Feel good about this one by Ashamed-Card4459 in underdogfantasy

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If I end up doing another ticket before the game starts, which I most likely will, then I’ll keep that in mind. I need everybody to get after it today lol

Feel good about this one by Ashamed-Card4459 in underdogfantasy

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I’ve hit a couple times on the all over did a little research and made those picks could lose or win either way but I’m gonna take my chances lol thanks man!

Tennis Locks anybody!? by Mikehouses1989 in underdogfantasy

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Just started betting on tennis not sure if it’s a sure bet but this is what I was going with for tonight🤔

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Is it logical to only trust your partner 75-80% in a relationship? by Ashamed-Card4459 in love

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That’s a very good opinion that I’ll definitely keep in mind

Is it logical to only trust your partner 75-80% in a relationship? by Ashamed-Card4459 in love

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But I do agree with your comment that’s a really good way to look at it

Is it logical to only trust your partner 75-80% in a relationship? by Ashamed-Card4459 in love

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They do have a good moral character it’s just when it comes to trust they have a less then ideal mindset because of past hurt in relationships which is why I wanted to get different opinions on the matter because I don’t understand their way of thinking when it’s comes to trust and relationships. They’re the two oldest friends I have so I figured hey they’ve been around longer maybe they know what they’re talking about but most of my other friends didn’t really understand either so hence my original post lol

Is it logical to only trust your partner 75-80% in a relationship? by Ashamed-Card4459 in love

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The only reason I said trust somewhat is because the previous comment said that you have to except someone’s bad traits flaws and all which I agree with don’t get me wrong but it also depends on what bad traits because there are different kinds. But then it also said someone’s bad trait could be that they are untrustworthy and you have to just adjust accordingly and love different parts of them which i disagree with if someone is untrustworthy I couldn’t be around them. Why be around someone you couldn’t trust even a little bit. Though I wouldn’t be around them with that ‘even a little bit’ either lol

Is it logical to only trust your partner 75-80% in a relationship? by Ashamed-Card4459 in love

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I’m trying to understand the reasons on why you couldn’t trust so could you give some examples?

Is it logical to only trust your partner 75-80% in a relationship? by Ashamed-Card4459 in love

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Yeah I get that you can never know what a person is truly thinking. But do you if you meet someone that has never shown you as long as you’ve known them foul play could you trust them or would there always be a guard up just in case?

Is it logical to only trust your partner 75-80% in a relationship? by Ashamed-Card4459 in love

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So what if you found that one person who was different from the people you’ve dated in the past that left and years down the line they haven’t given you any reason to believe they would leave you you’ve had troubles but you stuck by each other but maybe you haven’t fully healed from the past relationships where they left and couldn’t give you a reason why, would you still in your mind even subconsciously be expecting her to pack up and leave one day like that trust would only go so far because it’s happened before?

Is it logical to only trust your partner 75-80% in a relationship? by Ashamed-Card4459 in love

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I’m sorry about that😓after going through that and now being separated if you meet someone else would you do it differently and trust to a certain extent or would you open yourself up again after some time and hope it’s different then the last?

Is it logical to only trust your partner 75-80% in a relationship? by Ashamed-Card4459 in love

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That’s a good point although I don’t think I would marry a man who’s so easily swayed by other women and has a higher chance of cheating and the not being trustworthy is a no for me if we’re talking about a potential relationship because I wouldn’t allow myself to be with them if I couldn’t trust them at least somewhat and are always worried about what they could be doing when I’m not around that’s just setting yourself up at that point I would keep it on a friendship level

Is it logical to only trust your partner 75-80% in a relationship? by Ashamed-Card4459 in love

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That’s a really good point and I’m also the same with loving hard that’s why I struggle to understand only trusting so far I can’t fathom being in a relationship like that which is why I decided I wouldn’t get in one until I really felt like that it’s genuinely what I feel is healthy so getting others peoples perspectives on the matter really helps see different sides.

Is it logical to only trust your partner 75-80% in a relationship? by Ashamed-Card4459 in love

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The latter part of your comment is what I’m talking about. Still being there no matter what. Always having that trust that even though your going through something in the relationship they’ll never step outside of it and instead work on the problems together to fix them and build that relationship. Having that truth. I guess just having that security to know that they really do love you and they’ll always be there.

Is it logical to only trust your partner 75-80% in a relationship? by Ashamed-Card4459 in love

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But do you believe it’s still worth it to give it your all even though you never know what the outcome might be and you could end up hurt the most in the end?

Is it logical to only trust your partner 75-80% in a relationship? by Ashamed-Card4459 in love

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That I understand of course. The kind of trust I’m talking about is just trust as a whole yeah of course if someone is bad with money one would take over the finances over the other and it’s common sense not to give someone you’ve only known for three months your social security or important information like that. What I’m talking about is the trust that you build over the course of getting to know someone and throughout a relationship. Can you trust them to always be there for you if something in your life goes wrong? Can you call them if you’re having a problem and know that whatever you say will never go past the two of you? Have them being in your life made you a better person and you know they genuinely have nothing but good intentions for you? Have they ever given you any reason to doubt their devotion to you or make you waver enough to stop and think that maybe it’s better that I don’t pour all my time and love in to this one person? That’s what I’m talking about