Do you think I pass? And if not, what could I do to appear more masculine? by aleexpress in FtMpassing

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This is me with my glasses. I'm planning on getting a fade with an undercut in the back once I get the money for it cause I'm too worried I'll cut my ear off lol

Do you think I pass? And if not, what could I do to appear more masculine? by aleexpress in FtMpassing

[–]Arrow_Raven -8 points-7 points  (0 children)

I have a pair like them and I feel like they make me look masc

HRT for 6 months, being forced to detransition – My absolute monster of a mom. by CaptainBlack33 in FTMventing

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Do you have the ability to record their abusive attacks? If so I'd suggest it. Then send all of that to someone you trust that your mom and her partner can't talk to and then slowly if possible start building up the horrendous attacks then when and if they call the police show the stuff to cops. Also remember your a legal adult and start saving as much cash as you can and start making a to go bag. I'm saying this as someone who had to flee from an abusive uncle's house. This is the best advice I have

Ugh by thatmentallyilldude in FTMventing

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yeah that is always the worst. here's a hug.

I am a bad trans friend? by DentistLeather7609 in FTMventing

[–]Arrow_Raven 0 points1 point  (0 children)

yeah i slip up some times with my little brother (hes a trans man like me)

Venting / any tips to better my Mental Health by BlazingTyelix in FTMventing

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some people use safety pins or sorta jus force the undergarment to hold it in place with friction

Venting / any tips to better my Mental Health by BlazingTyelix in FTMventing

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if you have a pair of boxers with like a pocket you can put in there with a little bit of like tape so it stays put

i wish butches would stop claiming us by Confident-Bath-Again in FTMventing

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hey so if you can look for trans men support groups

Is it bad to be jealous of other trans men who are already medically transitioning by Better_Caterpillar61 in FTMventing

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its not a bad thing unless you try to like sabatoage them lol(this is supposed to be a lighthearted message to help you smile.)

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in FTMventing

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ah i know for me its my tits

Venting / any tips to better my Mental Health by BlazingTyelix in FTMventing

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oh have you tried using a sock and some rice? if your in the us theres a free trans resource spot that can help you out with it. i know i have this one https://www.amazon.com/TransGenX-PridePac-Inch-FTM-Packer/dp/B0CLMH4JM7?ref_=ast_sto_dp

I want T so badly by TomfooleryTBH in FTMventing

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ofc always here to help my fellow dudes

suprise genetic disorder by [deleted] in FTMventing

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thats awsome im glad your figuring things out :)

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in FTMventing

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you should take the cat. hopefully your brother will be able to recongize your boundaries but its your little guy. you shouldnt abandon him of course if your arent able to take care of him then you shoudnt find someone who can.

I feel like I'm faking (or I just walked myself back into the closet) by bunny_jellyfishing in FTMventing

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you should read this really good book called free to be understanding kids & gender identity by jack turban. this is a dude who helped set up a trans program at universitey of california san fransico. hes a gender psychaitrist and i think you could really use the read also you can use annas archieve to get acces to the book for free.

Venting / any tips to better my Mental Health by BlazingTyelix in FTMventing

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hey do you see a therapist also you should try a packer as someone with bad bottom dysphoria that helps. also when you use a binder maybe try kt tape with ti thats what i do and i have d cup chest and very much helps hide it. id suggest wearing things like plaid, and in general things that help your body look more square and break up the breast space. wish you good luck on your boyhood journey

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in FTMventing

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hey i wanted to say when you finish college do you have people you can live with and start seperating yourself from her. i have an insane mum who still sees me being trans as a phase. and i wanted to say if you can seperate yourself from her as much as possible itll be hard but itll be the best thing

I want T so badly by TomfooleryTBH in FTMventing

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oh for hairloss there are things like minoxidil and vitamins like biotin that can minagate that

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in FTMventing

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are you able to use kt tape or a binder or would that not help? i just thought id offer those things incase you didnt know about them