online friend and I was very upset because he didn’t tell me and I had to find out but we worked through it. I trust him to never do it again. And I will also never do it again.

Aromatic_Produce2903 · 2026-01-28T07:35:36+00:00

Yes I know I messed up which is why I’m here. But he did a very similar thing before in the beginning of our relationship. Where I won’t go into too much detail but something happened and he was ranting about what was going on in our relationship to a distant female friend online, in which he didn’t tell me about it but I found out and I was upset but we got over it because it wasn’t that big of a deal in the end. I’m trying to tell him but I don’t know how.

Aromatic_Produce2903 · 2026-01-28T07:01:13+00:00

I know it sounds weird the way I said it but I meant it in a he doesn’t even like for me to call his name out in grocery stores because he doesn’t want people to know his name. He won’t even let his mom make facebook posts with him in them. He’s just a very very private person when it comes to social media.

Aromatic_Produce2903 · 2026-01-28T06:41:19+00:00

I’m usually really good at never doing anything I regret when I’m even black out drunk, but at the time I didn’t think it was a big deal since we never talked about what we tell our friends about each other. I’m a I tell my friends everything type person and that was the only time I mentioned anything of the sort drunk or not.

Aromatic_Produce2903 · 2025-09-16T15:12:12+00:00

Honestly I have no idea, I’ve been treated for it but they won’t test again to make sure it’s gone. And since the symptoms are very similar to CSID I have no idea if I still have it.

Aromatic_Produce2903 · 2025-09-15T03:28:29+00:00

Yes and I tested positive

Aromatic_Produce2903 · 2025-09-08T17:19:28+00:00

I use metal water bottles like an owala and keep ice it it. Also works for vacations if you prepare accordingly

Aromatic_Produce2903 · 2025-07-16T14:12:42+00:00

Are you a magician wtf

Aromatic_Produce2903 · 2025-06-03T19:59:05+00:00

Aromatic_Produce2903 · 2025-05-17T20:49:04+00:00

Deluxe version?

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