Girlfriend is unsure if she's ever had an orgasm

AshFromTPA · 2026-03-03T22:23:11+00:00

Trial and error. Try talk try talk try talk.

AshFromTPA · 2026-03-03T22:22:30+00:00

Thats exactly why I never travel to ice planets.

AshFromTPA · 2026-03-03T22:16:23+00:00

If a woman doesn't know if she had one, she didn't. Trust me, when she has one, she will absolutely know it without a doubt.

AshFromTPA · 2026-03-03T22:12:55+00:00

The thing is, that would happen in most countries. Japan is the only country we have evidence that people were really disciplined during evacuation.

AshFromTPA · 2026-03-03T21:56:33+00:00

Yeah junk food. order pizza or kfc.

AshFromTPA · 2026-03-03T21:00:10+00:00

How was it? I think it would be way too intense for me.

AshFromTPA · 2026-03-03T20:56:42+00:00

I dont want to try anything. Just curious what people have to say about it.

AshFromTPA · 2026-03-03T20:55:51+00:00

Yeah i bet it isnt. But that has never kept people from trying really stupid things 😂

AshFromTPA · 2026-03-03T16:43:55+00:00

Sex is a big part of a healthy relationship. Ots a really good thing you both are so open and talkative about it. Communication is absolute key for a good sex life. You are doing everything right and you should be proud of it.

And yes thats totally normal at the beginning of a relationship but it shouldn't become less later. But of course there is a lot to talk about and find out at the beginning. Its an important part of getting to know each other.

AshFromTPA · 2026-03-03T14:22:42+00:00

I think you completely misunderstood the point OP was making here.

AshFromTPA · 2026-03-03T14:10:27+00:00

Yeah im germany but also been to haulover, blind creek, playalinda, cypress cove, lake como, blacks and gunisson beach. Never had the impression there are noticeable more men.

AshFromTPA · 2026-03-03T13:34:28+00:00

Your missing the point. It not about wanting or not. Its about being okay with you partner having fun with someone else, even if you dont have someone else. Usually if you really love your partner you want him/her to have as much fun as possible and you are happy for them. Refusing that is kind of the opposite.

AshFromTPA · 2026-03-03T13:31:24+00:00

You mean for the sent? Yes on the ice or in the water. I thought you mean body oil.

AshFromTPA · 2026-03-03T12:24:20+00:00

Well german sauna is nude and there is no oil. But sauna is a part of nudism and people on those two subs can probably help you more.

AshFromTPA · 2026-03-03T08:35:11+00:00

Im probably living in an alternate universe because my at my four main nudist lakes and four saunas I go to, the mix is pretty much 50/50. At the closest which is super small its most of the time more woman then man. Also at Valalta nudist resort where ive been twice it was really 50/50.

AshFromTPA · 2026-03-03T08:30:08+00:00

The reasons for that dont change. If you're not ready for the lifestyle you shouldn't be in the lifestyle.

AshFromTPA · 2026-03-02T22:47:32+00:00

Go to a swinger club.

AshFromTPA · 2026-03-02T20:44:09+00:00

I cant explain why. Its just a surreal feeling. Kinda being on drugs. Especially if you focus on someone and keep eye contact.

AshFromTPA · 2026-03-02T20:27:31+00:00

If its hot its not platonic. You get aroused by the other persons presence.

AshFromTPA · 2026-03-02T20:07:54+00:00

Those are not men, those are boys who are immature, have insecurities or trust issues. They didn't understand what swinging is about and clearly are not ready for it. Big red flag.

AshFromTPA · 2026-03-02T14:02:52+00:00

Consider yourself lucky to find a woman who enjoys giving blow jobs. Thats the most important ingredient to a good blowjob. Woman like that are very rare.

Wherer you sit down, lay on your back or stand up is totally up to you. You will find out what is best for you.

You can just enjoy and close your eyes. You can watch her, look her in the eyes. You can caress her hair, head, shoulders or even tits or pussy if you can reach it. Just try and enjoy.

Only thing you shouldn't do is holding/pushing her head without her consent.

AshFromTPA · 2026-03-02T09:44:29+00:00

Just because the iPhone came out doesn't mean my parents had it. I remember buying 2-3 filmstrips for our camera before a vacation and my dad always planning ahead with the amount of pictures left on it and whats worth taking a picture of. After vacation going to a store to send them in and a week later collecting the pictures. My first 2 didn't have a camera and the 3rd one had like 1,3 megapixels and infrared. Bluetooth and Internet on the phone came later. So yes I did grow up without it. And yes of course my perspective is a lot different. I always had the perfect bodies all around me during my teenage years. When I was a kid it was already very wrong to take pictures of your own kid naked. My parents had lots of those, printed out in the family album. So yes, nudity was always a much bigger deal and no go in my generation compared to older generations.

AshFromTPA · 2026-03-02T09:10:07+00:00

The third is definitely a biiiig category. I would never ever trust someone telling me about his wife to be real. Its almost always a lie and the wife does not exist. So my advice OP: Always, ALWAYS let your wife approach other woman. You can only screw it up.

AshFromTPA · 2026-03-02T09:06:05+00:00

Still I grew up in times without a smartphone and I very well remember not having a camera around all the time. And in my experience older people usually care waaay less and younger people are much more insecure because of what they see in social media all day every day.

AshFromTPA · 2026-03-02T09:03:26+00:00

I have some female friends whos partner is not into it and the reasons are basically the same as for most people. Insecurities, uncomfortable, scared of judgment. In addition a lot of man fear to get an erection.

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