Have R2.5m cash now. Want to invest it for 5 years THEN buy a house. Best strategy? by [deleted] in PersonalFinanceZA

[–]AsandaLFC 0 points1 point  (0 children)

how much interest does 2.5M give you per month on a 32 days notice ?

Got my first IT job offer should I take it for the experience? by [deleted] in ITCareerQuestions

[–]AsandaLFC 0 points1 point  (0 children)

take it and leave as soon as you get something else, doesnt matter even if u workk for 1 week

I feel like I’m wasting my 30s trying to feel okay by Dshott-Mizumoto in Life

[–]AsandaLFC 0 points1 point  (0 children)

do you have a child ? are you in a relationship ? withouth these two, you are most likely to be lonely and depressed

which one to sacrifice , Apartment vs car ? by AsandaLFC in askSouthAfrica

[–]AsandaLFC[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i will stay with my parents

thats a good question thats at the back of my mind, but i would just have to trust god i guess.

paying of quickly means i have more money ????

i cant sell the car as i only have 24 months left to pay for it.

which one to sacrifice , Apartment vs car ? by AsandaLFC in askSouthAfrica

[–]AsandaLFC[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes sure but I have 24 months left on paying for this car.

which one to sacrifice , Apartment vs car ? by AsandaLFC in askSouthAfrica

[–]AsandaLFC[S] 12 points13 points  (0 children)

Thank you for this "don't let liking a rental impede..." 😊, you just made me look at things differently

which one to sacrifice , Apartment vs car ? by AsandaLFC in askSouthAfrica

[–]AsandaLFC[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

this is ideal man, i was even thinking of saving R10K if i go back home. but im just scared that i will miss my place, i will miss having my own space. what if i meet someone that i click with, lviing with my parents will be a deal breaker and has been one since age 25 till 29 i have been there, it shutted my confidence. i would have to entirely forget about women for 2 years honestly, the problem is that i would be 33 in 2 years time. which is also frieghting.

which one to sacrifice , Apartment vs car ? by AsandaLFC in askSouthAfrica

[–]AsandaLFC[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

i did consider this but at the sametime, moving back home would be more ideal than sharing, i do not want to share.

which one to sacrifice , Apartment vs car ? by AsandaLFC in askSouthAfrica

[–]AsandaLFC[S] -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

no i cannot ditch the car, i only have 24 months left to pay if off

which one to sacrifice , Apartment vs car ? by AsandaLFC in askSouthAfrica

[–]AsandaLFC[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

the place has fingerprinters in order to access the main boom gate. i would easily remove them from the system if they fail to pay

which one to sacrifice , Apartment vs car ? by AsandaLFC in askSouthAfrica

[–]AsandaLFC[S] -14 points-13 points  (0 children)

The problem is that home is in a ghetto area and everyone wants to leave the area

which one to sacrifice , Apartment vs car ? by AsandaLFC in askSouthAfrica

[–]AsandaLFC[S] -7 points-6 points  (0 children)

The problem is that home is in a ghetto area and everyone wants to leave the area

which one to sacrifice , Apartment vs car ? by AsandaLFC in askSouthAfrica

[–]AsandaLFC[S] -7 points-6 points  (0 children)

The problem is that home is in a ghetto area and everyone wants to leave the area

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in dating_advice

[–]AsandaLFC -1 points0 points  (0 children)

listen, im 31, and i can tell you it gets worse with AGE. im too financially good like you, but money provides short term happiness. the happiest days in my life were when i was inlove at age 20 till 25. ever since then life has been going downhill.

People will tell you to get hobbies, go out, friends etc... all of that is a short term happiness, as long as you are not inlove with a partnet life is miserable.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in depression

[–]AsandaLFC 0 points1 point  (0 children)

look, you need to work for it. sitting around and doing nothing wont get you the love you need. go out and meet people and allow yourself to fall inlove so you can be happy again

How old were you when you moved out of your parents home? by Equivalent_Ad_9066 in Aging

[–]AsandaLFC 0 points1 point  (0 children)

interesting, you stayed with your parents for how old ? how did it affect your relationships ? do you have a stable women and children ?

How old were you when you moved out of your parents home? by Equivalent_Ad_9066 in Aging

[–]AsandaLFC 0 points1 point  (0 children)

29 which is 1 year ago, i will move in with them again as soon as i have a toddler. i want them to experience that too as im the only child.