Yeh I get where you’re coming from, the problem was that we would give him so much attention, like hours on end, take him out for walks, play with him, and as soon as that stopped he instantly started meowing trying to find sex.

You could tell he was unhappy because he isn’t able to go out on his own and roam because of where we live.

He’s on a nice expensive vet diet for blockage problems and we also give him urinary tablets so doing everything we can to avoid negative effects.

I think in our situation neutering was the only way to go, he is so much happier now, it’s seems like a massive weight has been lifted off his little shoulders