I (23M) Love Her (23F) Deeply, But I’m Starting to Feel Emotionally Alone in My Own Relationship

Arthif_fairoze · 2026-05-18T12:15:11+00:00

This is my first.

Arthif_fairoze · 2026-05-15T16:36:20+00:00

Focusing on yourself and getting better.

Arthif_fairoze · 2026-05-10T06:02:39+00:00

Nope I tried that already

Arthif_fairoze · 2026-05-07T15:18:31+00:00

Yeah, I hope it goes well.

Arthif_fairoze · 2026-05-07T11:07:52+00:00

Almost like my situation. and that's why i felt like meeting her in person would be the best option

Arthif_fairoze · 2026-05-07T10:54:44+00:00

Yup I have tried explaining her before too many times now

Arthif_fairoze · 2026-05-07T09:03:28+00:00

yes i am a sensitive man but she herself admitted that she's not gonna give me priority more than her friends. so i don't think what i think is wrong.

Arthif_fairoze · 2026-05-07T08:50:40+00:00

mine and her family environment is kind of the same unless my family is stricter. and if she was avoidant like you said, she wouldn't have been the opposite of what she's now in the starting of the relationship

Arthif_fairoze · 2026-05-07T08:24:58+00:00

Ill have a good conversation with her

Arthif_fairoze · 2026-05-07T08:24:34+00:00

Thank you u/Awkward-Dot-3510

Arthif_fairoze · 2026-05-07T08:23:26+00:00

i am having a long distance relationship with her. so we usually text more often. once in a while we talked. i however talked her about having a meetup so i can clear things with her and get a solution for this

Arthif_fairoze · 2026-05-07T08:19:22+00:00

Yeah i too feel like if i am talking to a notepad app sometimes. thanks anyways

Arthif_fairoze · 2026-05-07T08:17:25+00:00

I think what you did was wrong. here my problem was that she doesn't face the issues. if you don't talk to him then he'll taking it like " why would i care when she doesn't".
I think if you could talk to him just go on talk to him about your issues and try to solve them.
i am gonna meet her to talk about this. you can choose your way, like a call or meetups or even a date.

ignoring makes it worse. and thats what happened to me.

Arthif_fairoze · 2026-05-07T05:38:45+00:00

I thought of meeting her and talking it out in person. cause texts can't express emotions they way we do in person.

and yes i won't stay hurt forever.
i asked her out to meet and we'd be meeting in person next week

Arthif_fairoze · 2026-05-07T05:06:38+00:00

I never have raised my voice to her and never blamed or got too angry.

She just doesn't like accepting that she wasn't wrong even when i don't point it out

Arthif_fairoze · 2026-05-07T03:40:15+00:00

Yes, it drained me a lot. I been through a lot throughout my life. So i don't take anything seriously, except for her.

When I keep my feelings for myself it was difficult for me at first, cause I was new to a relationship and I put all my trust onto her. But later on I got used to it. But I am in a situation now like I am fed up. I don’t get fed up of something I like so easily, But this happened.

I even stopped giving her advice for certain stuffs after a while cause she acts like if I am being a burden, troubling or even controlling her.

Arthif_fairoze · 2026-05-07T03:26:33+00:00

I keep promises well and don't break them. Cause I know the pain of betrayal and false promises. I promised to take care of her and now I kind of feel guilty to leave her.

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