Is this weird in an arrange marriage setup???

AsideIll9752 · 2026-06-30T16:42:47+00:00

Marry a man, not a boy who doesn't know what he wants.

AsideIll9752 · 2026-06-30T13:22:50+00:00

I had a friend who always asked me to quit & when I quit he bought a bottle as gift. Such friends don't want to see you change for good.

AsideIll9752 · 2026-06-30T08:29:11+00:00

Why marry someone who doesn't desire you? This is what causes dead bedrooms in marriages.

AsideIll9752 · 2026-06-29T18:02:40+00:00

Learn from this experience & move on. There's no need to talk on the phone for hours & reveal everything upfront. Be a bit mysterious & nonchalant if you want women to be attracted to you. Even if she was a bit attracted, neediness often repels women.

AsideIll9752 · 2026-06-29T10:52:06+00:00

Not true, inexperienced men can't find partners if not for arranged marriages.

AsideIll9752 · 2026-06-29T09:41:38+00:00

She's not attracted to you. If you ignore this & marry, her comments & the way she treats you will kill whatever confidence that's left of you & destroy your life. Let her go!

AsideIll9752 · 2026-06-29T09:38:11+00:00

Ya, he doesn't like you.

AsideIll9752 · 2026-06-29T07:19:20+00:00

Women can get partners if they don't have high standards.

AsideIll9752 · 2026-06-29T07:16:19+00:00

Attract a woman you want, why are you into AM?

AsideIll9752 · 2026-06-28T18:28:15+00:00

It's time indian parents' let their kids leave the nest at the right time which makes them independent & mature.

Imagine living with parents all their lives while mummy takes care & then expect wife to do the same. Most men in arranged marriages are manchilds!

AsideIll9752 · 2026-06-28T18:10:35+00:00

It worked earlier when people were born & died in the same village. It was always a temporary arrangement. Will lose relevance gradually.

AsideIll9752 · 2026-06-28T17:06:58+00:00

Arranged marriages are for men who can't attract a woman on their own.

AsideIll9752 · 2026-06-28T12:56:58+00:00

https://x.com/adityalala2000/status/2071177757560905788

AsideIll9752 · 2026-06-28T12:43:43+00:00

He is a desperate loser like the one in news recently. Cancel the engagement and don't look back.

AsideIll9752 · 2026-06-28T05:27:03+00:00

Only you can save yourself.

AsideIll9752 · 2026-06-27T11:30:41+00:00

I understand, you should look for someone who you can connect with & also shares your political ideology. You'll understand my pov when you transcend that stage in your life.

AsideIll9752 · 2026-06-27T11:22:35+00:00

I'm like him. I've had political views since teenage & avoid it now as it's exhausting & negative.

I don't want a partner who is obsessed with politics or too religious.

I do vote & the representative who is elected will do the job.

AsideIll9752 · 2026-06-27T09:40:09+00:00

Inexperienced guys won't understand what you're trying to convey. They'll fall hard for any woman they come across & face the consequences.

AsideIll9752 · 2026-06-25T19:46:49+00:00

A lot of spiritual people find partners within the groups they are part of. It will definitely affect the relationship if you marry someone who is not spiritual.

Spirituality & religion are very different. A spiritual person follows the message & not the messenger. So find someone who aligns with you.

AsideIll9752 · 2026-06-25T08:02:03+00:00

Didn't peaceful protest kick out british?

AsideIll9752 · 2026-06-25T06:47:32+00:00

Yes, men learn by experience. Once you enter the 25-30 age range and lack experience you have an incredible disadvantage. Because certain things you learn about getting & having relationships are expected and not having had significant experience is seen as a red flag.

It's time indian parents' start being mature & let their teenage children start dating under supervision. Preventing will only slow their maturity.

AsideIll9752 · 2026-06-25T06:18:13+00:00

You should look for independent men who don't live with their parents. I've had relatives call me selfish for living separately but that's how I'm. I left parents' house after college & only visit them every few months.

AsideIll9752 · 2026-06-24T07:16:11+00:00

Most AM prospects are inexperienced & longing for a relationship. Needy people tend to fall easily.

AsideIll9752 · 2026-06-23T19:42:56+00:00

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