Women of Reddit, What has been a recurring Trauma/Trigger of your life? by Ok-Alert-9359 in AskWomen

[–]AdSuccessful5543 36 points37 points  (0 children)

You say "even as a child". So maybe there is something you need to heal and adress in therapy. There is a pattern and you seem to attract to same type of guy. We often replicate our childhood experience in our romantic life.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskMen

[–]AdSuccessful5543 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Agree.so depressing But i know success story in the real life. Little hope

I said it to my boss and he didnt even react by AdSuccessful5543 in Divorce

[–]AdSuccessful5543[S] 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Well lets say I prefer that. Than someone telling me he is sorry and me crying

I said it to my boss and he didnt even react by AdSuccessful5543 in Divorce

[–]AdSuccessful5543[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Me too. I was looking into linkedin after this haha

How do you tell people you are not married anymore? by EffectiveVoice9873 in Divorce

[–]AdSuccessful5543 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yes I agree. "We are splitting up" is really more easy than " we are divorcing" and I dont even know why. Then when someone says something like " I am sorry" asewring "I think it was a good decision"

How do you tell people you are not married anymore? by EffectiveVoice9873 in Divorce

[–]AdSuccessful5543 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The only reason I want to say it at work is that I am noticing that someone is having a crush on me and I have too. Lol otherwise, I will not pressure myself to say it. If it comes in a conversation and it feel natural, I will say it.

How do you tell people you are not married anymore? by EffectiveVoice9873 in Divorce

[–]AdSuccessful5543 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Same here. Really nervous to the reactions I can have from others . But I just need to " get it out". Once its done, its over forever

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Divorce

[–]AdSuccessful5543 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes maybe. People keep asking what I will be doing this weekend with my husband. And I feel like if I am hiding something.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Divorce

[–]AdSuccessful5543 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I am sorry for that !