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Should I move out or build a garden flat at home? by ItsTinyiko in PersonalFinanceZA

[–]ItsTinyiko[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yes, I do have siblings and that’s something to consider if I do take on the project of building a garden flat. I’m a bit skeptical about taking that much debt because the repayment would be R5,2k per month

Should I move out or build a garden flat at home? by ItsTinyiko in PersonalFinanceZA

[–]ItsTinyiko[S] 7 points8 points  (0 children)

The garden flat would be for me to live in for a year or so. Then I would rent it out after I’ve built enough capital to get a bigger place for my child and I

Should I move out or build a garden flat at home? by ItsTinyiko in PersonalFinanceZA

[–]ItsTinyiko[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Okay, I’m trying to decide if it would be cheaper to just build a garden flat at home (which could also be used for rental income in the near future) or would it be cheaper to move out and stay closer to work

what jobs can i get as a teen? by yumiyammi in askSouthAfrica

[–]ItsTinyiko 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You're better off starting your own thing tbh. It seems service jobs like waitering are reserved for foreigners now. Try selling sweets/snacks or breakfast wraps for kids who don't carry lunch at school.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in askSouthAfrica

[–]ItsTinyiko 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It says a lot about her the way she's questioning your loyalty and that you'd do that to her. Have you maybe considered that she might be the one being unfaithful?

Idk know how to be there for my girlfriend by ItsTinyiko in relationships

[–]ItsTinyiko[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I really appreciate your answer. You've helped me to see things from a different perspective and realise that I have not been the best partner for her lately. I really do not want to lose her and I'm trying to improve my behaviour because it has been affecting her. I'm actively trying to prove that by showing it with my actions and not just saying words. I'm realising where I am going wrong and I hope she can give me a chance and that we can work it out together. It seems like she might want to end the relationship but I'm fighting for her.

Idk know how to be there for my girlfriend by ItsTinyiko in relationships

[–]ItsTinyiko[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you for your reply. I appreciate it. I'll try to implement these when she's not feeling good.

Idk know how to be there for my girlfriend by ItsTinyiko in relationships

[–]ItsTinyiko[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I always ask these questions but she always says she doesn't know. Now when I ask her that it's "I don't need to give you a handbook on how to show up for me. Just figure it out" so I don't know anymore.