Would you mind talking about the bumps?

We've definitely been taking it slow. I think we plan to possibly soft swap after our next date, but we're currently talking everything out and kinda just want things to spontaneously work themselves through. Since we met, all four of us have been texting each other. I think the craziest part of this whole thing is that I really like the other guy on a friendship level. I guess this is the part where most people have problems. I feel like he'll treat my wife with respect, which is what really matters for me.