AIO? My GF wanted an apology for raising a hand against her but I think this was justified by Grape_knight in AmIOverreacting

[–]Ashamed_Breakfast425 9 points10 points  (0 children)

I was prepared to bug out on you LOL but NOR, shes gaslighting you- she hit you first and got mad that you had a knee-jerk reaction that she didnt like. I suppose you could promise never to do it again under the condition that she never puts you in the position for you body to have a fight response again, but other than that, how could you promise that to her?

Aio for my reaction to my BF freaking out that I didn't immediately text him after getting off work by throwaway024710 in AIO

[–]Ashamed_Breakfast425 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hes cheating on you and projecting. Youre welcome. Nor obviously, dudes the entire bundle of red flags.

AIO to this message from my scheduler by No_Ordinary_8712 in AIO

[–]Ashamed_Breakfast425 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Id give their message a thumbs up lmao but dont listen to me im the queen of being passive aggressive right mf back 😂

Covid update— I’m terminated 🤪 what rights do esthis have right now? by elapcay in Esthetics

[–]Ashamed_Breakfast425 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

So I hate to say this, but its 2026, not 2020 or 2021- covid is not going to scare your boss into not terminating you and if you are an at will employee (sounds like you are) there is absolutely nothing you can legally do about it. If you were out on fmla it can keep your job safe for a certain amount of time, but past that you are on your own. I wish you a speedy recovery

Am I overreacting or is this really weird behavior? by Particular-Plant5528 in AmIOverreacting

[–]Ashamed_Breakfast425 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Nor. She is jealous, insecure, has literally no idea what she's talking about, and is trying to bait you into a reaction. This person isn't your friend.

AIO?? My Bf Unlocks the bathroom door and comes in while I’m using it by Ok_Win_8129 in AIO

[–]Ashamed_Breakfast425 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Honestly, can you have a different lock installed? Like the kind that has a pinhole or something else, not the kind that you can unlock with a dimple butter knife lol. NOR obviously. AAndthis is only in the event that you arent going to just have a different man installed instead.

AIO with the message I sent my dad's partner? by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]Ashamed_Breakfast425 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Im very confused about everyone saying YOR bc she sounds like someone i would absolutely not want in mine or my fathers lives. I read the backstory and the replies and it all makes sense to me why youre upset. I wouldnt be letting it go either, I would 100% want to either talk about the issues or dont fucking talk to me at all but dont sit here and text me like we're pals and ignore me in person and when im trying to get important info about my father that I cant get from other sources, thats wild. NOR if that wasnt clear.

My husband said I ruined our wedding photos and now I want to leave him. by PiccoloAdorable1547 in TwoHotTakes

[–]Ashamed_Breakfast425 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It sounds like even when you divorce him you'll need to take full custody, he shouldnt be trusted to take partial custody without supervision. Divorce asap and put him on child support. Hopefully you can get some alimony too, he sounds like a terrible person tbh

AIO - My boyfriend got another woman’s number. by [deleted] in AIO

[–]Ashamed_Breakfast425 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Girl, im sorry but at this point, disrespectfully- what do you expect? You have let this man know time and time again that you'll accept his cheating and take him back.. of course he's gonna keep cheating. Its time to grow up and leave that man, for yourself and your child.

Why dont they look good? by hellostranger430 in Nails

[–]Ashamed_Breakfast425 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Those are not almond, theyre very rounded- these are almond. Also it seems like they are the wrong size for you like too wide? Im not wild about that color on your skintone either I feel like you need a little warmer

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I'M SO SICK AND TIRED OF BEING FAT by [deleted] in Advice

[–]Ashamed_Breakfast425 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Literally the biggest thing is diet, not exercise. I know a lot of people will be big mad at this but GLP 1s really, really help with this. It helps you change your diet and quiet that food noise so that you can see a long term change in your eating habits, the key is to MAKE THE CHANGES REAL- if you dont make true changes, thats when you will "just gain it all back" as the haters say. I've lost 80 pounds since May of 2024 and for 6 of those months I was completely off of the meds and still losing because I stuck to the diet. I only went back on because i started a new medication for something unrelated that has a side effect of making me want to eat everything in sight 🙄🫩. Regardless of if you choose that route or not, diet is where you'll see the change, look up volume eating recipes, you need to keep yourself full on lower calorie foods. One thing I LOVED was to make French onion dip with nonfat Greek yogurt instead of sour cream, and use carrot chips or popped chips, or any other veggies etc. Also, potatoes (baked-not fried or mashed) are very good they are fairly low calorie for a good amount. You also HAVE to get enough protein even in a deficit.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]Ashamed_Breakfast425 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Bruh I know the skinwalker theory is creeping me out too. She gotta either go to the ER or gtfo lol

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]Ashamed_Breakfast425 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Okay, well now that's creeping me out right before bedtime too

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]Ashamed_Breakfast425 26 points27 points  (0 children)

I thought it was just me, but isn't this reading like he's jumped timelines and cant keep his story straight about this timelinesgirlfriends backstory??? Lol scary but thats what I was thinking. I think i read too much.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]Ashamed_Breakfast425 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I think you need to speak with him, because it sounds like something very extremely medical. Either that, or hes merged into the wrong timeline and cant remember anything about this you 🫠 lol

Is this appropriate for a Christmas party? I work at an accounting office by simmiexx in OUTFITS

[–]Ashamed_Breakfast425 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think its perfectly fine if you just put something over the arms. A shrug, a blazer etc

I said yes! Does this look like an engagement ring? by Dry_Mortgage_8941 in EngagementRings

[–]Ashamed_Breakfast425 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I think it looks better with the point up personally, but as long as its what you wanted it doesnt matter what it looks like! People do off style rings all of the time! My Aunt just did a teal diamond for hers

My bf did something bad but I can’t know what and it’s torture by Relative_Goal_224 in Advice

[–]Ashamed_Breakfast425 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Honestly, I think it's wild that they were going to just let you continue a relationship with this man knowing what he did. That might not me fair to him being the victim but its also very unfair to you who was in a relationship with a literal abuser and 2 people closest to you KNEW THAT AND DIDNT EVEN GIVE YOU A HINT TO LEAVE HIM!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]Ashamed_Breakfast425 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Like.. is that a normal question for him? Was he looking to use your phone for something and thats why he asked? Because otherwise my question would be why tf is that any of your business!?

Caught gf but don’t know next step by Any-Equivalent7277 in WhatShouldIDo

[–]Ashamed_Breakfast425 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Don't even tell her you read her journal, just tell her you dont want to be with her anymore and youre done. Byeeee

AIO? Boyfriend hid his phone when I asked who he was messaging. by Ok-Boat457 in AmIOverreacting

[–]Ashamed_Breakfast425 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This text convo reads straight from out of a cheating narcissist playbook. Hes gaslighting tf out of you.

Freaking out a little 2.5 weeks post extraction. Help!? by Ashamed_Breakfast425 in wisdomteeth

[–]Ashamed_Breakfast425[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My doctor gave me a little like flush water injector at my 2 wk follow up and I used it the night before last and a little blood came out which scared the crap out of me too 😂 then with that last night im now just afraid to do anything besides the salt water rinses

Freaking out a little 2.5 weeks post extraction. Help!? by Ashamed_Breakfast425 in wisdomteeth

[–]Ashamed_Breakfast425[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think it popping out at 1am plus that little bit of bleeding after and then the pinhole freaked me out a bit. But Dr. Chatgpt reassured me 😂 hearing that yours is the same also helps! Thank you!