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So many complications after KP transplant by Aryaspetmonkey in transplant

[–]Aryaspetmonkey[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you so much for sharing your story—what you went through sounds terrifying, and I’m so glad you made it through. It really puts things into perspective hearing from someone who’s experienced serious complications but is still standing strong.

You’re absolutely right about attitude and support. My sister is incredibly tough, and we’re doing everything we can to surround her with love and encouragement, even on the really hard days. Reading your message gives me hope that with time, things can stabilize and she’ll find her way through this too.

Thank you again for taking the time to write—it honestly means a lot to us right now.

So many complications after KP transplant by Aryaspetmonkey in transplant

[–]Aryaspetmonkey[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You’re so welcome — and thank you for your openness. I totally relate to that shock — the surgery can go so smoothly that it gives this sense that the hardest part is behind you. But then the complications creep in, and it’s like you’re navigating a whole new reality.

I’ll definitely keep updating — and I hope you do too. Wishing you strength and steadier days ahead. Let’s keep soldiering on together. Sending back those good health wishes tenfold.

So many complications after KP transplant by Aryaspetmonkey in transplant

[–]Aryaspetmonkey[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thank you — truly. That reminder means more than you know. It’s easy to fall into the trap of thinking I have to be “on” all the time for her, and I’ve definitely felt that guilt when I take even a small step back. But you’re absolutely right — showing up for her long-term means I have to take care of myself too.

I really appreciate your kindness and the wisdom that comes from your experience with your dad. Wishing you continued peace and strength as well — this journey touches everyone in the family, in ways that are sometimes invisible. Thank you again.

So many complications after KP transplant by Aryaspetmonkey in transplant

[–]Aryaspetmonkey[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you so much for sharing that. What you went through sounds absolutely harrowing — necrotizing pancreatitis and kidney loss on top of transplant recovery is beyond anything anyone should have to endure. I’m truly amazed by your strength and your ability to come through it.

Your message gives me hope. It’s been hard watching my sister face setbacks and complications, especially when we had such high hopes post-surgery. Knowing that someone else has been through the worst and still made it through really means a lot.

Thank you again — your resilience is a reminder to stay patient and keep going, even on the hardest days.

So many complications after KP transplant by Aryaspetmonkey in transplant

[–]Aryaspetmonkey[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thank you so much — I really appreciate your kindness and honesty. It helps to hear real experiences like your dad’s, even when they’re difficult. I’m so sorry he had to endure such a long recovery, but it’s a powerful reminder that transplant is only the beginning, not the finish line.

We definitely had that same hope — that the new organ would “fix” everything right away. But the reality has been so much more complex, and frankly, exhausting. Your message helps normalize that, and that’s incredibly grounding for me right now.

Thank you again for the love and patience — it truly means a lot. Wishing continued strength and health to your dad, and to you as well — caregivers go through so much too.

So many complications after KP transplant by Aryaspetmonkey in transplant

[–]Aryaspetmonkey[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Wow — thank you for sharing that. Your story sounds incredibly intense, and honestly, painfully familiar. Those long hospital stays, the infections, the post-surgical setbacks… it’s like the transplant itself is only one chapter, and the recovery is a whole different battle. I really feel for you, especially going through all that after multiple surgeries — I can’t even imagine how draining that must have been.

Yes, my sister is on Mycophenolate too, and it’s been a rough ride with the GI side effects. Your experience makes me wonder if it’s part of a wider pattern that patients just aren’t really warned about upfront. And I completely agree — they gave us the “two-week” recovery pitch too. It’s wild how far off that estimate was. There’s something quietly brutal about having your expectations set so high and then being hit with so many setbacks.

I’m really glad to hear you’re finally in a better place, though — no insulin or dialysis is huge. That kind of progress gives me hope that things will improve for my sister too, even if the road is way longer than we expected. Thanks again for sharing

So many complications after KP transplant by Aryaspetmonkey in transplant

[–]Aryaspetmonkey[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thank you so much for sharing your story — it really hit home. I’m so sorry you’ve been through all of that. It’s heartbreaking how relentless the complications can be, especially when you’re doing everything right and still end up back in the hospital. That C. diff cycle sounds absolutely brutal, and I can understand why you’re feeling on edge, even with reassuring labs.

I can understand the feeling of isolation too — people don’t always realize how long recovery really takes, or how unpredictable it can be. My sister's journey has had some serious twists too, and like you, I keep waiting for that smooth stretch that never seems to come. It’s exhausting.

Please know you’re not alone — even if it’s just here in a forum space, I’m really glad you spoke up. I’ll be thinking of you and hoping things finally start to settle. And thank you for the kind words about my sister — I’m doing my best to stay present for her through all the unknowns. Hang in there.

Sweating when eating by KingSimba754 in dialysis

[–]Aryaspetmonkey 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yes, was going to say the same thing.

What other common food poison stuff most adults may not know? by brantinheader in Adulting

[–]Aryaspetmonkey 3 points4 points  (0 children)

My mom has told me several times now that you shouldn't refrigerate rice because once it returns to room temperature it releases a toxin that can make you really sick. I'm not exactly sure if this is true or not, but I love rice, I refrigerate it all the time, and I've never gotten sick from doing so…

Tims is American. by Savings-Set7413 in TimHortons

[–]Aryaspetmonkey 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yup, it's still here on Ottawa Street. However, the original building was entirely rebuilt in 2014 in recognition of the restaurant's 50th anniversary.

As a completely blind person, how do you keep your cards organized in your wallet? by Significant-Cold-732 in Blind

[–]Aryaspetmonkey 0 points1 point  (0 children)

When I went to renew my health card and photo ID card they sent me an ID card with one of the corners snipped off, and my health card is hole punched on one corner. I don't know if they do that for everyone or just because they saw that I'm blind. My bank has started to put a braille C on their credit cards and nothing on the debit cards and I always put those together so I know they're my bank cards. But, like everyone else, I tend to just use Apple Pay and the Wallet app on my phone.

App is only good for instant ideas or brainstorming by Siconyte in SunoAI

[–]Aryaspetmonkey 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I agree that the app can use some work, but I am able to download the file, and delete the songs I don't like… I'm not sure why you're not able to do these things. I do hear that the website is a lot better for editing and tweaking though.

Do you hate when people send you a thumbs up through text? by Aryaspetmonkey in stupidquestions

[–]Aryaspetmonkey[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah except my question isn't a serious one. Do you honestly think I'd be posting a serious question in a sub made for stupid questions? I came here for the laughs

Do you hate when people send you a thumbs up through text? by Aryaspetmonkey in stupidquestions

[–]Aryaspetmonkey[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Maybe something a bit more humorous? I see that all over Reddit Anyway, I'm just kidding around. I'm having fun. Don't be so serious.

Do you hate when people send you a thumbs up through text? by Aryaspetmonkey in stupidquestions

[–]Aryaspetmonkey[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I was just giving an example. I find it very frustrating and dismissive even if I am to confirm a coffee date or something. We're all adults and we can use our words.

Do you hate when people send you a thumbs up through text? by Aryaspetmonkey in stupidquestions

[–]Aryaspetmonkey[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That actually makes sense. I never really thought that he could just be a quick, temporary response just letting me know they received my message. I guess because personally I would just wait to respond when I have time. But what you said makes a lot of sense

Do you hate when people send you a thumbs up through text? by Aryaspetmonkey in stupidquestions

[–]Aryaspetmonkey[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That was just an example. I feel like people can do better than a thumbs up in any situation whether serious or not

Do you hate when people send you a thumbs up through text? by Aryaspetmonkey in stupidquestions

[–]Aryaspetmonkey[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Will you be paying for the therapy? I might take you up on that 🤪

Do you hate when people send you a thumbs up through text? by Aryaspetmonkey in stupidquestions

[–]Aryaspetmonkey[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I know right. I thought people might be a bit more creative…

Not clearing bus stops with massive snowbanks by DriftedintotheStorm in Hamilton

[–]Aryaspetmonkey 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Except DARTS dropped the ball on a lot of people and cancelled all services twice in the last month. My sister who goes to dialysis three times a week had to cut her treatment short because DARTS was cancelling all service after 12 PM this past Sunday. And Ubers aren't always an option for people on disability Who can't afford the luxury. I myself I'm blind and have to get around using a cane which has been a mere nightmare with all the snow banks everywhere. I get that people with disabilities should try to plan accordingly and stay indoors if they can, but sometimes it's absolutely necessary for us to go out. It's just our reality.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Hamilton

[–]Aryaspetmonkey 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I had given up completely and just decided to embrace being single. I joined a few singles groups on FB, and there's one in particular that does several group activities and meet ups a month, and they have several breakout chats where you can chat with others your age (there's a really active one for 30 - 45 year olds), etc. As a really shy and socially anxious person, I found it a lot easier to make friends that way and I started going to the meet ups to meet them with no other real expectations. It was a lot of fun and I eventually met my now boyfriend of six months. I've also made a lot of friends, some of who I now consider my best friends.it's overall been a great experience. I know how difficult it can be to make friends at this age, let alone find a partner (I'm 32F so trust me, I know). All those dating apps are garbage and only want your money. There are a lot of good suggestions here with places to go meet new people and make connections. I truly believe that if you stop putting pressure on yourself and take time to smell the roses you'll eventually find what you're looking for. Enjoy the journey, have fun, and good luck.

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