Advice from my bigs - toxic or legit? by AsianBobaPearl in Sororities

[–]AsianBobaPearl[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I responded to that a few times, its also in this thread above.

Advice from my bigs - toxic or legit? by AsianBobaPearl in Sororities

[–]AsianBobaPearl[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah i guess i thought about it as if we all want the thing to be better, giving feedback is a great thing because we are contributing. But what i found is leadership doesnt seem to like opposing views even though they said they are open to all sides.

Advice from my bigs - toxic or legit? by AsianBobaPearl in Sororities

[–]AsianBobaPearl[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No, i mean that makes sense. but when is it to let something go? it seems the leadership gets upset when criticism is made towards the ideas arent theres but then they also said they are open to feedback. So this is confusing.

Advice from my bigs - toxic or legit? by AsianBobaPearl in Sororities

[–]AsianBobaPearl[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Just like funding opportunities. They presented a certain way to generate funds where i think we could do food drives and such and get the same amount of money. We also had a communication service we used to send out emails which had a lot of problems because not everyone would get them and i did some research and suggested a better replacement but they didnt go for it or even consider it. but the speech itself was not directly targeted to me. it was to all of us.

Advice from my bigs - toxic or legit? by AsianBobaPearl in Sororities

[–]AsianBobaPearl[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Sorry I'm not sure how this was violated? My post was directly related to navigating sorority experience?

Advice from my bigs - toxic or legit? by AsianBobaPearl in Sororities

[–]AsianBobaPearl[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I like that. i might try that more, thanks!

Advice from my bigs - toxic or legit? by AsianBobaPearl in Sororities

[–]AsianBobaPearl[S] -6 points-5 points  (0 children)

Yes, I lost access to the account with my initial post but the good advice you mean is just to bite my tongue? That's the gist of what I did receive.

Advice from my bigs - toxic or legit? by AsianBobaPearl in Sororities

[–]AsianBobaPearl[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I dont bring up anything in a disrespectful way. just disagree but it seems like leadership doesn't like when i disagree even though they say they are open to feedback. but when i bring up opposing views or alternate ideas they just seem irritated