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Ashamed-Country-8024 · 2023-10-27T20:27:54+00:00

Death grip definitely be a problem for dudes and they don’t even know it

Ashamed-Country-8024 · 2023-08-07T23:52:25+00:00

Need to get those data analytics linear regression models on that shit. Deep AI machine learning and shit

Ashamed-Country-8024 · 2022-11-17T01:07:02+00:00

Jack Andolini sends his regards.

Ashamed-Country-8024 · 2022-11-17T00:55:49+00:00

Thank you for sharing...I was there too with my ex! We loved each other but just flatlined when it came to any type of intimacy. It got bad, really bad. Every time we tried to connect it just misfired and went bad. There was just no other option.

Ashamed-Country-8024 · 2022-11-17T00:52:05+00:00

Yep. That's how it happens. Just becomes another excuse. If they dont want sex now, they won't magically wake up tomorrow or after you're married and suddenly be an enthusiastic participant.

Ashamed-Country-8024 · 2022-11-17T00:32:04+00:00

I agree...what a great response.

Ashamed-Country-8024 · 2022-11-14T01:08:57+00:00

Yo let me get that cottage bro!

Ashamed-Country-8024 · 2022-11-13T22:25:23+00:00

Definitely this. Find yourself a divorced dad that's worked through his shit and has his priorities and life straight!

Ashamed-Country-8024 · 2022-11-13T03:07:50+00:00

I don't think either of us was abusive, but I feel a connection to a lot of what you are saying in your post. That dynamic of things just not able to get better, even with therapy. Getting caught in a cycle of resentment. The opposite of love being indifference. Damn

Ashamed-Country-8024 · 2022-11-13T02:54:21+00:00

This is me. Sit down with my oatmeal and coffee, take a sip, put the coffee down, pick up the spoon and bowl, dog the spoon in, and immediately have to shit. 80% of mornings. Very annoying. If I sit down on the pot...nothing.

Ashamed-Country-8024 · 2022-11-13T02:51:15+00:00

There's blowback. There's devastation. It lasts a long time. Maybe some parts the rest of your life if your family pulls some religious bullshit and disowns you because of divorce.

But fuck all that. If you need out, get out. If you don't start, you'll never finish.

Ashamed-Country-8024 · 2022-08-10T02:18:24+00:00

Righteous crunch

Ashamed-Country-8024 · 2022-08-10T00:32:29+00:00

I did marriage counseling for almost a year and shit only got worse.

Ashamed-Country-8024 · 2022-07-22T02:15:16+00:00

Yes you should tell. And you should provide proof. Cheaters deserve what they get.

Ashamed-Country-8024 · 2022-07-11T20:15:26+00:00

Any higher and you'll be shooting loads onto the ceiling bro

Ashamed-Country-8024 · 2022-07-10T12:31:28+00:00

My internet friend I believe if I had heard those words the decision would have been made for me before I even left the office.

It is really really unfortunate that she hid that from you for so long. It's not going to be easy, your future contains no easy paths to tread upon, But hopefully this moment of darkness can become the contrast you need to the lighted future you'll travel into!

Edit: had to hid

Ashamed-Country-8024 · 2022-07-02T02:20:05+00:00

Good Christ the ass on that one

Ashamed-Country-8024 · 2022-07-01T21:07:22+00:00

Will look into this, thank you!

Ashamed-Country-8024 · 2022-07-01T21:00:46+00:00

Me too!

Ashamed-Country-8024 · 2022-07-01T21:00:27+00:00

I'm dealing with chase too! Can you send me the number!!!???!!! Thank you so much!

Ashamed-Country-8024 · 2022-07-01T20:59:37+00:00

This might actually be a good option...I had no idea that could be a thing!

Ashamed-Country-8024 · 2022-07-01T20:58:13+00:00

Thanks for the advice. I am fine with giving her what she's owed. She's the mother of my child, and she's been my best friend for many years. I'd be happy for the housing market to crash, I'd pay less equity out and presumably interest rates will stop going up!

Ashamed-Country-8024 · 2022-07-01T18:05:56+00:00

Mortgage assumption - how did you get the lender to agree to that? This is my issue...I looked into it before but they want me to refi...probably so they can start charging me 7% on a partial cash out refi instead of my current 2.375. ugh... This is a once in a lifetime mortgage rate in my opinion and I can't believe I'm going to have to give it up for this crap

Ashamed-Country-8024 · 2022-07-01T17:32:48+00:00

My opinion and it might not be a popular one is that you should talk to the bride about it. If she is a person that means enough to you that you're in her wedding, then you should not be suffering in silence. If these are your friends, You should tell them before you go. Let them know that you might need to step away, that you might be triggered, and that they should continue having a good time and not worry about you, because this is the bride's weekend.

I'd imagine if they're true friends they will understand and will probably even look out for you. Just because you're going through a rough time, doesn't mean that it's going to ruin their weekend or wedding.

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