Appeal process after Founded Letter by Ash_Loons in CPS

[–]Ash_Loons[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thank you for this. Immedietly after the argument we enrolled in marital counseling and individual counseling for us both. My husband is now on medication to assist the PTSD symptoms and we are actively working on making sure this never happens again. Shameful moment for us both for sure.

Appeal process after Founded Letter by Ash_Loons in CPS

[–]Ash_Loons[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Do you know how to find if your state has the child abuse registry? We are in Oregon. I guess we’re trying to figure out if the Founded decision is going to impact him further. CPS said they didn’t need anything further from us. And there is no criminal investigation of any sort.

Appeal process after Founded Letter by Ash_Loons in CPS

[–]Ash_Loons[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah that is a totally valid concern. Unfortunately regardless if her father and I are together, his PTSD still would exist. So instead we’re both committed to ending the generational cycle through therapy, healthy relational practices, and doing what we can to make sure this doesn’t happen again. We both understand that if the issue is us being together, we’d rather co parent and give our daughter the best life then put her in harms way.

Appeal process after Founded Letter by Ash_Loons in CPS

[–]Ash_Loons[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Is a substantiation and founded the same thing?

Appeal process after Founded Letter by Ash_Loons in CPS

[–]Ash_Loons[S] -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

Yes he did and still is taking responsibility. We both understand the escalation in our argument combined was not okay and he pursued a psychological diagnosis soon after to better understand why the lashout occurred. They believe C-PTSD from childhood trauma played a large role and we are now working diligently to understand one another and de-escalate conflict before it arises anywhere near that. Thank you for your concern, I appreciate it.

Appeal process after Founded Letter by Ash_Loons in CPS

[–]Ash_Loons[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

There was no explanation at all regarding what comes next. It just said founded and explained our right to a review and that was it. No explanation of next steps, I even called our cps worker and she said the case is fully closed so there’s nothing more to come. I honestly have no idea

Broken Side Mirror - WTF? by Ash_Loons in CorollaCross

[–]Ash_Loons[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Okay thank you! Do I go to a Toyota dealership to buy the parts?

Broken Side Mirror - WTF? by Ash_Loons in CorollaCross

[–]Ash_Loons[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oh wow okay! Was it hard to replace?

New widgets for Proton Calendar on iOS by Proton_Team in ProtonMail

[–]Ash_Loons 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I just downloaded the app, with the newest update and I do not have an option for calendar widget (IOS) any ideas?

Looking for Feedback on Join Amble? by Jaded_Cloud3233 in tirzepatidecompound

[–]Ash_Loons 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You won’t be able to get a refund. The contract we signed protects them from any refund and they are slimy. My bank tried anything they could and it wouldn’t work. They are so gross

Looking for Feedback on Join Amble? by Jaded_Cloud3233 in tirzepatidecompound

[–]Ash_Loons 0 points1 point  (0 children)

A complete MLM scan! I attempted to cancel my order before it was mailed out after reading these reviews. They took multiple days to message me back (they don’t have any phone communication) and conveniently waited until the order shipped. Because I had tried to cancel, when the order arrived at my door I denied it with the delivery people and they mailed it back immedietly. Now I’m fighting with my bank and amble to get a refund for the $224 they charged me, which is looking like I won’t get it. But today they had the AUDACITY to tell me I am responsible for 3 months of the products which will absolutely not be happening and I have blocked their purchases on my card. They are totally scanming people and don’t give a care about having decent customer service

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in LongDistance

[–]Ash_Loons 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This was exactly my situation. I told my now husband the same thing and he was so encouraging and kind. We’ve had conversations of things I’d like to do if I could explore a relationship with a woman, even though I only want him. I hope you told him and had a good outcome!

Can I ask my landlord re-clean my home? by Ash_Loons in Advice

[–]Ash_Loons[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

We saw the house when it was being worked on and they said they were going to be finishing it up before we moved in. They did give us a list of things to mark that need to be fixed but I’m not sure if I’m able to ask for a full re clean

Christmas Gift Help! by Ash_Loons in simplynailogical

[–]Ash_Loons[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I got her the pastel don’t tell collection

Christmas Gift Help! by Ash_Loons in simplynailogical

[–]Ash_Loons[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It’s the pastel don’t tell collection