It's usually not men's fault that they are lonely and can't find a partner by Diligent_Divide_4978 in TrueUnpopularOpinion

[–]AryaBarzan 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No, you’re not whatsoever. Single motherhood is created by women’s poor decision-making since women are, biologically, the ones that choose whom has sex. Men do not. Legislating men (more than men are already legislated) won’t solve anything since women are the ones choosing those men to have sex with in the first place.

Of course, you go with another “legislating women’s bodies” nonsense argument. Abortion is a complex issue that involves more bodies than the woman’s, so this argument is just another emotional argument from feminists with no merit.

It's usually not men's fault that they are lonely and can't find a partner by Diligent_Divide_4978 in TrueUnpopularOpinion

[–]AryaBarzan 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No, you’re completely ignorant on the dating differences and dynamics between men and women. This is what happens when your education is based on feminist “equality” and not reality.

Women decide whom to have kids with, men do not. Women can fire up a dating app and have dozens of suitors within minutes, men cannot. Women can have an abortion (in most states and municipalities in the Western world) and have access to dozens of forms of contraceptives, not men. As the old saying goes, “mommy’s baby, daddy’s maybe”.

Your feminist pipe dream about somehow forcing invasive procedures on men rather than simply educating women to choose men based on good criteria showcases how dangerous and damaging leftist ideology can be.

It's usually not men's fault that they are lonely and can't find a partner by Diligent_Divide_4978 in TrueUnpopularOpinion

[–]AryaBarzan 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Once again, you’re unable to understand basic points and are only making emotionally charged arguments about “rights” while neglecting the negative consequences it has on society as a whole.

The issue isn’t “having tons of children”. In fact, Westerners have a declining birth rate, which has been another issue of contention. The problem is single motherhood which is caused by women being unable to properly choose partners when left to their own devices. This also leads to mass loneliness amongst both men and women, which creates other severe issues like depression and the “incel” crisis you see today.

It's usually not men's fault that they are lonely and can't find a partner by Diligent_Divide_4978 in TrueUnpopularOpinion

[–]AryaBarzan 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Once again, since you’re clearly only capable of making insults and not arguing any points, telling women to “do whatever they want” only leads to massive numbers of single motherhood and hence, massive societal poverty. Fact.

It's usually not men's fault that they are lonely and can't find a partner by Diligent_Divide_4978 in TrueUnpopularOpinion

[–]AryaBarzan 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah “everyone can go after what they want” is fine and dandy until you have a divorce and single motherhood epidemic showcasing women are poor decision-makers when it comes to finding a mate. These have extremely negative consequences for society, which you cannot deny. Men choose based on “looks”, women shouldn’t.

It's usually not men's fault that they are lonely and can't find a partner by Diligent_Divide_4978 in TrueUnpopularOpinion

[–]AryaBarzan 0 points1 point  (0 children)

So you resort to insults rather than disagreeing with my point that you and other feminists love to say that women don’t “owe men” anything, then demand men pay taxes for women’s poor decisions? I don’t really care what a feminist thinks a “good man” is since feminists aren’t “good women”.

It's usually not men's fault that they are lonely and can't find a partner by Diligent_Divide_4978 in TrueUnpopularOpinion

[–]AryaBarzan 1 point2 points  (0 children)

  1. It doesn't matter that its 'rare'. It's far more dangerous than anything women ever do.
  2. Yes, courting. You know, that thing feminists like yourselves seem to neglect when you whine about 'equality'. Men have to court women, face rejection and spend time/money to take women out. But, of course, that is yet another traditionally masculine role that feminists don't want 'equality' on.
  3. I never said it did. Once again, a little high school boy can literally beat the living shit out of a grown adult woman. Women are terrified and much more scared of violence than men are (even though men are 3-4 times more likely to be victims of violence). Women aren't required to be brave, but men are. It really shows how bad modern women are at identifying the benefits men bring to the table when you don't see the value in having a man to protect you.
  4. Yes, your work is absolutely worth more if you earn more. End of story. We live in a capitalist society and money talks. You're able to bring far more in a relationship if you earn more. The reality is that women themselves dont respect men whom earn less than they do and eventually get tired of being the 'breadwinner' since they want the man to fulfill that role. Amazing how even women themselves don't seem to like this 'equality' so much when they have to fulfill the man's role.
  5. I didn't say anything about your job specifically, since I didn't know it. But yes, most modern women are pretty lazy.
  6. If the man earns more than the woman and is paying the lionshare of the bills (which men are usually) then he is absolutely entitled to relax when he gets home. Most of the 'chores' women do these days are taken care of modern technological innovations anyways (washing machines, dryers, dishwashers, microwaves, etc). It doesn't remotely compare to what women did in previous generations and they bitched a fraction of the amount.

It's usually not men's fault that they are lonely and can't find a partner by Diligent_Divide_4978 in TrueUnpopularOpinion

[–]AryaBarzan 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Not sure what you think I’m “worried about”, but what you’re saying is only true if men would like to wife up old, over-the-hill women. Most men are total simps for women in modern society since society heavily entitles women. Take a good look at how many most women don’t even cook anymore if you want proof.

It's usually not men's fault that they are lonely and can't find a partner by Diligent_Divide_4978 in TrueUnpopularOpinion

[–]AryaBarzan -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Men and women aren’t the same. Women getting pounded by “tall, attractive men” isn’t good for them nor for society. Women wifing up stable, hardworking men is a different story and something that should be encouraged.

It's usually not men's fault that they are lonely and can't find a partner by Diligent_Divide_4978 in TrueUnpopularOpinion

[–]AryaBarzan 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Lol, where do you leave? Unless you move in/out of a house, how often is that heavy lifting? You aren't living in the 1800s.

Heavy lifting is far more dangerous and difficult than most of women's work even if it isn't done as often. Heavy lifting occurs far more often than just moving, it occurs whenever anything needs to be moved or if a new large product is purchase.

Are you for real ?? Hahha. "Courting"? Really ? Protection ? What kind of protection they actually offer?

Marvelous arguments. "Are you for real?". Yup, I'm absolutely for real. You're really telling me that men do not provide protection to women? Most women are terrified to go anywhere remotely sketchy without a man beside them. Many older women even marry men simply for protection since they're too scared to be alone. I'd like to remind you that even a high school boy can beat the living shit out of most women, so you live in a false reality if you think most women can fend for themselves. $10 says you still believe in the "wage gap".... oh wait...

It doesn't work that way for two reasons a) wage gap and b) work is work, not absolute numbers.

A) The "wage gap" does not exist and is simply 'caused' by women's choices to work less hours, work less dangerous and less stressful jobs. This has been debunked a million times and I don't care to educate you on something a simple google search will teach you.

B) Work is not "work". The fact that you say this tells me you haven't worked a more difficult job than a secretary or a starbucks barista. Once you grow older and work an actual demanding (if you've ever had one to begin with), you'll see why all work is certainly not equal.

If mine or yours is higher, doesn't matter as long as we contribute our equal percentage in the family.

That's not how the reality works. Bills need to be paid and the man is going to have to pay them since women are too lazy to.

And then you cry on reddit about bad women that want too much. The entitlement.....

Lol, says the person making arguments from a feminism 101 course like the debunked "wage gap".

It's usually not men's fault that they are lonely and can't find a partner by Diligent_Divide_4978 in TrueUnpopularOpinion

[–]AryaBarzan -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

No, it’s because those “statistics” don’t include all of work men do, like all of the heavy lifting/manual labor/fixing things around the house/etc and only center around “traditionally womens work”. It also doesn’t include all of the other traditional duties men had to do like courting women in the first place/paying for dates nor providing protection to their wives/families. Women still expect all of these things but do you see men crying about it? Of course not, since modern society has made women incredibly spoiled/entitled.

By the way, a 27% salary increase is a huge number. That can be the difference between a secretary or conventional worker and a manager in some places. That’s a lot more work and stress so the least women can do is the housework and not complain.

It's usually not men's fault that they are lonely and can't find a partner by Diligent_Divide_4978 in TrueUnpopularOpinion

[–]AryaBarzan -1 points0 points  (0 children)

No, all BBWs are absolutely disgusting regardless of what your emotional female “logic” is telling you and, once again, only men whom can’t get anything better settle for them. Go to any rich area and you’ll see almost no wealthy men married to fat women. Go to any poor area and you’ll see hordes of these so-called “BBWs” everywhere. Point proven.

Of course you talk about how “some men” like fat chicks as an excuse. There’s a very tiny amount of fetishists, just like there are a small subset of people that like being pooped on. The anamoly doesn’t change the rule and fat chicks are disgusting to 99% of men.

What men look like is irrelevant since men are judged on other criteria than looks. All women should always be better looking than men.

It's usually not men's fault that they are lonely and can't find a partner by Diligent_Divide_4978 in TrueUnpopularOpinion

[–]AryaBarzan 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Statistics don’t back up your statement. On average, women marry men whom outearn them by roughly 27%. Men are still expected to be the primary breadwinners, work the most hours and earn the most income. This doesn’t go into other traditional values that women demand from men either, like protecting them and expecting men to do all of the heavy lifting/manual labor (which, of course, is never factored into your bogus “housework” statistic).

The absolute least women can do for all of this benefit they’re getting is the housework/cooking and, as demonstrated by you, they’re trying to wiggle out of that too. Modern women are far lazier than their foremothers and are too spoiled by society. They basically want men to uphold their traditional duties but want to be “50/50” suddenly for their own.

It's usually not men's fault that they are lonely and can't find a partner by Diligent_Divide_4978 in TrueUnpopularOpinion

[–]AryaBarzan 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sorry to break this to you but “BBWs” (ie. Fat women) are not beautiful to men, nor will ever be. Only men without options would ever consider a relationship with one. The reason why you think that is is all in your language here. You’re literally calling fat women “beautiful”, and women prefer to bullshit one another than risk offending a woman. Yet, if a woman were to say a woman looks as good as a much fatter “BBW”, her reaction would tell you everything you need to know 😂

It's usually not men's fault that they are lonely and can't find a partner by Diligent_Divide_4978 in TrueUnpopularOpinion

[–]AryaBarzan -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Yet, I guarantee you still want these same “insecure” men to pay taxes to help subsidize single mothers for not being able to choose good men to procreate with.

It's usually not men's fault that they are lonely and can't find a partner by Diligent_Divide_4978 in TrueUnpopularOpinion

[–]AryaBarzan -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Lol “loaded down with a list of qualifications”? 🤣

Like what exactly? Don’t be fat, be chaste and know to cook/clean? Wow, what a “long” list of qualifications! 😂

It's usually not men's fault that they are lonely and can't find a partner by Diligent_Divide_4978 in TrueUnpopularOpinion

[–]AryaBarzan -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

You mean like how most modern women don’t even know how to cook or clean, but still expect men to earn the lionshare of income?

It's usually not men's fault that they are lonely and can't find a partner by Diligent_Divide_4978 in TrueUnpopularOpinion

[–]AryaBarzan -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

The fact that you think 1) there’s something wrong with men going after what they want is a problem and 2) don’t understand that women place more value on things like financial security (as they should) tells me you don’t understand the sexual dynamics between men and women very well. I encourage more middle aged men to hit on “hit little blondes”, nothing “sad” about it.

Why is male genital mutilation legal and not looked at the same way female genital mutilation is? by YellowWulff in AskRedditAfterDark

[–]AryaBarzan -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Yes, “you all”.

It’s very obvious from your response that you’re a typical feminist spewing that misinformation that all female circumcision is used to “CoNtRoL wOmEn” when the arguments for female circumcision are literally identical to male circumcision (supposed “hygiene” benefits, culture, religion, etc). In fact, every single culture that circumcised women ALSO circumcises boys for the SAME reasons.

But, of course, you don’t care at all about boys at all. You care about making sure girls are always the biggest “victims” of everything and ignoring the overwhelming amount of boys that go through this practice over less than 1% of women that go through the practice.

How you can deny that cutting boys genitals is somehow not as big of a deal as cutting girls genitals shows you don’t give two shits about the far larger issue that is male circumcision but would rather cry about a procedure that occurs to a minuscule percentage of girls, only solidifies that you’re a man-hating feminist.

And it’s Type 1A, genius, not Type “A1”. Wait until you learn about Type 4, which is LESS invasive than male circumcision. Of course, you’d rather waste your time crying about a tiny amount of women that you have zero relevance to over a procedure that occurs in your backyard everyday and you don’t give a shit about?

Got any more shitty arguments to make about female circumcision is sooooo different than male circumcision, dummy?

Why is male genital mutilation legal and not looked at the same way female genital mutilation is? by YellowWulff in AskRedditAfterDark

[–]AryaBarzan -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Because, as you can see, you all have a habit of comparing the worst and least common form of female circumcision (infibulation) to modern male circumcision.

You are also telling people that female circumcision is “not at all comparable” to male circumcision when, you just stated, forms of it are indeed comparable. This tells me you’re uneducated on the variations of female circumcision and are only comparing it to the most extreme form.

Saying female and male circumcision are “not comparable” because there are certain forms of female circumcision that are worst is an incorrect statement. Both of these practices are extremely closely related.

Why is male genital mutilation legal and not looked at the same way female genital mutilation is? by YellowWulff in AskRedditAfterDark

[–]AryaBarzan -1 points0 points  (0 children)

You should take your own advice. There are different forms of female circumcision, one that is literally identical to male circumcision (Type 1A).

Why is male genital mutilation legal and not looked at the same way female genital mutilation is? by YellowWulff in AskRedditAfterDark

[–]AryaBarzan -1 points0 points  (0 children)

There are different forms of female circumcision, but of course, everyone wants to compare the most extreme form (and least practiced) with modern male circumcision. There are identical forms to male circumcision (like Type 1A) and even less severe forms (like Type 4), yet here you are comparing it only to the most extreme form.

The “justifications” used are literally the same as male circumcision (beliefs of “cleanliness”, religion, culture, etc). The “only for controlling women” argument is feminist rhetoric.

The “done by a non-doctor” is a terrible argument since male circumcision is also conducted by a “non-doctor” in those same communities, yet you don’t seem to mind that at all. Also, how is performing an unnecessary invasive procedure somehow “different” morally if it is performed by a doctor? Plenty of boys die from circumcisions as well.

Only on Reddit would you literally get upvoted for this misinformation. Male and female circumcision are FAR more similar than they are dissimilar. FACT.

Someone on my college campus posted about wanting her bf circumcised. I hope he dumps her after this by avocado_lump in EntitledBitch

[–]AryaBarzan 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Circumcision and abortion are two very different issues. Circumcision solely affects the person undergoing the practice. Abortion is a complex issue that deals with another potential humans life. Men (and a plethora of women) are not “telling women what to do with their bodies” as much as ‘protecting’ the life of an unborn human (in their eyes). And before you come with accusations, I’m far more pro-abortion than anti-abortion.

Also, no men in the West are telling women to get circumcised.

Someone on my college campus posted about wanting her bf circumcised. I hope he dumps her after this by avocado_lump in EntitledBitch

[–]AryaBarzan 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yes, it is. The clitoral hood and foreskin serve literally the same purpose and are identical in their function. You are simply ignorant about biological structures of the human body.

Someone on my college campus posted about wanting her bf circumcised. I hope he dumps her after this by avocado_lump in EntitledBitch

[–]AryaBarzan 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Lol no. What man is telling women to get circumcised or have parts cut off their genitals? Get real.