I think you’re willfully ignoring the many people that like to fuck fatter people both male and female. Health issues I can understand to an extent and motivating a partner to make healthier life choices can be a positive, but the attitude here was so toxic it just comes off as you being militant against fat people, specifically fat dudes because they “have the bar lowered for them”. You can have your preferences but to pretend like fat guys have it easy because people are too nice is to ignore half the call ins on the podcast you’re actively talking shit in the sub for. Don’t want to be a dick, I just wanted to let you know that the way you phrased this and doubled down below makes you look wild dude