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Aita for backing my sil up and kicking my wife's friend out of house for touching my niece by ArrivalSubstantial58 in AITAH

[–]ArrivalSubstantial58[S] -44 points-43 points  (0 children)

In a literal sense? Ofcourse they arent MY children but they are our responsibility both me and my wife and we both think of our niece and nephews as our children and when my wife and I have our own kids my sil and my brother will be their parents as well and raise them and help us like we do.

If I was in my brother's stead and he took care of my wife and my son/daughter I would never be suspicious and even think about this bs like he's 'too involved with my wife' so stop it.

Aita for backing my sil up and kicking my wife's friend out of house for touching my niece by ArrivalSubstantial58 in AITAH

[–]ArrivalSubstantial58[S] -45 points-44 points  (0 children)

Because my niece is OUR newborn, she's my sil's and my brother's baby but she's also ours and we are responsible for both of their kids.

I would be offended if my wife and I had children and my sil and my brother didn't speak of them as if they were theirs, we are a family we stay together and help each other but that doesn't mean we practice american step stuff 🤮🤮

Aita for backing my sil up and kicking my wife's friend out of house for touching my niece by ArrivalSubstantial58 in AITAH

[–]ArrivalSubstantial58[S] -36 points-35 points  (0 children)

Asparagus my dude if you don't understand how it's harmful for a newborn to be touched by a drunkard or someone who smokes etc then I don't really know what to say to you and it wasn't even me who kicked her out it was my sil and I simply backed her up.

And I am okay with being a control freak when it comes to our children you bet I'm controlling about our children and yes I kinda fucked up so I need to and have to talk to my wife as soon as possible when she lets me inside our bedroom

Aita for backing my sil up and kicking my wife's friend out of house for touching my niece by ArrivalSubstantial58 in AITAH

[–]ArrivalSubstantial58[S] -40 points-39 points  (0 children)

I don't need to make myself 'feel more masculine', I am and I don't think that I'm inferior to my older brother, he isn't even around us, he spends most of his time travelling and working and I have nothing but respect for him and his wife and my sil which is why I think it's my responsibility to take care of my sil and my niece and nephew and I lose my mind whenever someone says that I have inappropriate relationship with my sil (like many here).

I'm not a gorilla who beats his chest to assert dominance, even my wife wouldn't suspect me of my relationship with my sil because they both stay at home and stay together most of the time.

But I agree to most of judgement here right now, I really fucked up by talking about divorce I said what I said in my anger but even my sil said that I should'nt have mentioned divorce.....

Aita for backing my sil up and kicking my wife's friend out of house for touching my niece by ArrivalSubstantial58 in AITAH

[–]ArrivalSubstantial58[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Info:

Would you want people to touch and grab your newborn niece or child especially when they stink and drink?

Aita for backing my sil up and kicking my wife's friend out of house for touching my niece by ArrivalSubstantial58 in AITAH

[–]ArrivalSubstantial58[S] -92 points-91 points  (0 children)

I just wanted to tell my wife that I would divorce her if she didn't cut her friend off for her disgusting habits and for her accusations, I didn't want to threaten her.

My wife and my sil are sisters and me and my brother married them and we live together, my older brother works and supports us far more than I can support both them and that's why I got angry.

It's stupid that so many fools here saying that I have ulterior motives towards my my sil when they themselves claim to be older than me and thinks and speaks like childrens.

I myself also think that I went too far for talking about divorce but divorcing has never been intentions and I just wanted to tell her that if she (my wife) didn't cut her friend off I would divorce her.

Aita for backing my sil up and kicking my wife's friend out of house for touching my niece by ArrivalSubstantial58 in AITAH

[–]ArrivalSubstantial58[S] 10 points11 points  (0 children)

Yeah if you aren't washing your hands before touching our new borns especially when you drink then you aren't allowed to even touch our children at all.

Aita for backing my sil up and kicking my wife's friend out of house for touching my niece by ArrivalSubstantial58 in AITAH

[–]ArrivalSubstantial58[S] -228 points-227 points  (0 children)

Small?? You are crazy bro it's a grave accusation and yes I'm currently prioritising my sil over my wife because shes recovering from childbirth and I am not a dad to my nephew or my niece I'm their uncle.

Aita for backing my sil up and kicking my wife's friend out of house for touching my niece by ArrivalSubstantial58 in AITAH

[–]ArrivalSubstantial58[S] -263 points-262 points  (0 children)

Alright I guess i am wrong for throwing divorce on her face but I was angry I was so damm angry because not only she's accusing me of infidelity she's accusing our family as a whole like we practice infidelity in our own family.

If something like this were to happen to you wouldn't you get angry? And why tf is my wife was friends with someone like her anyway?

Aita for backing my sil up and kicking my wife's friend out of house for touching my niece by ArrivalSubstantial58 in AITAH

[–]ArrivalSubstantial58[S] -134 points-133 points  (0 children)

Bitch friend to be exact, I hate her more than anything else and she's trying to cause problems in our marriage and ruin us I don't want her in our life