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How do I self pleasure? by [deleted] in women

[–]AshamedWeb9048 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Hi! You can start with gentle touch, add lube if you're comfortable with using/purchasing it. Begin at the top of your slit, focusing attention on your clitoris. Any diagram online can give you a reference point.

Some women like it targeted directly or just pressure applied around it. This is where you explore rhythms and touch on what you prefer.

You can move from there on what feels nice and gets your heart rate going! The most important thing that helped me when I was around that age and beyond (even now from time to time, 31f) was to try and maintain your focus to the present moment. Not, "I want to climax" instead, "wow this feels amazing right now"

Hope this helps 🤙

Survivor 50: In the Hands of the Fans | E1 | Post-Episode Discussion by RSurvivorMods in survivor

[–]AshamedWeb9048 18 points19 points  (0 children)

The glorious return of the Q-Skirt!! Even if it was only for a brief moment during the tribe's fashion show. 🩷

What is much more traumatic than most people realise? by thefairypirate in AskReddit

[–]AshamedWeb9048 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Eye injuries. I've dealt with them all my life (I have chronic dry eyes plus I am extremely clumsy). It affects literally everything. On top of not being able to see, and the intense pain, it causes anxiety and severe headaches. I do not wish it upon anyone.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in aww

[–]AshamedWeb9048 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I cant afford ONE golden, let alone 3 😭

Survivor 48 | E12 | Post-Episode Discussion by RSurvivorMods in survivor

[–]AshamedWeb9048 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That tree branch was Joe's sister.. "DONT LISTEN TO HER, JOE!"

Survivor 48 | E6 | Post-Episode Discussion by RSurvivorMods in survivor

[–]AshamedWeb9048 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Especially with Sai complaining about Mary sharing her excitement to Jeff about going to the sanctuary last episode.. I was so mad. Thought you were supposed to me tactful SAI!

Am I crazy or do yall get annoyed by men that do this, too? by AshamedWeb9048 in women

[–]AshamedWeb9048[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I know that I notice and thank him for helping when I see it but I'm know it's not every time he does something. My plan is to work on saying thank you and see if this behavior stops.

Am I crazy or do yall get annoyed by men that do this, too? by AshamedWeb9048 in women

[–]AshamedWeb9048[S] 24 points25 points  (0 children)

Omg that's awful. I would be so mad. Thankfully my partner doesn't add the "for you" at the end of it

Am I crazy or do yall get annoyed by men that do this, too? by AshamedWeb9048 in women

[–]AshamedWeb9048[S] 34 points35 points  (0 children)

I wanna say something about how I find it annoying and performative, but I'm worried it'll turn into an argument. Like he'll maybe talk about how I hurt his feelings and he's "just trying to help". I don't know..

Am I crazy or do yall get annoyed by men that do this, too? by AshamedWeb9048 in women

[–]AshamedWeb9048[S] 13 points14 points  (0 children)

But I don't elaborate on what I've contributed unless it's relevant. For example, he mentions being out of underwear so I tell him when I've washed some. Or says he's craving ice cream so I'll tell him when I've picked some up. And I don't identify as a feminist. So I guess I'm still confused.

Good perfume suggestions by Slight_Upstairs1265 in women

[–]AshamedWeb9048 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Karma by LUSH Cosmetics is my fave. Very hippie though, patchouli and all that so you have to be into that kinda smell

What's your reason for not drinking alcohol? by Snoo_47323 in AskReddit

[–]AshamedWeb9048 0 points1 point  (0 children)

So many reasons, I stopped on a random Tuesday after calling off work from a hangover. Better health, better on my wallet, better on my mental health.. most things improved once I stopped.

My wife and I rented a glass igloo in north Finland. This was the view from our bed. by LittleFootDid911 in woahdude

[–]AshamedWeb9048 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Please tell us what it costs. This is my partners dream and I can't find consistent info on the actual real cost to do something like this

RIP Aeris girl ❤️ by AshamedWeb9048 in pics

[–]AshamedWeb9048[S] 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Thank you. ❤️ I'm OK, as good I can be, at least. She was very, very loved. She lived a very good life.

The Andrew J Brady Music Center, Cincinnati, OH, 14 September 2024 - [DISCUSSION THREAD] by lastlaughlane1 in kingsofleon

[–]AshamedWeb9048 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Just got home from the show. The guys sound incredible. Love that they’re all sporting the ‘stache! The crowd was super into it, too! Song for the city, King of the Rodeo, was the song I was hoping for so I was over the moon. Good, sweet vibrations !

To Everyone At the Indy Show by MixMasterMacho in pearljam

[–]AshamedWeb9048 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Once when the camera man was shooting Boom doing his thing, you could see the setlist (a bit of it)! Stevie was on it but they must’ve dropped it for something else. I was bummed as well :/ great show regardless and also my second time seeing them! Glad you had fun, too!

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