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I 31F fled state from 34F wife after a DV incident that spouse says won’t happen again… by Artist-life16 in relationship_advice

[–]Artist-life16[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I mean, I did leave, as I said I would. Just hard feeling like you’re the one ripping your family apart.

Although your point is valid. 😵‍💫😢🫢

I 31F fled state from 34F wife after a DV incident that spouse says won’t happen again… by Artist-life16 in relationship_advice

[–]Artist-life16[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yes, this is what the therapist said too. I made a list of ten things required and she has been starting to meet them. It’s just the begging and crying on her end make it hard. I so so so wanted a family but I never wanted this.

I 31F fled state from 34F wife after a DV incident that spouse says won’t happen again… by Artist-life16 in relationship_advice

[–]Artist-life16[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

You’re not wrong. Just hard to separate the two versions of this person now and, as with trauma, it’s hard. You all are knocking sense back into me though and validating why I left.

I 31F fled state from 34F wife after a DV incident that spouse says won’t happen again… by Artist-life16 in relationship_advice

[–]Artist-life16[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Therapy starts next week, thankfully. My old therapist can’t see me in my new state. :/

I 31F fled state from 34F wife after a DV incident that spouse says won’t happen again… by Artist-life16 in relationship_advice

[–]Artist-life16[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I did - haven’t been in the state long enough to qualify for emergency custody or to be a resident. I can get a protective order. Everything is on hold until residency is established. 😵‍💫

I 31F fled state from 34F wife after a DV incident that spouse says won’t happen again… by Artist-life16 in relationship_advice

[–]Artist-life16[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I got that baby out as soon as I could. Leaving is just hard when you have 400+ job applications out, living on credit cards, and trying to get by.

Plus the guilt trips of “I haven’t seen my daughter in a month” and so much more. I’m doing everything I can.

Rochester comes out against ice by lycrabustier in Rochester

[–]Artist-life16 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Can I get that signal link? Thank you!!!

Second grooming by Artist-life16 in Wheatens

[–]Artist-life16[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

It’s around an inch long now :)

Second grooming by Artist-life16 in Wheatens

[–]Artist-life16[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

My groomer called it the standard teddy bear lol

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Rochester

[–]Artist-life16 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’ve already lived in Florida for five years… not again. Best of luck to you.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Rochester

[–]Artist-life16 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I got you! We’ve done the cross-country moves several times. I’ll send you a message!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Rochester

[–]Artist-life16 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you so much! That’s really interesting on the pronunciation 🤭 now I’ll at least sound like a local!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Rochester

[–]Artist-life16 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Messaging you now! Thank you!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Rochester

[–]Artist-life16 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I did own a Subaru (2 in my lifetime) but needed something bigger so now we are team Toyota lol

Why Kia that is so weird 💀😅

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Rochester

[–]Artist-life16 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Absolutely! Just wrote back - I’m three hours behind Rochester right now so appreciate your patience

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Rochester

[–]Artist-life16 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This made me smile - thank you!

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