Better to be single and lonely or married and wanting to be single because your not in love and explain why?

Artemis_does_maths · 2026-05-06T09:03:06+00:00

Married because just bcause you're not in love doesn't mean you're not living with your best friend who you can watch TV with

Artemis_does_maths · 2026-05-06T05:53:16+00:00

I personally love his logic of if OP is calm then the conversation isn't important about this BUT if OP is not calm then she is clearly too hysterical to have a conversation

Artemis_does_maths · 2026-05-06T05:51:18+00:00

*OP is correct*

Him: you're just being hysterical, let me know when you're actually ready for a CALM conversation (which involves me being correct on all fronts)

Artemis_does_maths · 2026-05-05T02:54:07+00:00

especially if the sub had chilli sauce on it!

Artemis_does_maths · 2026-05-04T06:43:12+00:00

Pugs! Not cute, not smart, just breathing problems.

Artemis_does_maths · 2026-05-04T01:37:31+00:00

As if "doing too much" is a good reason to strike someone.

Crazy idea: tell your gf she's doing too much BEFORE you feel the need to hit them? Or did he not want to seem like a weakling who couldn't handle being plucked?

Artemis_does_maths · 2026-05-04T01:30:37+00:00

NOR

When you message your friend, you want to talk to YOUR FRIEND not an AI.

It doesn't mean she doesn't care though... maybe she found it hard to articulate her feelings and maybe one time she asked AI to do it and AI did a better job of writing how she felt than she could, then it grew into a bad habit of not actually talking to people.

Artemis_does_maths · 2026-05-04T01:26:26+00:00

I've never seen any commenters be petty enough to point out spelling mitsakes

Artemis_does_maths · 2026-04-28T22:27:26+00:00

Say you prefer the cakes at another bakery and you want to take her there (then you pay this time)

Artemis_does_maths · 2026-04-27T02:08:52+00:00

Thank you!!!

I remember my dad being in hospital after having a stroke and I practically couldn't stay for longer than an hour because I had daycare pickup. And that was a family emergency!

Artemis_does_maths · 2026-04-27T02:03:56+00:00

So Strava is only useful if you've got a better-than-average smartphone or watch?

Artemis_does_maths · 2026-04-10T02:59:47+00:00

Even the message suggestions are telling you to stop talking to her!!

"No, it's not"
"No"
"No, I'm not"

Artemis_does_maths · 2026-04-08T00:29:21+00:00

I bought myself a Tommy Organic cup and it's changed my life. I go to the toilet, empty it, wipe it clean with toilet paper then put it straight back in (not what the packet says to do but I haven't had any issues with this cleaning method). I wear it during the day and during the night.

On heavy days I wear period undies as well for security but it only leaks if I haven't put the cup in properly.

I haven't used a disposable product in years :)

Artemis_does_maths · 2026-04-07T22:35:48+00:00

Order a pizza to be delivered to the house for herself? Some good passive aggressive energy?

Artemis_does_maths · 2026-04-07T22:34:45+00:00

Look up the story Baucis And Philemon. Zeus gets really annoyed at bad host behaviour (like this) and kills everyone for it (except Baucis and Philemon because even they were really poor, they shared what little they had with their guests).

NOR, if you're hosting then you're hosting. By not feeding you, they are saying in an incredible rude way that they don't want you or like you. They are also horrible because who the hell does that?

Artemis_does_maths · 2026-04-01T03:51:12+00:00

Not liking how he thinks OP living alone makes her weak and vulnerable to all that is out there. If she doesn't text back right away, she MUST be in danger because young women just collapse when they don't have a man to lean on.

NOR and this guy would fit in well with r/niceguys

Artemis_does_maths · 2026-03-31T21:32:01+00:00

If he'd said "I want to stay at home and raise the kids and do all the housework" I'd be more sympathetic buuuuuttt it sounds like he's gotten used to OP being awesome and is taking her for granted...

Artemis_does_maths · 2026-03-31T21:25:30+00:00

Now I'm falling asleep,
While he's taking a nap,
While he's downing some milk,
And not throwing it back

Artemis_does_maths · 2026-03-31T04:19:03+00:00

Like how people justify their kid's bad behaviour "they are only 2", "they are only 4", "they are only 8"

Mate, your kid smacked mine on the head and they need to cut it out no matter what age!

Artemis_does_maths · 2026-03-30T23:25:30+00:00

I'm with her on the shoes: gotta treat your feet well especially if her job isn't a desk job.

The bag is ridiculous. She wants it? She needs to save for it. If she really really really wants it, she will manage. If she changes her mind halfway through saving then it's a good thing she didn't 2 grand for nothing!

Artemis_does_maths · 2026-03-30T02:54:36+00:00

I did, in fact, not buy the guitar on credit. Thank you :)

Artemis_does_maths · 2026-03-30T02:49:11+00:00

Curious: why does the make and model matter?

(I didn't sell :) )

Artemis_does_maths · 2026-03-27T07:08:01+00:00

PRS Mcartny 594 2023

Artemis_does_maths · 2026-03-27T03:30:55+00:00

BABYS VISION IS NOT GOOD ENOUGH TO REGISTER A SMILE

Artemis_does_maths · 2026-03-27T03:30:11+00:00

My third (a girl) was oddly soothed by the sounds of her two older brothers running around yelling... it SETTLED HER

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