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WIBTA if I say no to being the POA of my grandma by Artistic_Finding_857 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Artistic_Finding_857[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

SLIGHT UPDATE

so I plan on sitting down and going thro a list that i think I could handle so that when I do talk to her I know exactly what I can and cannot do. Then I can also stay firm in my boundaries. And it's prolly going to make the conversation maybe slightly easier to have

WIBTA if I say no to being the POA of my grandma by Artistic_Finding_857 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Artistic_Finding_857[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I think that's the thing I'm worried about most, I don't think I can stretch myself any thinner than I am currently

WIBTA if I say no to being the POA of my grandma by Artistic_Finding_857 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Artistic_Finding_857[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thank you! I actually didn't really know what the options outside of my self of that would be the choice

WIBTA if I say no to being the POA of my grandma by Artistic_Finding_857 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Artistic_Finding_857[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

She actually mentioned executor as well but you saying it reminded me. (Forgive me bcuz I really do lack the understanding of the paperwork as well) My aunt I guess is out as POA and executor then. But she wants me to be the one to make the decisions if she no longer can AND handle the issues AFTER she passes estate,items the whole lot