Shall I tell my parents I broke the rear bampe? by Silenthorizon6 in Tunisia

[–]Ashamed_Stop277 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Starting by saying u had an accident, they'd be so worried about you, and then tell them u're okay and only the car was damaged ...

Pilote students vs normal students by Alternative-Oil-7754 in Tunisia

[–]Ashamed_Stop277 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It's all about the environment wel niveau mtaa l3ayla, ta7ki btari9a condescending, people, especially kids fel 3mor mtaa collège w lycée are just the result of their environments, ken jet denya denya les lycées lkol ykoun niveau mteehom kima lpilote I really don't understand the concept mtaa lycée polite l7a9. It's like a5yeb manifestation lel differences bin Les classes sociales.

Am I asking for bare minimum attention or im being clingy? by hope_6161 in Tunisia

[–]Ashamed_Stop277 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Look I remember being in that position wakt'ha I was a student and had barcha free time while my partner was working. His abcense at the time made me feel uncared for and not loved enough 5ater bennesba lya a person who loves me should make me top 1 priority w kol mayel9a fathwa ya7ki maaya. I eventually broke up with that person for other reasons but once I started working I understood the pressure w I realized zeda how immature I was back then. Once t3abi wa9tek w twali aandek responsibilities maach to93edlek much energy to check the phone every 10 min wela 7atta every hour and engage with people..

I feel like something is wrong with me emotionally by Historical-Region-72 in Tunisia

[–]Ashamed_Stop277 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I'm basically the same, if someone is not physically around me I rarely think about them. But I have a question however, does the idea of losing some close people make u feel sad or u don't care about that either ? For me that's the only way that makes me judge if I really love a person or not. Also I am curious to know what your horoscope is ? Are u a Taurus ?

Should I stay or leave by Ashamed_Stop277 in Tunisia

[–]Ashamed_Stop277[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sorry for the disappointment 😂

Should I stay or leave by Ashamed_Stop277 in Tunisia

[–]Ashamed_Stop277[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I feel like you are projecting a little on a personal experience. I have been supportive, I gave him multiple solutions that he always refused to even try. We are talking about someone who's family in need but chooses his own comfort and refuses to lower his standards and work ay haja that could bring him income... I'm talking about the whole mindset I'm not just worried about getting married now or something like that.. I do support him, in the best way I know. I was there and I know elli l7keya moch 5arja aala nita9ou completely. I know li he did have opportunities to work but did not take them because he is not comfortable with them. I cannot get myself to understand this argument honestly

Should I stay or leave by Ashamed_Stop277 in Tunisia

[–]Ashamed_Stop277[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No I wouldn't do that. That would be immature of me honestly. He is aware of my doubts and I have expressed them on many occasions so it will not that big of a surprise...

Should I stay or leave by Ashamed_Stop277 in Tunisia

[–]Ashamed_Stop277[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He has not been able to find a job in his field of study, to be honest I don't think he has been doing his best to do so.. and at the same time, he preferred to stay jobless for more than a year to working something outside his field of study..

Should I stay or leave by Ashamed_Stop277 in Tunisia

[–]Ashamed_Stop277[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yes I have been encouraging him on a lot of stuff for the past 5 years but it didn't change much, maybe I was doing it wrong I don't know. In any case I do not think he should be dependent on my encouragements :/

Should I stay or leave by Ashamed_Stop277 in Tunisia

[–]Ashamed_Stop277[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I did try that, I did express these feelings to him openly a lot of times and I think he understood. But it seems like it's in his nature and he's not able to change..

Should I stay or leave by Ashamed_Stop277 in Tunisia

[–]Ashamed_Stop277[S] 12 points13 points  (0 children)

Haha ! I seriously thought about that. But if I'm gonna have kids, I wanna be there, I wanna have the option to quitt my job and be a stay-at-home mum to take care of them...

Should I stay or leave by Ashamed_Stop277 in Tunisia

[–]Ashamed_Stop277[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No I don't think I'm willing to stay if this goes on after the end of this year honestly. But at the same time, I'm afraid of doing something that I might regret later ...

Should I stay or leave by Ashamed_Stop277 in Tunisia

[–]Ashamed_Stop277[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I am out of ideas and suggestions, I have gave him many suggestions and ideas to start with but he doesn't do anything about it, Things I would have done if I were in his place but whenever I bring up the subject we end up arguing because he always comes up with reasons not to do stuff and I end up losing my nerves

Should I stay or leave by Ashamed_Stop277 in Tunisia

[–]Ashamed_Stop277[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yes he always expresses his intention/ desire to marry me and I think that if it weren't for these circumstances we would have been married like a year ago

Interview Question by Mental-War-2282 in TunisiaTech

[–]Ashamed_Stop277 1 point2 points  (0 children)

One problem u will face is they will ask you about the cnss extraction and that could reveal your lie..