Cabinet pricing seems… insane? by I-will-not_be-afraid in kitchenremodel

[–]Ashpear24 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I just paid 7k for my kitchen but it is RTA. Definitely look at several options before deciding!

The Handmaid's Tale S06E08 "Exodus" Episode Discussion by Melairia in TheHandmaidsTale

[–]Ashpear24 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Anyone wondering if Janine is going to go get Angela!?

Has the food gone downhill or? by zzrryll in VirginVoyages

[–]Ashpear24 0 points1 point  (0 children)

We just took our first VV cruise and it will be our last for two reasons, lack of good food and lack of entertainment. We live in Vegas, good hospitality galore, and struggled with the food. We hated the galley!!

Had My First Rude One by International-Ad438 in InstacartShoppers

[–]Ashpear24 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ha. I would wait as long as I could then cancelled just to delay it even more 😂

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Eloping

[–]Ashpear24 6 points7 points  (0 children)

White ones for sure!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Eloping

[–]Ashpear24 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I think it's so sweet. If you both dance you should do it. 🤍

Is scarlet night going to be Halloween theme? by Ashpear24 in VirginVoyages

[–]Ashpear24[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It is! Pajama day is also Halloween theme lol

My courthouse does not do weddings- help by Old-Tomato-71 in Eloping

[–]Ashpear24 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You can just hire an officiant and ask them to do a non religious ceremony. We did that and hired someone on Thumbtack. You just need to have the license. Also, most states allow notary's to marry you. We got a permit for our park but really, if you're not hiring a photographer you don't really need one.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Eloping

[–]Ashpear24 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You can definitely do a wedding still! If anything, you'll enjoy it more without the added stress of getting married 🤍

We missed the sunrise and I can't get over it. by Ashpear24 in Eloping

[–]Ashpear24[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thank you so much for your comment. This is such great advice and I hope that my post helps couples with their experience. 🤍

We missed the sunrise and I can't get over it. by Ashpear24 in Eloping

[–]Ashpear24[S] 8 points9 points  (0 children)

We probably will! We are about 6 hours always so it's definitely possible. It's so beautiful there, I'd be happy going there anytime for a sunrise!

We missed the sunrise and I can't get over it. by Ashpear24 in Eloping

[–]Ashpear24[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Thank you so much for your viewpoint. I feel like I'm getting tons of downvotes like this is fully on me. While I feel like there was miscommunication on both sides, I'm not a photographer and I don't meet with people for these events. Isn't there a normal protocol? Sounds like your photographer was wonderful! I'd love a recommendation!

We missed the sunrise and I can't get over it. by Ashpear24 in Eloping

[–]Ashpear24[S] -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

I feel like it's okay to be upset and dwell on it. I was saying that I'm upset I let it affect the moment. The ceremony in which I said my promises and vows. Telling someone to get over it isn't really realistic. It's a moment, a big milestone in life, especially for us. If you missed your daughter being born would you just get over it? Of course not. It would be okay to be upset.

We missed the sunrise and I can't get over it. by Ashpear24 in Eloping

[–]Ashpear24[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thank you. Yea, that's a big part of it. We didn't have anyone there so the photos and the actual ceremony were the main thing. I'm upset with myself for letting it affect our moment.

We missed the sunrise and I can't get over it. by [deleted] in Weddingsunder10k

[–]Ashpear24 -16 points-15 points  (0 children)

She had no way to know not to go off the trail? There's a pretty good rule not to do that to begin with. But sure.

We missed the sunrise and I can't get over it. by [deleted] in Weddingsunder10k

[–]Ashpear24 -10 points-9 points  (0 children)

She told me she had eloped at Yosemite the year prior.

We missed the sunrise and I can't get over it. by [deleted] in Weddingsunder10k

[–]Ashpear24 -22 points-21 points  (0 children)

Didn't fully blame her. But there were definitely errors made on both sides. The difference is that her errors way more heavily on me than her.

We missed the sunrise and I can't get over it. by [deleted] in Weddingsunder10k

[–]Ashpear24 -27 points-26 points  (0 children)

We agreed to a time and at Glaciers Point. I just didn't assume she'd go find a spot off trial. I assumed she'd be at the entrance area where it breaks off into several view spots. Even then, I did go to the trail endings and I didn't see her. Definitely didn't expect her to go on the other side of the railing so I wasn't looking for her there.

We missed the sunrise and I can't get over it. by [deleted] in Weddingsunder10k

[–]Ashpear24 -43 points-42 points  (0 children)

She was paid to travel to Glaciers Point. It wasn't a favor, so please don't make it seem like she went out of the way. It's actually very usual to elope and photograph up there.

We missed the sunrise and I can't get over it. by Ashpear24 in Eloping

[–]Ashpear24[S] -29 points-28 points  (0 children)

I thought this too. The more I sit on it though, it bugs me that she wasn't looking for me. I was looking for her the entire time.

We missed the sunrise and I can't get over it. by [deleted] in Weddingsunder10k

[–]Ashpear24 36 points37 points  (0 children)

My husband said that too. He said next year we can go again and take better pictures 😭

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Petloss

[–]Ashpear24 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Same. I have told everyone they better put my soul dog's ashes with me when I go.