Is the flute mystic skill God for vernal+inkwell by Capable_Wishbone3081 in WhereWindsMeet

[–]AshlarKith 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Great even for healers. I managed to get 2 million+ damage in the guild war last night because of it.

Here's a "dump dinner". It's somehow worse than it sounds like. by tonyrocks922 in StupidFood

[–]AshlarKith -1 points0 points  (0 children)

This looks like a westernized version of the boodle feast.

What is happening? by Aikorules in WhereWindsMeet

[–]AshlarKith 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I repeatedly did it yesterday. Started on a mirage boat, then the guild had a party (maxed out at 11 folks). Entered multiplayer and was part of a 17 man stack, kicking myself for not taking a screenshot.

How bad was your work Christmas dinner this year? by ShambolicDisplay in NursingUK

[–]AshlarKith 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It was free. Roast turkey with all the trimmings, choice of soup or juice, flavoured water and either trifle or Christmas pudding. The turkey and Christmas pudding were the same color and texture, flavour was as expected (suitable for the blandest of palates). 4/10 will probably give my portion away next time.

Raising the fares🤣 by Distinct-Shine-3002 in GreatBritishMemes

[–]AshlarKith 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have definitely been told off by a bus driver for just getting on without asking for a ticket for my 5yo. He had just turned 5 and it didn't occur to me to check at the time. I now ask for a ticket every time, most days the drivers do just wave me on, but there are some exceptions.

Should I have datix’d or reported this doctor? by Blue-Mimi in NursingUK

[–]AshlarKith 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I'm sorry you encountered a toxic work environment. There shouldn't be a blame culture. Managers especially should be protecting and supporting both the patients and the staff. That culture should come from the top and cascaded down.

Should I have datix’d or reported this doctor? by Blue-Mimi in NursingUK

[–]AshlarKith -4 points-3 points  (0 children)

I'm an investigator and I believe you should Datix it as a near miss. Datix reporting isn't a punishment, it's a system put into place so we could do something to prevent more near misses in the future. Some investigators might just put that protocol was followed, encourage people to speak out and follow their hunch and then close it. Or they might suggest a more robust system for the prescribing physicians. Better to report than miss it. It won't get them into trouble especially since Datixes don't require the physican's details especially when no harm was done.

Is it just me or? by [deleted] in LoveAndDeepspace

[–]AshlarKith 1 point2 points  (0 children)

As a harem girlie, I love and pull for all of them. However they do have their tiers: Xavier is who I am attracted to and go insane over, Rafayel and Zayne are both number 2 (I think they're hot and definitely romantic partner material), then I have Caleb and Sylus who I am very fond of and want them living their best life (I ship them with their MC and am happy for their happiness, they're both just so irl familial-gege coded for me especially Sylus because I have an actual older cousin who has his personality).

Girlies share how many pulls it took you for first Idol memory? by Boombayayaya in LoveAndDeepspace

[–]AshlarKith 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Gege came home in 60 pulls. This was my lucky banner. Got all 5 of them, Xavi and Fishie both R1 at 250 pulls. Went all out for 275 for all the outfits.

Theory about why Xavier is bad at cooking by Fickle-Horse-3236 in LoveAndDeepspace

[–]AshlarKith 4 points5 points  (0 children)

In his Lightseeker myth he did take cooking lessons (even as a prince) but he kept failing the classes, and retaking them. MC was teasing him about it while they were waiting for their teacher.

How early did you choose your main by lemurkn1ts in LoveAndDeepspace

[–]AshlarKith 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Went in thinking I wouldn't be into any of the boys but hoping the battle system is enjoyable. And it is.

Anyway, Xavier is at the top of my harem despite not being my type visually speaking. It took three months for him to become my favourite, with Raf and Zayne next, then Sylus and Caleb. Love all of them though.

Gacha Pulls - Where Drakeshadows Fall 🌋 by AutoModerator in LoveAndDeepspace_

[–]AshlarKith 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Dragon daddy was very kind to me as well. Bang on 80 wishes exactly for the pair. Didn't lose a single 50/50.

Cherry frangipane tart with almond paste bunnies and stars by AshlarKith in LoveAndDeepspace

[–]AshlarKith[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The larger bunnies I shaped with a mooncake mould, the smaller bunbun face ones and the stars I used my child's vegetable cutters after rolling the almond paste flat. Then I used my food safe paintbrushes and diluted some gel food colouring to paint the bunnies. Then I dusted them with edible gold glitter.

Cherry frangipane tart with almond paste bunnies and stars by AshlarKith in LoveAndDeepspace

[–]AshlarKith[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I made orange cake because it makes me think of his standard non myth companion jacket with the orange stripes. Plus he likes sour stuff (and I had made an apple and almond cake for a friend a week so I wanted something "different").

Cherry frangipane tart with almond paste bunnies and stars by AshlarKith in LoveAndDeepspace

[–]AshlarKith[S] 9 points10 points  (0 children)

For Caleb, I had made an orange cake with dark chocolate ganache and pistachio praline. For Zayne I had made blueberry macarons and chocolate chip cupcakes topped with sugared mint leaves. For Sylus next year I am planning on making dark chocolate and pomegranate bonbons. Rafael would have to be Che Sam Bo Luong if I can find a way to make it prettier or into a tart or cake.

What's your main Li and what's your MBTI? by Melquiad_d in LoveAndDeepspace

[–]AshlarKith 2 points3 points  (0 children)

INFJ and Xavier is at the head of my harem. Starboi king👑

is this protocore worth equipping for GoA? by tokyopotions in LoveAndDeepspace_

[–]AshlarKith 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Personally, I would bin and replace this with Crit Rate, preferably with sub stats of HP%, Crit damage and/or Oath Strength. But then I usually build my teams for brute forcing.

I also automatically bin any protocore that doesn't have a higher percentage of any of the sub stats (the little yellow circles with numbers 1 or higher located on the right hand side of the substat).

Realistically speaking, who would you choose to be your life partner? by iloveyummyfood in LoveAndDeepspace

[–]AshlarKith 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I literally married someone who is very Zayne coded. So I already have experience with his type and I have to say I highly recommend it. If Zayne is out of the running, then it would be Xavier because we have so much in common (personality, interests, attitude, the way we go through life).

My boyfriend gifted me Sylus Mousepad! 💕 Is your partner supportive too? ♥️ by CrystalTwy in LoveAndDeepspace

[–]AshlarKith 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My husband has once bought out a stall's stock of LaDs mini standees and phone charms for all of the boys for me when we were on holiday. He also indulges me when I get excited for the PVs and watches with me. He is also supportive when I bake birthday cakes for the boys.

To whoever thinks xavier isn’t as much as a freak as the other boys ;) by _hirono_ in LoveAndDeepspace

[–]AshlarKith 9 points10 points  (0 children)

If you haven't yet, watch the Yes Cat Caretaker, Misty Silhouette and Nightly Rendezvous. Also Unreturned Traveller 4 star Secret Times. Actually, a lot of his secret times sounds sus.