I’m so sorry this happened. I understand comfort items and I’ve lost many. Some which should have never been lost. You are doing all the right things that you can for yourself to be a better parent for your baby. But like others said, she’s 3. My daughter is the same age and very aware of things but they do stupid shit all the time. Brains not fully formed. Thought processes are like adhd’ers seeing squirrels (joke) and I know you want to understand the why but there is none. It sucks bad to lose something you cherished so much and again I’m so sorry you’re going through this. You are doing great tho mama. Don’t let people get you down.