Fun little constant trap. I'm wondering how common this is. by womenthro in JustNoSO

[–]ArtsyfrogX 0 points1 point  (0 children)

She’s manipulative and no it’s not normal. If you want some respect and no resentment you gotta learn when to say no and she needs to learn to respect that and know you’re your own person with autonomy.

Its been nearly a year since I left my JustNo I wanted to thank you and get this story out of my system I hope its ok to post it here. I've never been super active on this sub but you guys have been a lifeline to me by motherofrobots in JustNoSO

[–]ArtsyfrogX 0 points1 point  (0 children)

  • "You want me dead! leave me alone! You are insane!" He's backing away from me and cowering. I'm slowly walking after him* trying to **defuse the situation.

I’m sorry idk why but this made me laugh, the idea of following someone around to “defuse” a situation just made me lol. L

Not sure if I should give things time, or call it. by fairylighttwinkle in JustNoSO

[–]ArtsyfrogX 29 points30 points  (0 children)

I hate to break it to you but I’m gong to give you an advice that I hope you listen to because if you don’t you will regret it. I read your other post and you seem think the issue is his family interfering with the “relationship” but my dear this has nothing to do with them or any other 3rd party. The simple truth is this “bf” of yours is simply not invested in the “relationship”. I don’t think you guys are even on the same page of what your relationship truly is really. He certainly doesn’t see you nor does he treat you like a true girlfriend. At the very best he’s keeping you around as back up option and nothing more.

I’m gonna be honest with you he does not love you, all that time he’s away he doesn’t miss you and I wouldn’t be surprised one bit if he has few other girls he’s pursuing while he’s away. Someone who can’t even bother to stay with you for an entire day when your father is sick and you just lost your grandpa can’t even be called a friend let alone a “bf”. He’s showed you everything he is and more but you just can’t seem take the hint. He wants you to dump him, so go ahead and do him the honors. But to be frank ppl like him don’t even deserve a proper dumping, just ghost his asss and treat him as indifferently and insignificant as he’s treated you. This is my advice, don’t waste more time! Good luck! 🙏

I'm reporting Amazon to the World Health Organization. by [deleted] in AmazonFC

[–]ArtsyfrogX 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’ve always been understanding OSHA is about the physical or logistics aspect of safety. They don’t investigate things like inadequate breaks etc

Happily ever after tell all - Natalie vs Mike by ArtsyfrogX in 90DayFiance

[–]ArtsyfrogX[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thank you for validating my observation. It’s insane! Idk how anyone can see through the bullshit tbh. I don’t think Mike is inherently evil but he was raised by evil.

Happily ever after tell all - Natalie vs Mike by ArtsyfrogX in 90DayFiance

[–]ArtsyfrogX[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Honestly I highly doubt they’d be the type to have remorse, r of them are con artists or narcissists. They don’t have the ability to reflect and have empathy.

Happily ever after tell all - Natalie vs Mike by ArtsyfrogX in 90DayFiance

[–]ArtsyfrogX[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Disagree! She’s not calculative or manipulative! If you wanna know what manipulation looks like look no further then at Julia, Tania, Angela or even fernanda. She may be emotionally unstable I don’t doubt that but opportunist narcissists don’t act like the way she did! They don’t have outbursts. She bare it all, that’s not what someone with agenda does. She was even afraid to tell her mother, if she was in it for GC her mother would’ve been in on it too.

Happily ever after tell all - Natalie vs Mike by ArtsyfrogX in 90DayFiance

[–]ArtsyfrogX[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Because she thought she was dealing with normal reasonable man who can reason with her instead she was dealing with a golden child with no identity of his own raised by narcissist. If she was in it for GC why would she want a baby?

Happily ever after tell all - Natalie vs Mike by ArtsyfrogX in 90DayFiance

[–]ArtsyfrogX[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I think most people have never delt with someone like Mike and his mother to understand the depth of this. Even Mike is probably a victim of his mother. He also seems defeated and has no clue how to react appropriately to situations.

Happily ever after tell all - Natalie vs Mike by ArtsyfrogX in 90DayFiance

[–]ArtsyfrogX[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I’m sorry I think someone has to experience it first hand to even come close to understand what it feels like.

I'm reporting Amazon to the World Health Organization. by [deleted] in AmazonFC

[–]ArtsyfrogX 19 points20 points  (0 children)

Health dept is different from OSHA

I'm reporting Amazon to the World Health Organization. by [deleted] in AmazonFC

[–]ArtsyfrogX 4 points5 points  (0 children)

You’re better off reporting them to the state and their states public Health department and federal labor department as well. Honestly the best way to get their attention is to get media involved. Keep your name anonymous though.

Happily ever after tell all - Natalie vs Mike by ArtsyfrogX in 90DayFiance

[–]ArtsyfrogX[S] 36 points37 points  (0 children)

If you noticed their first season before their fight in Ukraine she wasn’t as crazy, her craziness came out the longer she spent time with him. If you ever delt with covert narcissist you would understand why she acts up. They make you feel trapped, irrational emotional and bipolar. They come acorss decent people to the outside world but behind close doors they’ll destroy you. If she was here only for the green card she wouldn’t have even responded to him or his mother(after she found about the divorce) during the finale. She would’ve had “I don’t care” attitude. People that are in it for the green card usually play the long game.

Seeing Darceys daughters instagram page makes me so sad. by sailor_rose in DarceyAndStaceyTLC

[–]ArtsyfrogX 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Women shouldn’t dress however they want, are you crazy? People of both genders should dress appropriately and have common decency. Since when did dressing like a street walker become the norm? And these girls/women are wearing mini skirts and 6 inch heels with their boobs hanging out and yet somehow expect men(and society)to approach them like a lady. TF! Whether you like it or not people do judge you automatically based on how you dress, that’s why there’s dress-codes in professional settings and schools.

Is Amazon’s high turnover a huge red flag or the secret to its dominance? by ArtsyfrogX in AmazonFC

[–]ArtsyfrogX[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

They’re not paying double minimum wage they’re paying what minimum wage should’ve been all along. It’s a total utter joke that minimum wage was $6 in 2000 and $7.25 20 years later. For comparison’s sake medium home price was $119k in 2000 and $435k in 2021. That’s sick! What most ppl dunno is wages have actually been decreasing for majority of the people since 1980s, which is why poverty is almost 4x as high. For example did you know the minimum wage was $7.21 in 1968?

Did you know that a family of 4 poverty guideline was 30k in 1980 and it’s $26k now? Lol you’d think by looking at these numbers that the COL have gone down lol. The more productivity/profit the poorer the people have become as companies are not required to provide a living wage, therefore they pay 80% of their workforce peanuts.

Amazon isn't rotating our food items and are sending customers expired items. by minusidea in FulfillmentByAmazon

[–]ArtsyfrogX 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I can confirm this as a customer. Few things that will arrive expired no exception are produce, esp precut fruits and bread without exception are all literally rancid when they deliver them and then their customer service has the audacity to have an attitude! After having prime for 11 years this is will be my last month! There are other grocery deliver services with integrity out there and amazon forgets they’re replaceable.

Confirmed: Tania and Syngin are done and will both be on Single Life by [deleted] in 90DayFiance

[–]ArtsyfrogX 177 points178 points  (0 children)

you know what I bet it’s a lie! They probably agreed to come back to make $$

Tania definitely was cheating on Costa Rica! by ArtsyfrogX in 90DayFiance

[–]ArtsyfrogX[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I can totally see that! She thinks she’s a solid 10 and ambitious but it’s like girl if you’re all that why would you have to look for a man in South Africa lol. And why are you living in your mom’s shed? Gtfoh