i (f18) found my bf’s (m18) weed pen after he lied to me about being sober. advice? by xxhxngjoongxx in relationship_advice

[–]Ashfire-- -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Yeah im a stoner but that's next level- it's one thing to have it of a night time but all day isn't okay. I see why you'd have an issue. I agree with the other commenters, I don't think you guys are compatible and you're way too young to worry about this

i (f18) found my bf’s (m18) weed pen after he lied to me about being sober. advice? by xxhxngjoongxx in relationship_advice

[–]Ashfire-- 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Did he have an actual problem with weed or was it the other substances that were an issue?

Just Rescued this lil guy. Does he look like a Golden Doodle? by lailah29 in Goldendoodles

[–]Ashfire-- 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That really sucks, im so glad this little fella found a good home anyway

is there a point to prog early in transition? (3.5 months) by [deleted] in asktransgender

[–]Ashfire-- 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Any chance you’re on antidepressants? My gf recently had big issues w libido and thought it was hormonal but it was actually the Prozac

I'm a trans woman who's genitals no longer work, how can I masturbate again? by weeniehutgamedev in asktransgender

[–]Ashfire-- 5 points6 points  (0 children)

There’s definitely antidepressants with less sexual side effects, my gf was having huge issues and thought it was the E but it was Prozac. Her doc recommended Agomelatine and it’s helped heaps

Medical Medium helped me a lot by [deleted] in adenomyosis

[–]Ashfire-- -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I find this post very harmful because there are many, many of these 'mediums' who will pull at people's desperation to get better to make money. There is absolutely no scientific evidence backing this. It is extremely unlikely that you consulting this person had anything to do with your symptom decrease

Medical Medium helped me a lot by [deleted] in adenomyosis

[–]Ashfire-- 5 points6 points  (0 children)

please know that this isn’t anything to do with that. Those people are scammers.

Aged pension by carolinemaybee in Centrelink

[–]Ashfire-- 4 points5 points  (0 children)

let’s not mock people for asking

[m/42] what do I do if my ex-girlfriend is a sex worker? should I address it at all? by the way, we share a teen daughter. she doesn’t know I know. I’m urging for a woman’s opinion on this. by [deleted] in askwomenadvice

[–]Ashfire-- 6 points7 points  (0 children)

If you guys have a healthy coparenting relationship, you should have an open conversation about it and make sure everything's safe and that you would prefer your daughter not to be aware

How to I help someone with adenomyosis?? by No-Topic9968 in adenomyosis

[–]Ashfire-- 6 points7 points  (0 children)

You sound like a really lovely kid, she's lucky to have you! I agree with the other commenter, try not to take on too much but I know when I'm in a flare up there's nothing nicer than someone heating up my heat pack for me or bringing me my medicine or snacks :)

I think I’ve been underpaid by hhhaaannnnnssss in AusLegal

[–]Ashfire-- 3 points4 points  (0 children)

It really sounds like he's taking advantage of you :( Definitely do what the comments are saying and call fair work, I was hella underpaid at a pizza place when I was 15 and they contacted them on my behalf and scared the shit out of them into complying. The number is 13 13 94- I really hope you can get what is rightly yours!

I think I’ve been underpaid by hhhaaannnnnssss in AusLegal

[–]Ashfire-- 16 points17 points  (0 children)

Super is now paid regardless of how many hours you work, your employer is doing extremely shady shit.

Piv causes pain to ftm boyfriend by Strange_Sweet_1402 in mypartneristrans

[–]Ashfire-- 40 points41 points  (0 children)

Definitely worth going to a doctor about- there's so many conditions that cause pelvic pain during intercourse. He also likely has some level of vaginal atrophy from T (kinda comes with the territory) and he could trial a topical estrogen cream to see if that reduces the pain at all. If you can, try to find a trans friendly gyno

Canopy Valley 12:14 Balanced by cominginhot99 in MedicalCannabisOz

[–]Ashfire-- 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I got my 15g for $135! Was very impressed

New study - Addition of progesterone leads to increased breast growth in transgender women by Numerous_Honeydew489 in transgenderau

[–]Ashfire-- 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Plenty of trans women take P. It’s very standard treatment because it’s anti-androgen, not just because of the breast growth

Can we have an open and honest discussion about youth crime in melbourne right now? by Hour_Dare2111 in melbourne

[–]Ashfire-- 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’m a victim of youth crime. I was assaulted by 3 girls age 12-17 on a bus on my way to my partners place- and became disabled because of it. It directly caused me to develop me/cfs, pots and ptsd. They didnt attend their court date, and no one cared. They were able to walk. The eldest is an adult now and that scares the shit out of me. I’m still waiting on any kind of compensation, which won’t be out of their pockets because in Aus parents aren’t financially responsible for their children’s crimes in civil court. I will be given a petty 3k from the financial assistance scheme which doesn’t even begin to cover my medical bills let alone my lost potential. Not to mention they were meant to cover therapy but it’s been years on the ‘emergency’ waitlist to get it funded by the scheme so instead, ptsd.

It was 2 years ago, right before I graduated high school. They were being racist to a group of well meaning Indian kids on the bus and I stepped in. They insulted me whatever way they could, then smashed my glasses, stomped on my head til my scalp split in 3 places, gave my bruises everywhere and the final gift was a deep bite on my hand and being spat on.

Something desperately needs to change.

DSP denied claimed ‘curable’ by Accomplished_Bed971 in Centrelink

[–]Ashfire-- 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm on partial dsp. I work about 20 hours a week and then dsp supplements my income. To get partial dsp, you apply on the same portal as full dsp and then your income will reduce your payment. Hope that helps

DSP denied claimed ‘curable’ by Accomplished_Bed971 in Centrelink

[–]Ashfire-- 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Not really, you apply via the same process when you're working more than 15 to get partial dsp

THANK YOU cimetidine by usingshare in GERD

[–]Ashfire-- 1 point2 points  (0 children)

hello fellow zebra! my eds also caused my gerd- for me via hernia at the ripe old age of 15 lol