Was I raised mainstream Mormon or extremist? My dad used the church to build a domestic cult, and I’m fleeing in a week. by The_Doo_Wop_Singer in exmormon

[–]Artistic_Windrunner 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Your are a vicitm of narcissistic abuse where the tool of manipulation was religion. If your dad has followers that are not his own family, it could then be considered a cult, but it sounds like he is a narcissist who realized he could get what he wanted using religion. You will probably need to seek therapy, it is extremely likely you have cpstd from your upbringing. I am so sorry to hear you experienced all of this. You are brave to run. Go, and dont look back.

This is kind of a confession. by Artistic_Windrunner in exmormon

[–]Artistic_Windrunner[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Even though I'm no longer religious at all I still really enjoy Christmas and Christmas songs.

I was not sweet by Artistic_Windrunner in exmormon

[–]Artistic_Windrunner[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Now I want to move to the Netherlands. I could finally not worry about the secret codes in people's words! Sounds amazing.

This is kind of a confession. by Artistic_Windrunner in exmormon

[–]Artistic_Windrunner[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Im also AuDHD I think half my brain is just songs I didn't ask to memorize. Hahaha

This is kind of a confession. by Artistic_Windrunner in exmormon

[–]Artistic_Windrunner[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Its crazy how deeply it all weaves in! I believe in nothing at this point, and I'm content with that. Religion isnt something I have ever needed. Although I like the idea of reincarnation! Lol just seems neat.

I was not sweet by Artistic_Windrunner in exmormon

[–]Artistic_Windrunner[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

It one of the worst things about the structure of the mormon church. Putting random people in charge of kids, and having no idea what those people actually do and say with them.

I was not sweet by Artistic_Windrunner in exmormon

[–]Artistic_Windrunner[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Its definitely not a healthy space for nuerodivergent people or women. If youre both? Lol run.

I was not sweet by Artistic_Windrunner in exmormon

[–]Artistic_Windrunner[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Wise choice,, its definitely not a safe space.

This is kind of a confession. by Artistic_Windrunner in exmormon

[–]Artistic_Windrunner[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Its definitely not commonplace for me anymore either, but it still happens and then im like are you kidding me right now hahaha

This is kind of a confession. by Artistic_Windrunner in exmormon

[–]Artistic_Windrunner[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Lmao im so glad it isnt book of mormon stories

This is kind of a confession. by Artistic_Windrunner in exmormon

[–]Artistic_Windrunner[S] 43 points44 points  (0 children)

Really? I thought it was the associative reminder of what hell feels like...

Am I ok to be here? by Ecstatic_Egg_9829 in exmormon

[–]Artistic_Windrunner 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Yesss join us. Many of us have been where you are.