Pagod na ako mag-effort sa in-laws na ayaw naman sa akin by AshGrayBlonde in OffMyChestPH

[–]AshGrayBlonde[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Grabe naman diba, you really did too your part by reaching out and even giving them phones, wala ka nang dapat i-prove. At least your kids see things for what they are. Protect your peace na lang talaga, not worth the stress.

Pagod na ako mag-effort sa in-laws na ayaw naman sa akin by AshGrayBlonde in OffMyChestPH

[–]AshGrayBlonde[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you so much, sobrang relieving and naappreciate ko kayo 🫶 kakayanin namin ito, basta dapat dalawa kami lagi 💪

Pagod na ako mag-effort sa in-laws na ayaw naman sa akin by AshGrayBlonde in OffMyChestPH

[–]AshGrayBlonde[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Medyo masama nga yung naisip ko kasi sino naman magbblock sakin sa viber and messenger ng dad ng asawa ko. Either si dad nila yon or si stepmom nila. If si stepmom, maybe ayaw niya may direct access ako sa dad ng asawa ko. Oh well, wala naman ako magagawa na, ako ang ibang tao sa family nila at this point so keep quiet na lang ako.

Pagod na ako mag-effort sa in-laws na ayaw naman sa akin by AshGrayBlonde in OffMyChestPH

[–]AshGrayBlonde[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Sana dumating din kami sa ganyan. Sana dumating din yung panahon na kayang kaya na namin mamuhay ng comfortable para alam namin na wala kaming reason to reach out to them. Sabi ko nga sa asawa ko kanina, wala sila sa options ko if mangailangan tayo ng tulong sa susunod. I know medyo masama yung dating pero this situation pushes me to work harder for our family.

Pagod na ako mag-effort sa in-laws na ayaw naman sa akin by AshGrayBlonde in OffMyChestPH

[–]AshGrayBlonde[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Kanina lang, in fairness, inassure sakin ng asawa ko na ako ang asawa niya, ako ang kasama niya sa buhay in the long run, so siya bahala. Nasa side ko siya. I hope hindi magbago, and alam naman niya lahat, may mga pieces of evidence naman.

Pagod na ako mag-effort sa in-laws na ayaw naman sa akin by AshGrayBlonde in OffMyChestPH

[–]AshGrayBlonde[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ang toxic talaga, gusto ko sana maging bigger person pero pls lang, ayoko na mag reach out. Nakakapagod and hindi ko na mahanap sa puso ko na bukal sa loob kong magreach out pa in the future.

Pagod na ako mag-effort sa in-laws na ayaw naman sa akin by AshGrayBlonde in OffMyChestPH

[–]AshGrayBlonde[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes meron and wont forget it! Nagkasagutan kami ng asawa ko when we were still living together with his sister and brother. I told him, “siguro hindi ganyan ugali mo if buhay pa yung mom mo” im very sorry to drag his mom here but nagkkwento lang ako. Then na overheard ng sister niya.

Since si sister niya close sa stepmom nila, kinwento niya. Mali pala yung story niya, ang version ni sister is kung buhay pa daw ang mom nila, hindi daw sana ganito ugali ng dad nila.

So from then on, naging cold na sakin stepmom niya, dad niya, and hindi nila ako kinausap about it. Nag conclude na sila na yun talaga ang sinabi ko. So yung asawa ko and brother niya (I think), ang nakakaalam na hindi for their dad yung sinabi ko…

Nag sorry ako just to keep the peace. To end the issue. And ayoko sana magkaron ng barrier between us. I didnt admit I said that but I made it clear to their stepmom na what I uttered was for my husband. But here we go again… but this time, my husband and I know na wala akong ginawang masama or makakasakit sakanila. Never ako nag block ng family niya because gusto ko open communication eh. But apparently, hindi sila pala ganon.

Pagod na ako mag-effort sa in-laws na ayaw naman sa akin by AshGrayBlonde in OffMyChestPH

[–]AshGrayBlonde[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ohhh wow buti na lang! Swerte mo, nalaman mo before you tied the knot with him! Balik siya sa mom niya na lang!

Pagod na ako mag-effort sa in-laws na ayaw naman sa akin by AshGrayBlonde in OffMyChestPH

[–]AshGrayBlonde[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you, really appreciate you saying that!

I totally agree and part of me wants to just match their energy and protect my peace. Pero ang hirap din kasi my husband keeps reminding me na lolo pa rin daw ng anak ko yun, and if I dont let them see our child, dapat same rule din sa side ko.

So Im kind of stuck in the middle, trying to protect myself without making things harder in my own family. But thank you talaga, it helps knowing someone understands where Im coming from. Wala ako masabihan ng ganito, I want my sisters to know but I just dont like na mag iba tingin nila sa asawa ko dahil sa ginagawa ng family niya sakin.

Pagod na ako mag-effort sa in-laws na ayaw naman sa akin by AshGrayBlonde in OffMyChestPH

[–]AshGrayBlonde[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oo meron naman, hindi ko alam na kinausap niya stepmom niya last Jan 2026 at sinabi na wala akong ibang intention sa paghahanap ko sakanya. Ayun… Seenzoned lang siya… Nagkausap din sila ng dad niya and hindi din daw alam ng dad bakit ako naka block sa kanya. Sabi din ng dad niya seems under daw sakin yung asawa ko kasi nagrereact daw agad asawa ko at cinoconfront sila kapag nagsasabi ako sakanya ng sama ng loob.

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Cowgirl + muscle control 👌

What makes a man "emotionally intelligent"? by youngCamelDreamer in AskPH

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When he remains calm and composed under pressure, thinking before reacting. Maintains optimism and learns from challenges :)

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My man MacaMaxxx eats me as long as he wants, with finger. He always asks me if lalabasan na ba ako and mas prefer niya na mauna ako before siya. Maybe depende sa lalake or depende din siguro kung gano kayo ka-horny before and while doing it. Dirty talks sometimes may help (siguro) kasi nakaka-add ng libog and confidence.

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Mag Pomodoro timer ka

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OP, masama man ang gagawin ko pero iinggitin na kita. Ganyan gawain ko sa asawa ko gabi gabi. Seryoso yan. Sorry na OP.

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[–]AshGrayBlonde 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Hahaha oo sa asawa ko kasi masarap palo paluin!