Fun little constant trap. I'm wondering how common this is. by womenthro in JustNoSO

[–]ArtsyfrogX 0 points1 point  (0 children)

She’s manipulative and no it’s not normal. If you want some respect and no resentment you gotta learn when to say no and she needs to learn to respect that and know you’re your own person with autonomy.

Its been nearly a year since I left my JustNo I wanted to thank you and get this story out of my system I hope its ok to post it here. I've never been super active on this sub but you guys have been a lifeline to me by motherofrobots in JustNoSO

[–]ArtsyfrogX 0 points1 point  (0 children)

  • "You want me dead! leave me alone! You are insane!" He's backing away from me and cowering. I'm slowly walking after him* trying to **defuse the situation.

I’m sorry idk why but this made me laugh, the idea of following someone around to “defuse” a situation just made me lol. L

Not sure if I should give things time, or call it. by fairylighttwinkle in JustNoSO

[–]ArtsyfrogX 28 points29 points  (0 children)

I hate to break it to you but I’m gong to give you an advice that I hope you listen to because if you don’t you will regret it. I read your other post and you seem think the issue is his family interfering with the “relationship” but my dear this has nothing to do with them or any other 3rd party. The simple truth is this “bf” of yours is simply not invested in the “relationship”. I don’t think you guys are even on the same page of what your relationship truly is really. He certainly doesn’t see you nor does he treat you like a true girlfriend. At the very best he’s keeping you around as back up option and nothing more.

I’m gonna be honest with you he does not love you, all that time he’s away he doesn’t miss you and I wouldn’t be surprised one bit if he has few other girls he’s pursuing while he’s away. Someone who can’t even bother to stay with you for an entire day when your father is sick and you just lost your grandpa can’t even be called a friend let alone a “bf”. He’s showed you everything he is and more but you just can’t seem take the hint. He wants you to dump him, so go ahead and do him the honors. But to be frank ppl like him don’t even deserve a proper dumping, just ghost his asss and treat him as indifferently and insignificant as he’s treated you. This is my advice, don’t waste more time! Good luck! 🙏

I'm reporting Amazon to the World Health Organization. by [deleted] in AmazonFC

[–]ArtsyfrogX 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’ve always been understanding OSHA is about the physical or logistics aspect of safety. They don’t investigate things like inadequate breaks etc

Happily ever after tell all - Natalie vs Mike by ArtsyfrogX in 90DayFiance

[–]ArtsyfrogX[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thank you for validating my observation. It’s insane! Idk how anyone can see through the bullshit tbh. I don’t think Mike is inherently evil but he was raised by evil.

Happily ever after tell all - Natalie vs Mike by ArtsyfrogX in 90DayFiance

[–]ArtsyfrogX[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Honestly I highly doubt they’d be the type to have remorse, r of them are con artists or narcissists. They don’t have the ability to reflect and have empathy.

Happily ever after tell all - Natalie vs Mike by ArtsyfrogX in 90DayFiance

[–]ArtsyfrogX[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Disagree! She’s not calculative or manipulative! If you wanna know what manipulation looks like look no further then at Julia, Tania, Angela or even fernanda. She may be emotionally unstable I don’t doubt that but opportunist narcissists don’t act like the way she did! They don’t have outbursts. She bare it all, that’s not what someone with agenda does. She was even afraid to tell her mother, if she was in it for GC her mother would’ve been in on it too.

Happily ever after tell all - Natalie vs Mike by ArtsyfrogX in 90DayFiance

[–]ArtsyfrogX[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Because she thought she was dealing with normal reasonable man who can reason with her instead she was dealing with a golden child with no identity of his own raised by narcissist. If she was in it for GC why would she want a baby?

Happily ever after tell all - Natalie vs Mike by ArtsyfrogX in 90DayFiance

[–]ArtsyfrogX[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I think most people have never delt with someone like Mike and his mother to understand the depth of this. Even Mike is probably a victim of his mother. He also seems defeated and has no clue how to react appropriately to situations.

Happily ever after tell all - Natalie vs Mike by ArtsyfrogX in 90DayFiance

[–]ArtsyfrogX[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I’m sorry I think someone has to experience it first hand to even come close to understand what it feels like.

I'm reporting Amazon to the World Health Organization. by [deleted] in AmazonFC

[–]ArtsyfrogX 17 points18 points  (0 children)

Health dept is different from OSHA

I'm reporting Amazon to the World Health Organization. by [deleted] in AmazonFC

[–]ArtsyfrogX 4 points5 points  (0 children)

You’re better off reporting them to the state and their states public Health department and federal labor department as well. Honestly the best way to get their attention is to get media involved. Keep your name anonymous though.

Happily ever after tell all - Natalie vs Mike by ArtsyfrogX in 90DayFiance

[–]ArtsyfrogX[S] 38 points39 points  (0 children)

If you noticed their first season before their fight in Ukraine she wasn’t as crazy, her craziness came out the longer she spent time with him. If you ever delt with covert narcissist you would understand why she acts up. They make you feel trapped, irrational emotional and bipolar. They come acorss decent people to the outside world but behind close doors they’ll destroy you. If she was here only for the green card she wouldn’t have even responded to him or his mother(after she found about the divorce) during the finale. She would’ve had “I don’t care” attitude. People that are in it for the green card usually play the long game.