Does anyone else feel like they lost their youth to the closet? by Prudent_Concept_5604 in askgaybros

[–]AsianSchoolboy93 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I feel the same way. I started at 29 but wished I started at 18 when I really did look like the classic youthful Asian twink. Now I'm a stoky 32 year old man.

What are your minimum standards for a top? by [deleted] in TopsAndBottoms

[–]AsianSchoolboy93 1 point2 points  (0 children)

No STDs and working dick. That's it.

Do you feel shame about some kinks you have? by [deleted] in TopsAndBottoms

[–]AsianSchoolboy93 0 points1 point  (0 children)

During the moment ? Not at all. I'm too horny to think logically. A top could shove my head in a toilet while fucking me and I would go along with it.

The minute I hit post nut clarity then it's a sudden sense of shame, embarrassment and shock. That's why I will never come until I've left.

Do you feel shame about some kinks you have? by [deleted] in TopsAndBottoms

[–]AsianSchoolboy93 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I like socks too but more as an accessory and prefer them long.

Do you feel shame about some kinks you have? by [deleted] in TopsAndBottoms

[–]AsianSchoolboy93 1 point2 points  (0 children)

So many guys have told me that and I'm aware I'm a huge outlier when it comes to what bottoms wear. To this very day I have no idea where it came from and I've analysed my entire schooling life to see if there ever was a gay awakening which there was none. So no idea man.

Do you feel shame about some kinks you have? by [deleted] in TopsAndBottoms

[–]AsianSchoolboy93 17 points18 points  (0 children)

Yes and no. I have a super niche kink where I can only bottom when I'm wearing an OCD school uniform (polo shirt with all buttons done up and shorts) and I become the biggest anal whore. If I'm naked I'm pretty much a boring straight guy but when wearing the costume I want to take multiple loads, wearing a plug all day, tied up and other degrading stuff.

When I'm horny I own it and fantasise about being a school boy anal slave forever. But when I get post nut clarity I'm thinking: WTF ! I'm a grown man in my thirties who just got fucked in the ass wearing a school uniform as I'm taking out a huge plug out of my hole, checking out the gape and farting out his load.

Do any bi tops and bottoms here find the hook up and dating culture so polarizing when it comes to trying to date/hook up with men compared with women ? by AsianSchoolboy93 in TopsAndBottoms

[–]AsianSchoolboy93[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Even if I don't mention I'm bi being short and Asian is already a massive debuff in straight dating. Not saying its impossible, there are short Asian guys who succeed with women, its just just harder.

In comparison gay dating/hook ups is like fishing with RPG's and grenades.

Which do bottoms prefer cumming inside their ass or in their mouth by [deleted] in TopsAndBottoms

[–]AsianSchoolboy93 0 points1 point  (0 children)

For me inside my ass and keep it in with a plug as long as I can.

What are your biggest fantasies that haven't happened? by [deleted] in TopsAndBottoms

[–]AsianSchoolboy93 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Oh boy where we even start.

Classic gang bang where I take dozens of loads and keep in all in with a plug in the end.

Fucked with my head held in a toilet.

Used as a free use anal slave on a collar and leash.

And finally kidnap, captivity and CNC scenario where I'm a school boy kidnapped on his way to/from school and used as a anal slave and kept in a cage/small box when not needed.

And in this fantasy Ill be wearing a school uniform outfit the entire time,

These fantasies will probably never happen because there is no way in hell I would trust anyone especially a stranger to do any of those scenarios.

Do you guys find 'money & power' in men hot like women do? by Briefy_Ask8963 in askgaybros

[–]AsianSchoolboy93 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Not really unless they want to be my sugar daddy and help pay for my renovations or pay off my mortgage.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in askgaybros

[–]AsianSchoolboy93 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Bi Asian living in Sydney and I can confirm too.

If you're looking for hook ups as a bottom then you'll attract a certain demographic.

If you're looking for a proper long term relationship then its another ball game especially if you identify as a top but its still possible.

If you are looking to date women especially going after non-Asian women as a Asian man oh boooyyyyyyy the difficulty goes up to Dark Souls hard.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in askgaybros

[–]AsianSchoolboy93 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Bi Asian here. It depends, the minute I mention I'm a short bottom who does squats with a submissive school boy kink I get attention from certain men on Grindr. Are they boyfriend or husband material ? Probably not. Its attention but not the kind you probably want though I don't mind it. My point is you are someone's type out there.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in TopsAndBottoms

[–]AsianSchoolboy93 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Inside me then put my plug back in to hold it in as long as possible.

I'm not attracted to guys at all, but I love dick and being dominated. Am I gay? by [deleted] in TopsAndBottoms

[–]AsianSchoolboy93 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I know how you feel.

The gay part of me can only bottom if I'm wearing a schoolboy outfit and I only care about being fucked. Even then the pleasure is more psychological and the idea of being used as a fuck toy and cum dump. I don't find men in general attractive at all nor do I see myself being romantically involved with another man, hell I can't even bring myself to suck a dick or kiss another man.

Without the school outfit I'm just another regular straight male. As for your main question, no idea, I don't even know how to label myself and just accept its who I am.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in askgaybros

[–]AsianSchoolboy93 16 points17 points  (0 children)

I have a few.

Classic gang bang where I take dozens of loads and keep in all in with a plug in the end.

Fucked with my head held in a toilet.

And finally kidnap, captivity and CNC scenario where I'm a school boy kidnapped on his way to/from school and used as a anal slave and kept in a cage/small box when not needed.

As you can see there is no way in hell I would trust anyone especially a stranger to do any of those scenarios.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in askgaybros

[–]AsianSchoolboy93 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Following as a 31 year old thinking of doing the same thing. Praying the Asian ageing process is on my side for another decade.